Casper Smart and Jennifer Lopez. Photo: FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Jane Greer, Ph.D. for GalTime.com
J.Lo is back in the news and it isn’t because of her music. Once again it is her love life that is getting attention. The three-time divorced megastar might be having romantic troubles, something she has dealt with many times before.
Jennifer Lopez gets gorgeous in Givenchy on the cover of InStyle‘s September 2012 issue, on newsstands August 17. In the interview, J.Lo, 43, opens up about being mom to 4-year-old twins Max and Emme and “believing in love.”
On motherhood: “Of course, I’m the same as any parent. I feel the pressures of wanting to be a great parent and of wanting to do right by my children. I feel the pressure of knowing you can’t be perfect even though you want to be. One thing I’ve learned: Being a mom, or a dad, is the most important job there is. It doesn’t matter who you are. You have to embrace it for everything that it is.”
Reggie Bush and Kim Kardashian. Photo: Matrix/Flynetpictures.com
By Courtney Allen
In wonderful world of Hollywood, maintaining both a long-lasting relationship and a fast-paced career is evidently a huge challenge. The jam-packed schedules and non-stop tabloid mania in the everyday lives of celebrities leaves us constantly wondering when the next split will be–the fact they are going to happen is a guarantee. Nasty rumors of deceit, unexpected flings with co-stars and stress from an intense life can make stardom a celebrity couple’s worst enemy. Unfortunately for these five celebrity duos, losing their battle to fame proved inevitable:
Jennie Garth and Peter Facinelli. Photo: FAMEFLYNET
Jennie Garth is embracing the single life. After splitting with her husband of 11 years, Peter Facinelli, in March, she’s dating with “training wheels,” according to UsMagazine.com. Garth was most recently seen in May on a romantic dinner date with HGTV star Antonio Ballatore.
How do you get back into the dating pool after a divorce?
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
Even though all of the hype over Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes’ divorce has made it seem messy, the two have remained civil for Suri’s sake. A source told People that the two have worked out a “civil routine” and “are talking.” Regardless of the ex couple’s differences, they still have to do what’s best for their six-year old. Suri has spent most of the summer in New York City with Holmes, and has taken various trips with Cruise. Now with the approaching the school year, Holmes has decided to enroll Suri in a private school nearby, and Cruise was okay with her decision.
How do you remain civil with your ex when kids are involved?
After divorcing Tom Cruise a month ago, Katie Holmes seems to finally be back in the dating game. On July 27, Holmes was spotted dining with an unknown man in New York City. Before she left, she kissed the man on the cheek. UsMagazine.comreported that Holmes told a reporter from TMZ that she had a “great night.” In addition to this date, Holmes has also been working on a new life with her daughter Suri, including a new apartment in Chelsea. It’s clear that Holmes isn’t letting divorce slow her down.
How do you know when to jump back into the dating scene after a breakup?
Katy Perry and John Mayer. Photo: Teach/FAMEFLYNET
Although Katy Perry’s divorce from Russell Brand just finalized last week, she may already be back in the dating game. Hollyscoop.com reports that the popular singer was seen flirting with John Mayer at a party last weekend. Some fear that Mayer’s reputation as a Hollywood bad boy may not make him the right choice for the emotional Perry, but a source mentioned that the two “definitely appeared to be very into each other.”
How can you help yourself move on after a breakup?
Casper Smart and Jennifer Lopez. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
Even after three failed marriages, Jennifer Lopez still hasn’t given up on the idea on finding Mr. Right. According to People, the star told ABC News’s Amy Robach that she would give marriage another try, stating, “For me, the biggest dream is the fairy tale. I will never give up on that dream.” Lopez’s divorce from Marc Anthony last summer doesn’t seem to be keeping her from finding a new man, as she clearly has something going on with her backup dancer, Casper Smart. Lopez would not open up about her love life, but Smart says it was not love at first sight. “It was very natural how it happened,” he says. “There was nothing before. No flirting, nothing before. Just natural. It just happened.”
How do you decide whether to get married again after a divorce?
Katie Holmes with Suri. Photo: Marquez/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
There couldn’t have been a divorce between Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes without some drama over their daughter Suri. Does Holmes hate Cruise so much that she plans to change their daughter’s name after the divorce? British magazine Now Daily printed a story in which a close friend of the family claimed Holmes planned to change Suri’s last name to “Holmes.” The source also mentioned that Holmes hates the name “Suri” and has been referring to her daughter as “Scout.” Although this information is unclear, it still has been making things harder for a couple still in the middle of a difficult divorce.
