By Robert Manni
Question from Mia B: Talking about exes with a new partner is important. How do you know when it’s the right time to bring up your past and how much information should you share?
Dating & Relationship Tag Archive: Dating Advice
By Robert Manni
Question from Mia B: Talking about exes with a new partner is important. How do you know when it’s the right time to bring up your past and how much information should you share?
By Robert Manni
Question from Shaylin R: I’m all for making the first move on a guy I like. What are some tactics men like when a woman tries to pick him up?
By Tori Autumn
There comes a time in many relationships when tensions flare up, underlying resentment starts to rise, and overall trust is broken. You start to question if the relationship in question is worth saving. Is there a long-term commitment coming down the line? It can be extremely tough to know if the person you’re with is the one for you.
By Robert Manni
Question from Samantha W: I’m new to the digital dating world and my friends keep recommending Tinder, but this app has the reputation for hook-ups. How can I find something more serious and filter out the booty calls?
Serious Online Dating for Beginners
Hi Samantha,
Congratulations on entering the digital dating world. When it comes to dating, technology can be a blessing or a curse. It’s up to you and how you play the online dating game. One key to success is always being yourself, the same person you are online as offline. That means maintaining your values and criteria for potential online dates just as you would when meeting someone in person. If you’re not into booty calls, don’t waste your energy on apps that have a reputation for hook ups.
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There is a wide variety of dating websites and apps to choose from. Many are specific about the type of clientele they seek and who they cater to. When getting your feet wet in online dating, it’s easy to dive into the deep end of the pool and find yourself treading water due to the amount of offers you’ll receive. On most sites and apps, new people get lots of attention and it can be quite overwhelming if you are a smart and attractive woman.
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Before signing up or downloading an app, do your own research and talk to your friends, both female and male. When you have a clear sense of what the apps and sites are all about, I suggest choosing between one and three apps or websites to sample on a trial basis. That way you’ll see the differences in what each service has to offer without spreading yourself so thin that you’re constantly juggling dates instead of qualifying potential partners and making a real connection. I also strongly recommend looking inside and determining what experience you want to get out of the online dating game before signing up. If your goal is simply dating, you’re in luck. If you want to go deeper, you’ll need to set your personal parameters for qualifying the type of guy you’re looking for and then stick to your plan.
The good way of managing the online dating process is by starting slow and keeping things simple until your get your bearings and a feel for how the online dating game is played. Remember, never lower your standards to match a service or an app that does not represent the real you.
I hope this helps. Good luck!
Robert Manni
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People who have never experienced tremendous loss can never relate to what it’s like to be a widower and frankly wouldn’t know anything about dating a widower either. Moving on and accepting the fact that the world won’t stop turning just because it feels like your life has come to an end is quite challenging, but doable when the time is right. Below, you’ll find our top three coping strategies for widowers not sure how to deal with the stress of getting back to dating following their spouse’s death.
You had a perfect outdoor date planned for this weekend, but now it’s supposed to rain. What are you going to do? Are you going to cancel date night and curl up under the covers? No way! Cupid has some great date ideas for when the rain runs you inside.
Coffee is usually used to make one feel energized, and for some people it’s an addiction. The place that people go to get their “fix” can turn into a dating ritual for some couples. It isn’t a necessity for every date to be fancy. Sometimes, the simplest choice can actually be the best date idea.
If you’re searching for an adventurous date idea, you may want to consider spending the weekend in New York City. From museums to concerts to endless other attractions, you and your partner are sure to have the time of your life.
By Mara Miller
What if you could go back in time and be “17 Again?” Although you may not be Zac Efron in the movie, it’s very easy to relive your childhood memories by going back in time and dressing the part, watching a film or reading a book from that era. You can even relive your teenage years while you’re on a date, which can be extremely nostalgic.
By Mara Miller
Are you getting bored with your typical date nights? There’s only so many times you can do dinner and a movie before it becomes tedious. If you’re looking for a way to spice up your relationship, then you should consider trying something unique and different to get your relationship off the ground with this dating advice and dating tips.
By Emma L. Wells and Bonnie Griffin
Is there anything more romantic than staying up all night to spend some quality alone time with your partner? Cupid has some dating advice to deepen your relationship and love by connecting under the light of the moon. For this date idea, you need nothing, but each other…and maybe a little caffeine!
By Emma L. Wells and Bonnie Griffin
Put on your cowboy boots, because this date idea will have y’all traveling to a dude ranch! You’ll have a barrel of laughs as you ride horses, stop by the rodeo, and even learn to square dance.
