In this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert and intimacy coach Iris Benrubi about her best dating advice for single women over 40. If you’re wondering if you’ll ever find a relationship and love, check out the video above!
Three Tips to Help You Find a Relationship and Love
Here are three pieces of expert dating advice to help you meet The One:
1. Do something different: Look at what you’ve been doing in your search for love and try something new. “If you’re not meeting the right man and the same thing keeps happening in the dating scene…you need to start doing things differently,” Oshima explains. For instance, if you haven’t had any luck at a bar, head to the park or coffee shop.
2. Handle your anxiety: There are a lot of risks when it comes to looking for love, and it’s important to handle the anxiety that comes with that risk in a healthy way. “Learn to soothe yourself so you’re not depending on a man to soothe you,” Benrubi shares.
3. Learn to acknowledge men: “They need to know that you admire and respect them,” Benrubi says. It’s important that he knows how he makes you feel. It’s that simple!
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Has your marriage lost that lovin’ feeling? The same old New Year’s resolutions of getting into sexy shape by going to the gym won’t rekindle the once burning embers in your relationships and love. Now is the time to reignite your relationship flame. It’s important to remember that you did find the right person, but somewhere along the way you lost yourself. Think back to the time you fell in love. Not long ago, you could look at each other and instantly know each other’s thoughts or just the memory of your loved one made you smile. You can be that right person for each other again. As a relationship expert, my dating advice is to start by conjuring up those lost memories while you work on the five following commitments.
You feel discouraged and are tired of looking for Mr. Right. Still, you keep saying yes to guy after guy, hoping that he might be The One. You’re not alone — we’ve been there too! But have you ever been on 121 first dates? Author and relationship expert Wendy Newman has, and she divulges the many lessons learned in her new book 121 First Dates: How to Succeed at Online Dating, Fall in Love, and Live Happily Ever After (Really!). Not only does she share years of research and intimate details about her many first dates, but she makes us laugh in the process. In our exclusive interview, the author talks about the inspiration for her tell-all, her best and worst first date, and her most valuable piece of relationship advice. …Want to know more? Click here for our interview with Wendy!
In this celebrity interview, 'Mob Wives' reality TV star Renee Graziano talks about the final season & shares date ideas & relationship advice. Photo: PRN / PRPhotos.com
After five mob-tastic seasons, the VH1 reality TV show Mob Wives will be coming to an end. The series sixth and final season premiered last week on Wednesday, January 13th. In our exclusive celebrity interview, we got the latest scoop on the drama from Renee Graziano, one of the original cast members. She reveals why she didn’t want to film the show and opens up about her friendship with Natalie Guercio and her relationship and love life!
Ben Higgins premieres as the leading man on season 20 of 'The Bachelor.' Photo: GG/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Myesha Cobb
The Bachelor season 20 kicked off earlier this week with all of the drama that fans have grown to love on the realityTV show. The premiere episode included leading man Ben Higgins handing out the First Impression Rose, engaging in drunk exchanges, and, of course, breaking some hearts during eliminations. According to the latest celebrity news in UsMagazine.com, one of the contestants, Lace Morris, was so drunk that she went in for a second kiss. Not only was she rejected, but she was also interrupted by another contestant, Mandi Kremer, who she threatened to punch. There’s no doubt that there will be more fights and jealousy as Higgins looks for a relationship and love on The Bachelor season 20!
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If you’re looking for the latest celebrity news on Hollywood romances, you’ve come to the right place! Below, I consider the future of three new celebrity couples.
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Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner. Photo: Janet Mayer / PRPhotos.com
By Project Soulmate’s Business Director Samantha Cohen.Contributors: Project Soulmate Matchmakers and BRAVO TV’s Love Brokers Lori Zaslow and Jennifer Zucher
From Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt to Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck, we have seen many of our favorite Hollywood couples unexpectedly split. The reason for their celebrity divorces may vary, but many of the underlying issues are the same. While celebrities may seem to have a perfect relationship and love to an outsider, they all deal with real-life martial issues and temptations like everyone else. The main difference is that they’re constantly being dissected by the media and have pressure to maintain a certain image. Keep reading for our relationship advice on what these celebrity divorces can teach you.
Authors Elizabeth and Jim Carroll reveal their best relationship advice on the top 10 marriage killers and building a rock solid relationship and love.
Relationships and love are not easy to maintain, especially if you’ve been married for years. In the new self-help book by reality TV stars Jim and Elizabeth Carroll, the couple shares their best relationship advice on defeating the top 10 marriage killers and building a rock solid relationship. Their book, Marriage Boot Camp: Defeat the Top 10 Marriage Killers and Build a Rock Solid Relationship, will help you reignite the flames in your love life. In this exclusive author interview, the duo talks about their love advice to save your marriage. …On the edge of your seat? Click here for more!
In latest celebrity news, The Bachelor prepares to premiere on January 4th. In the meantime, we’re soaking up every last piece of information about the season as we can. What are Bachelor Ben Higgins’ hopes for the end of the season? “Ideally, I would love to walk away from this with a fiance,” he said. “I’m excited about that next step of seeing her walk down the aisle towards me.” With that kind of attitude, this season is sure not to disappoint longtime fans! Maybe we’ll have a new married celebrity couple on our hands.