What are some ways to decide what to name your child?
Nicole Kidman and Katie Holmes. Photos: Bob Charlotte / PR Photos; Janet Mayer / PR Photos
As Tom Cruise’s third marriage comes to an end, Katie Holmes surprisingly reached out to ex-wife number two, Nicole Kidman, for advice and guidance in her effort to divorce Cruise, sources told Us Weekly. It’s not extremely common to become friends with your partner’s ex, but in Holmes’s case, the 45-year-old Kidman, “has been supportive, saying she’s been through it too and to hang in there.” The Dawson’s Creek star apparently even contacted Kidman via a disposable cell phone in order to keep Cruise from catching on. The ladies’ relationship is what really gave Holmes the edge she needed against her ex-husband, because she ultimately gained everything she hoped for in their rapid one-week settlement.
How can you be supportive of a friend going through a divorce?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos
It’s all work and no play for Tom Cruise following his Monday morning divorce settlement. He has been continuing to film his new movie Oblivion. However, he isn’t on location in Iceland any longer, as he was when the paparazzi first snapped pictures of him after news broke of Katie Holmes’ divorce file. Now the superstar is in California’s High Sierras, where the sci-fi flick will film for another week. Cruise can go back to work so quickly because the divorce settlement was reached after mere days. People reports that Holmes’ lawyers simply said, “The case has been settled and the agreement has been signed.”
What are some things to take your mind off of a split?
Earlier this week, Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise signed their divorce settlement, reaching an agreement faster than most Hollywood couples. While details of the arrangement remain private, sources say that Suri, the couple’s six-year-old daughter, will live in New York with her mother, while her father will have generous visitation rights.
In order to better understand the ins-and-outs of this process, we spoke with Judge Lynn Toler, who hosts ‘Divorce Court,’ the longest-running court show on television. Since 2006, Judge Toler has brought both tenacity and compassion to the courtroom, focusing on the relationship at hand and dispensing helpful advice to real litigants. …On the edge of your seat? Click here to continue.
Katie Holmes with Suri. Photo: Marquez/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
Katie Holmes is taking no time after her split from Tom Cruise to get back to her career. Holmes, who filed for divorce from Cruise last week, is set to work on a new film, Molly, about a single mother and her daughter, according to People. Holmes co-wrote and is co-producing the film, which will be filming in New York City, where Holmes lives with her daughter Suri.
How can going back to work help you cope with a split?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos
Since Katie Holmes filed for divorce from her husband of five years, Tom Cruise, the award-winning actor and father to their daughter Suri, is in “major crisis mode,” according to UsMagazine.com. Sources say that “Tom’s whole life is being torn apart,” which was something he never saw coming. While Cruise is constantly consulting with lawyers in an effort to deal with custody of the six-year-old and division of their properties, he tries to remain as private as possible because he “doesn’t want his entire life laid out for everyone to dissect anymore.”
How do you remain private in the midst of a divorce?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: FameFlynet.com
Katie Holmes is making her divorce from Tom Cruise public by removing her wedding ring. According to People, the Hollywood Star was taping a segment for Project Runway: All Stars this week without it. A source says that although she appears to be handling the situation well, she has left Cruise “devastated and heartbroken.” The two had been married for five years and apparently Cruise “had no idea this was coming.”
How do you announce your divorce to friends and family?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos
After news of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes’ divorce broke, there may have been subtle clues that their split was fast-approaching. UsMagazine.com reports that in an interview Holmes conducted six weeks prior to the divorce file, she did not speak of Cruise in a lovey-dovey manner. When questioned about the stigma of being “Mrs. Tom Cruise,” she defensively said “he has been Tom Cruise for 30 years. I know who I am and where I am and where I want to go, so I want to focus on that.” She also denied the rumor that having married an A-lister helped her acting career. Holmes sounded independent throughout the interview and noticeably stated that she’s entering “a new phase” of her life, a phase that we now know will include much less of Tom Cruise.
How do you know when your partner is holding you back?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: FameFlynet.com
Now that Katie Holmes has filed for divorce from Tom Cruise, she is taking matters into her own hands after breaking free from what sources say was a ‘Scientology-influenced marriage’ to the actor. The Kennedys star is now pursuing sole legal custody of their 6-year old daughter, Suri Cruise. An insider tells UsMagazine.com, “This is about protecting her daughter. She wants to be in charge of how Suri is being raised and didn’t want her to have an exclusively Scientology education.” With that said, the divorce of TomKat is just beginning to unfold.
