Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: How To Approach A Man Without Seeming DesperateCupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: How To Approach A Man Without Seeming Desperate

On this week’s Single in Stilettos dating advice video, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Matt Adams about how to approach a man without seeming desperate.

Dating Advice On Making The First Move

If you’re single and looking for your next relationship and love, then you know how hard it can be to approach a man without appearing desperate. Desperation is about neediness and we all know that isn’t attractive. Check out the expert dating advice tips below on how to approach a man.

1. Give value. Dating experts reveal that you need to have the mindset that you need to give the guy something. The first step to approaching a man is to bring something to the table, like being funny or having something interesting to say.

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2. Compliments. Give out sincere compliments, because men love them and it feeds their ego. Again, you want to give the man good feelings.

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3. Social touching. Don’t be afraid to touch him. Touching is the next phase of acceptance, so if you touch his forearm, it lets a guy know that you’re accepting him into your space. Maybe even touch his triceps and compliment his strength.

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