By Megan Weks

Thinking about moving in with him? Read some expert relationship advice to see if you are ready to make this move.

Making the next big step in the relationship!

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In this week’s Singles In Stilettos, dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Dr. Diana Kirschner about why you can’t find the one. Watch the video above, and read the article below to find out some good dating tips in your life.

Searching For The One

Dr. Diana Kirschner is a PBS Love Expert, Psychologist, and the best selling author to many books. Kirschner had a difficult time finding love for herself, and a difficult childhood that led to her finding her passions today.

1. Unconscious patterns: We as people are prone to our unconscious patterns, but sometimes they are very strong which can lead to continuously dating to not find the one. Start to become conscious of whatever pattern you’ve been playing out, and then overcome this pattern. Kirschner said the “I will make you love me pattern…but you can’t make anyone love you.” This all has to do with self-esteem and the belief that no one will love you. You can see this when you realize you are always taking care of your partner, you never really get a turn to get help. “It’s like you need to produce in order to get love,” Kirschner tells us.

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2. Not perfect, I’ll pass: For this reason, you find little imperfections on a person, and say he’s “not perfect.” In this pattern, “perfectly great guys come along but they are rejected, often are in women’s early years.” We have to realize that there’s no perfect guy, and there’s going to be something that isn’t on your “checklist.” You have to see if he is able to grow as a man and be able to improve his imperfections.

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3. The flameout: An example, for this reason, would be attending a 5-hour date and having sex, which is too much intimacy in a short amount of time. This pattern also happens to be fueled by fear because you feel like you have to jump in quickly. Women are prone to feel if they don’t move fast enough, that person might get away.

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By Robert Manni

Question from Anna B (Binghamton, New York): I recently found my significant other (who I met on online) using an online dating website when I was on it. What should I do next?

Caught partner on online dating site, what should I do next?

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By: Joshua Pompey

Online dating can be tricky. With so many moving parts and different components, it’s often hard to diagnose how to improve your results. If you are having trouble attracting the highest quality singles, you may want to look into having your profile revamped by a professional. Below are 5 reasons why you should hire a professional online dating profile writer:

Hire an Online Dating Profile Writer

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October brings on the spooky vibes. This month’s column is going to focus on cocktails inspired by a couple of villains and a badass woman who are icons, especially during the Halloween time. The cocktails include a celebrity brand to as well as a simple alternative spirit. Their libations will get you to have a scary good time.

Halloween Cocktails For A Scary Good Time

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In this week’s Single In Stiletto’s dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talk to Robert Manni about 4 types of men you’ll meet online. Watch the video above and the article below for good dating tips in your life!

Different Types of Men You Meet Online

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In this weeks Single in Stilettos, dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Antia Boyd about the #1 thing holding you back from the right relationship. Watch the video above and read the article below to find out some good dating tips in your life!

What’s Holding You Back In A Relationship

Boyd tells us that the number one thing holding us back from the right relationship is that we’re always wanting to be right! Boyd states, “I need to be right because when I’m right I can rely on that and I can’t rely on anyone else.” She explains this is how most women feel, and this can ultimately hold you back.

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You have to be willing to be wrong in dating. Acknowledge you can be wrong, and that will allow you to fully open up. Us women are so used to being, “strong independent women” and we love being in control and always knowing the outcome. Oshima states, “sometimes you just have to go with the flow and that’s how things happen organically.” It’s hard sometimes for independent women to allow the man to take the lead and receive in a relationship. But doing so, will let your relationship thrive!

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Most women haven’t perfected the “transitioning” between work mode, and love mode. Women should have a transition between when they leave work to when they are back with their significant other, so it shows a man that you’re giving them your undivided attention. 

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In this week’s Single In Stilettos dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Lisa Shield about how casual sex can turn into love. Lisa Shield is a dating and relationship coach on emotionally naked dating. Watch the video above, and read the article below to find out some good dating tips in your life!

Expert Talks About Sex and Love

1. Don’t Act on What Mother Nature Wants: As human beings we are designed to have a sex drive with the opposite sex. With this sex drive, “mother nature” wants us to propagate with the opposite sex to continue the circle of life because this is what we were designed for. But, despite what mother nature wants for us, we can’t act on our drive for sex. If you decide to act on your impulses this will lead you to being “ghosted” and it won’t last.