In latest celebrity news, we’re so excited about the new season of The Bachelor! How do you know when you’ve found the love of your life?
Jada Pinkett Smith and Will Smith. Photo: PRPhotos.com
By Donna Arp Weitzman
It’s virtually impossible to enter any new relationship without hauling in some personal baggage. We all have our histories—children from a former marriage, ex-spouses, ex-partners, or ex-in-laws. Your new special someone comes with emotional luggage. We all do. Even celebrity couples like Jada Pinkett-Smith and Will Smith have been there. So have Kate Capshaw, Steven Spielberg, Demi Moore, Bruce Willis, Catherine Zeta-Jones … the list goes on. Each of them ventured into the world of new coupledom with a hearty amount of histories on their shoulders.
Here are 5 pieces of relationship advice to help you change your outlook, and unpack relationship baggage:
Happy New Year! Photo: Steve Pepple / Bigstock.com
By Toni Coleman, LCSW
Once again it’s time for that honored tradition of setting and then breaking our New Year’s resolutions. Year after year we tell ourselves that this time it will be different; then armed with a renewed feeling of determination and optimism, we prepare to say goodbye to our bad habits, unhealthy lifestyle choices, and/or dead end job or even our relationship and love. Then at the beginning of February, we find that much of our resolve has been replaced with a feeling of defeat and a resignation that our life probably won’t ever be what we want it to be. As a relationship expert, I know it’s hard when your dating goals aren’t met. Keep reading for my relationship advice on why you’re dating New Year’s resolutions are failing and what to do about it.
Best known for her role in Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon, Zhang Ziyi welcomed her first celebrity baby with rocker husband Wang Feng, according to UsMagazine.com. The celebrity couple posted a photo to her Weibo, a Chinese social media site, that depicts her hand and her husband hand holding their daughter’s tiny fingers. Though this is Ziyi’s first child, it is the third child for Feng, who shares two daughters with his ex-wives.
News of the birth of celebrity babies is always welcome! What are some ways to balance your love life with your family life?
Ho ho ho, merry Christmas…politically incorrect as that might be. To tell you the truth, I miss the days when Rudolph and Santa reigned and everybody wasn’t as PC by saying “happy holidays,” but it’s the perfect season to put the focus back on your relationship and love. Even though the magic might be fading in your LTR, I have some great date ideas and relationship advice that will wake up the romance and bring the naughty and nice back into your sleepy, long term relationship.
One thing that can be even harder than finding “The One,” is staying with them. In her new self-help relationship book, New York Times best selling author Arielle Ford shares 16 simple yet exciting steps to reignite the flames in your relationship and love. In her new book Turn Your Mate Into Your Soulmate, Ford says that you can reinvigorate your love life no matter how extinct you may think it is. In this exclusive author interview Ford opens up about her own marriage, talks about her favorite celebrity relationships, and gives her best date ideas and relationship advice.
Though they’re no longer a celebrity couple, Madonna is standing up for her ex-husband Sean Penn, in latest celebrity news. According to UsMagazine.com, Penn is currently suing Empire creator Lee Daniels for defamation after he alleged that Penn is abusive toward women while defending Terrence Howard during an interview with the Hollywood Reporter. In a new declaration submitted via Penn’s amended lawsuit, Madonna denies all reports of abuse, calling them “outrageous, reckless, and false.”
This celebrity news show that past love dies hard. What are some reasons to stay in contact with an ex partner?
In latest celebrity news, Khloe Kardashian is pissed, and she’s speaking out about it. The Keeping Up With the Kardashians star gave her feedback during a live chat on her website Thursday, according to UsMagazine.com. Apparently there are haters out there saying that Kardashian is the reason her boyfriend James Harden isn’t having a good NBA season. “Someone’s giving me too much power,” she said, among other more vulgar things during a pretty aggressive rant. This celebrity couple is still going strong and sticking together!
This celebrity news isn’t surprising, given that Kardashians seem to be prone to drama. What are some ways to show support for your partner amid criticism?
According to UsMagazine.com, Jennifer Lawrence recently revealed an interesting piece of celebrity news on Late Night with Seth Meyers. She admitted that when she hosted SNL several years ago, a crush she had reached its peak … and that crush was on Seth Meyers himself. Though they never became a celebrity couple, Lawrence reminisced about how it all went down. “I had this whole plan. I was going to ask you out,” she said. “I started — thank God — I talked to the wardrobe lady about it. I was like, ‘I’m going to ask Seth Meyers out. I’m going to give him my number.’ And she was like, ‘Honey, he’s engaged.’”
This celebrity news tickles our funny bones! What are some ways to know if your crush is currently involved with someone else?
If you’re a fan of dancing and the arts, you may know the up and coming celebrity actor Karell Williams from the Starz mini-drama Flesh and Bone, which is a fictional series about dancers caught in the cut-throat world of professional ballet. From freelance performing, to teaching, and now acting, Williams is determined to do it all. Flesh and Bone premiered this November, and has already received a Golden Globe nomination. We recently chatted with the star in our exclusive celebrity interview about his experience transitioning to on-screen acting, and he also gave his best career and relationship advice.