Cupid's Pulse Article: Expert Dating Advice: 5 Reasons to Hire A Online Dating AssistantCupid's Pulse Article: Expert Dating Advice: 5 Reasons to Hire A Online Dating Assistant

By Joshua Pompey

As the head of Next Evolution Matchmaking, I am hired by busy and successful professionals to serve as their very own online dating assistant. But I don’t just assist them with the process, I take complete control of the process. If you don’t have the time to build an online profile, keep reading for some dating advice from relationship expert Joshua Pompey 

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As their online dating assistant, I’m not only finding them matches, but  I’m also writing all their emails and lining up dates as well. While this may sound a little extreme to some, I believe that the birth of online dating assistants has only just begun. Below are several arguments as to why we should embrace the idea. Keep reading to find out more from our relationship expert!

1. Hiring an assistant is nothing new

Need someone to clean your house? You hire a housekeeper. Are you a busy career mom? You hire a babysitter. Too busy to find love? Why not hire an online dating assistant? People have sought help from skilled professionals since the beginning of time. Hiring a professional to handle what is arguably the most important component of your entire life, finding love, sounds like a worthwhile cause to me.

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2. There just aren’t enough hours in the day.

Online dating is a full time job if you are going to fully dedicate yourself to the process in a meaningful way. Being busy and successful shouldn’t require love and happiness to be put on the back burner. A professional online dating assistant can complete all the time consuming aspects that you might not otherwise have the time to pursue on your own.

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3. Online dating assistants can save you months, or years of loneliness

Want to know one the biggest reasons people quit online dating? It’s because they just aren’t successful at it.  After a few weeks or months of bad dates, they eventually quit, but it doesn’t have to be this way. A professional online dater will bring experience and skill to the table, navigating the online world for you in a way that yields quality results.  Not being an expert at online dating shouldn’t mean that you have to waste months, or even years of your life navigating these dating sites without finding the happiness you deserve.

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4. Nobody is being deceived on a massive scale

If this was the 1993 Sleepless in Seattle version of online dating, where two people are pouring their souls out over dozens of emails and getting to know each other on an intimate level over the computer, than yes, this would be very deceiving and immoral. 

Fast forward to the present and the email exchanges on dating sites are about as harmless and lighthearted as it gets. Sure, when I work on a client’s account at Next Evolution Matchmaking, I am writing emails as my clients. But these are mainly just superficial exchanges where I help to facilitate the exchange of phone numbers. Once that’s complete, it’s entirely up to the client to take things from there.

5. Online dating assistants take over the tedious aspects of online dating.

Let’s face it, online dating just isn’t fun! Sure, you could endlessly swipe right, chase down other singles, and write repetitive emails day after day. Or you could hire a pro and be free to do things you actually like to do! At the end of the day, sometimes pampering yourself is just plain worth it!

Joshua Pompey is the founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking.  For information about how Joshua Pompey helps online daters, visit this page.