By Emma L. Wells and Bonnie Griffin
Date ideas can’t always be about romance, flowers, and fun. Some days, like September 11th, need to be spent in reflection and deference for spiritual renewal. The terrible events in American history on this day still have repercussions that reverberate in our society nearly 18 years later. September 11th is known as Patriot Day and is a national day of service. Cupid has some dating advice for a date night to mark this significant occasion.
By Emma L. Wells and Bonnie Griffin
Of course, we don’t mean that you should actually kidnap your sweetheart! But a faux kidnapping surprise is a great way to spice up your relationship and love. This date idea is about catching him off guard and showing off your spontaneous side.
By Emma L. Wells and Mara Miller
Who says you have to get out of town to be a tourist? This date idea is perfect for couples who can’t take a vacation, but who want to spend some quality time improving their relationship.
By Amanda Sanders
In the latest celebrity news, fans are speculating that celebrity couple reality star Porsha Williams has split from her fiancé Dennis McKinley. According to UsMagazine.com, during Memorial Day weekend, her followers noticed that she was no longer McKinley on Instagram. Williams’ sister Lauren and her mother Diane are also no longer following McKinley on Instagram. As of Tuesday night, the Bravo star began to follow McKinley once more, but her family members still aren’t.
By Megan McIntosh
Looks like there’s some drama in celebrity news with Kelly Ripa. It turns out that she’s “disgusted” by ABC’s reality shows The Bachelor and The Bachelorette. According to UsMagazine.com, Ripa blasted the show, saying that she can’t stand the idea of women fighting over one guy, adding that women “are too special to be arguing over a guy.” Ripa thinks both reality shows are “creepy.”
By Dr. Jane Greer
As women strive for equality, they are exercising their freedom of sexual expression more and more, which for many might mean a choice to have casual sex. However, with that freedom and choice comes great responsibility, and the important task of taking care of your emotional self and well-being. That is possible only once you know what you want and can tolerate, and, when it comes right down to it, if you can handle sex without love. Diane Von Furstenberg spoke about her fling with Richard Gere, saying it was just a “f**k,” which is how she wanted it to be. While it is more common for men to have sex and keep it just about the physical connection, with few or no feelings of intimacy involved, women regularly struggle with separating the two. Often emotions come into play despite their best intentions, since so often women feel most vulnerable when they are in intimate situations and often literally are and symbolically feel naked. So how can you know if you can handle a fling with no strings attached?
What does your eye color say about you and who you are attracted to? It’s often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. They are the first thing we notice in another person and there is much more to eye color than simple genetic pigmentation. Eyes can reveal a lot about your personality and your health. Most shocking, however, is that eye color can also determine who you’re most attracted to! Evaluating eye color could be the best dating advice!
Valentine’s Day is over and done. But, celebrating and expressing love should never be limited by a holiday or a certain month of the year. Trying out new things as a couple is proven to strengthen any relationship regardless of stage. Sure, a candlelit dinner, flower bouquets, and expensive chocolates do sound romantic, but you can do that any day with your S.O. Go for something new, and never be afraid to try out other things!
Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Written by Lauren Burczyk.
Mark Walberg (not to be confused with Mark Wahlberg) is an American actor, television personality and talk show host known for his time on Antiques Roadshow, Russian Roulette, The Moment of Truth, and both the original (Fox Network: 2001) and most recently rebooted (USA Network: 2019), Temptation Island. Walberg’s role on Temptation Island is divided between being the host of the show and a relationship expert of sorts who guides confused couples through all types of relationship struggles — stagnant relationships, trust issues, and ultimatums. In our exclusive celebrity interview, Walberg offers our visitors valuable dating advice on how to make a relationship stand the test of time!
In today’s world of fast immediate gratification and apps that teach us to swipe left and right, there are so many options for dating that quantity seems to prevail over quality when it comes to meeting someone long-term. If there isn’t a connection on the first date, we are off to set up a date with the next person we meet online. Sometimes it takes a few dates to build a connection. Let’s dig into some crucial moments advice for getting a second (and maybe third) date with someone.
By Sarah Batcheller and Mara Miller
It’s hot outside, and you and your beau have exhausted every effort to bare the record-breaking heat. One thing you may not have tried, though, is a day inside blending together your favorite ingredients to concoct the perfect smoothies. All you need for this date idea is a blender and your favorite fruits. A day well-spent indoors this summer is just what the two of you need to wind down and cool off!
By Sarah Batcheller and Mara Miller
Embrace the other elements with your cutie and spend a day exploring the ocean. This weekend date idea can include so many different activities at sea, including jet skiing, scuba diving or snorkeling, and sailing. Being out in the vast water and so far away from dry land will allow you two to really indulge in some alone time. Consider this relationship and love advice and make a day out of conquering the great, blue sea!