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2. Separate Sex From Dating: If you decide that you just want to have a sexual partner, then make sure you pick someone that you won’t be emotionally involved with. Keep your recreational sex and dating separate, because it doesn’t change as you get older. Shield states, “you have to share your head before you share your bed.”

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3. Wait to Have Sex Until You Are Comfortable: Shield explains if you know you’ve found the love of your life, why would you want to rush into things if you have forever. “The minute you introduce sex, it becomes about sex at least in the very beginning,” Shield tells us. Wait till the relationship gets deeper, and more meaningful so when you actually do have sex, that’s when it’s more intimate.

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Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Written by Gillian Lee

Who hasn’t heard of Dance Moms? Virtually nobody. So you’ve most likely seen dancing legend Ava Cota, but did you know just how much this young starlet has accomplished? At just 16 years old, Cota is not only a professional dancer and reality star, but she recently added model and media influencer to her repertoire, with the goal of spreading positivity. Cota started dancing at a young age and was trained at a studio founded by her mother.  She says that this inspired her to become the dancer she is today. Realizing she had a passion for dance, Cota wanted to dance professionally and has certainly succeeded in her dream. In our celebrity interview, we talk to Cota about her dancing life and what she dreams of next.

Celebrity Interview with Ava Cota: Spreading Positivity

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In this week’s Singles In Stilettos, dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Hunt Ethridge about three signs he’s definitely falling in love with you. Watch the video above, and read the article below to find out some good dating tips in your life!

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By Gillian Lee

Sometimes it can be uncomfortable to talk about the products we are using in our bathroom, but we couldn’t help telling you about these amazing finds!

Product Review: You should keep these staple self-care/beauty products in your bathroom at all times!

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By Joshua Pompey

As the head of Next Evolution Matchmaking, I am hired by busy and successful professionals to serve as their very own online dating assistant. But I don’t just assist them with the process, I take complete control of the process. If you don’t have the time to build an online profile, keep reading for some dating advice from relationship expert Joshua Pompey 

Have Someone Find You Matches!

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By Robert Manni

Question from Gillian L., Manhattan, “Hey Guy’s Guy, whats the best way of turning an online connection into a real date?

You have a match on your favorite dating app and the conversations online are taking off. You’re up for hours talking to your match but you’re nervous about meeting in person. How can you be sure to impress on a first date when you’ve already gotten to know each other? How do you make a successful transition from online to in person dating? Read dating advice from our relationship expert Robert Manni!

Score That First Date!

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In this week’s Single in Stilettos dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Duana Welch. Watch the video above and read the article below for some good tips in your dating life!

Why Are We Repelling Men We Desire?

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By Dr. Amy Osmond Cook

We all know how great dogs are; no one can quite match your dog’s unique brand of love. While your fuzzy fur baby will always be the love of your life, did you know that your dog can also make your human relationships better?

According to my research, having a dog is good for you. Not only does having one in your life lower your stress levels and blood pressure, but your furry family member also boosts your immune system and brings added joy to your personal relationships. Here are four reasons being a dog person makes you a better people person.

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In this week’s Single In Stiletto’s dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Cheyenne Bostock about three things men wish you knew but will never tell you. Watch the video above and read the article below for some good tips in your dating life!

Dating Advice On What Men Wished You Knew!

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By Megan Weks

After having my heart beaten to a pulp too many times in my life, I’ve learned a valuable lesson: there’s no time like the present to get back into the saddle. But before you get too skeptical, hear me out on this expert relationship love advice. Trust me, I’m a relationship expert. 

Expert Relationship Advice to Help You Move On After a Breakup!

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By Yolanda Shoshana

Everyday it seems like another celebrity is announcing a new wine or spirit. It’s hard to keep up, especially when some of them are being quiet about it. There are some famous folks who just put their name on some booze so they can make money. However there are some celebs who do it for love. Below is a list of libations that the stars are putting their heart into.

In The Name of Love Celebrities Libations

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