What are some ways to get out of a controlling relationship?
As a relationship expert and executive matchmaker for the past seven years, Amy Laurent has plenty of advice when it comes to navigating the dating world. And, now she’s putting it out there publicly starring on Bravo’s new reality series ‘Miss Advised,’ a show that features three single relationship experts as they attempt to follow their own dating advice in the search for love.
Given Laurent’s background, we thought she’d be the perfect source to comment on the most talked about divorce of the week (and most likely the year), the infamous TomKat split. By now, we’ve all read the tabloids or heard the news that Tom’s obsession with Scientology was a huge factor in their divorce (source), but how important is religion to a marriage?
Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott. Photo: Claudio Uema / PR Photos
By Jessica Smith
Nothing in Hollywood is juicer than a celebrity scandal. Many Hollywood couples work through humiliating experiences while dating, including Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush, who went through a sex tape scandal; Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez, who recently dealt with Bieber’s accusation of getting a fan pregnant; and Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth, who had to deal with negative press on Cyrus’ sexual antics.
Many of us can relate to similar problems on a smaller scale, but it can still be exhilarating and deeply saddening to watch our favorite famous relationships let us down in these ways. Sometimes, celebrity couples even begin their love lives under this sort of scrutiny. Although not all celebrity affairs work out, some blossom into long-lasting relationships and love. Here are six famous couples that made the headlines with their scandalous splits, affairs, and ensuing sprint to the altar.
Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
The survival of TomKat just may prove to be “mission impossible” for Tom Cruise after learning Katie Holmes filed for divorce on Thursday. Despite their never-ending rumors of a split, the soon-to-be separation of the couple is a shock to Hollywood, especially after the actor told People just days ago that his perfect day is “the time with Kate.” The actor confirmed through his rep that it was indeed his wife who filed the papers, just five days before his 50th, and asked for privacy during this time. The end of TomKat marks divorce number three for Cruise.
What are some ways to tell it’s time to get a divorce?
Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise. Photo: FameFlynet.com
Earlier this week, Katie Holmes filed for divorce from Tom Cruise, a shocking split that neither Cruise nor observers saw coming. As a source told UsMagazine.com, the two seemed very happy just two weeks ago during a dinner together in Iceland. Though the terms of the divorce have not been settled, Holmes is seeking sole custody of their daughter, Suri. Two days after the divorce was filed, Cruise was spotted for the first time since the two split. He was flying in a helicopter away from Iceland. His destination is unknown, and he did not seem eager to appear to the paparazzi.
How can you cope with day-to-day life after a split?
Sheree Fletcher and Terrell Fletcher. Photo courtesy of Sheree Fletcher.
By Bernadette McCadden
In the first season of ‘Hollywood Exes,’ which premiered on VH1 on Wednesday, June 27, viewers will see the real life of Mrs. Sheree Fletcher – not to be mistaken for that of ex-Mrs. Will Smith. In the season premiere, Fletcher goes to dinner with the other cast members, where she meets Andrea Kelly, the recent divorcee of R&B artist, R. Kelly. Kelly desperately seeks advice from the other women about how to get through the hurt of a break-up, and Fletcher encourages her to focus on her kids – something that she did in the wake of her own divorce. …On the edge of your seat? Click here for more.
Brooke Mueller and Charlie Sheen. Photo: Chris Hatcher / PR Photos
By Evan Goldaper
We all wish it could be different, but breakups are rarely painless. Whether it’s the kids, money, future plans or just anger, there’s almost always something to fight over. In a word: drama. If you follow the roller coaster ride that is Hollywood relationships, you’re sure to have realized that celebrity splits are the biggest and most dramatic splits around. Cupid took a look at some of the worst celebrity divorces in recent years to see what practical lessons could be learned from the wreckage:
Penelope Ann Miller. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
Three months ago, The Artist’s Penelope Ann Miller announced that after a marriage of 12 years, she was filing for divorce from husband James Huggins. Miller claimed that the two had differences they could no longer work through, and she tried to get sole legal and physical custody of their two children. However, Peoplehas confirmed that the couple will remain together after all. On June 15, she dismissed the divorce suit, and the couple’s marriage will continue.
What are some ways to tell if your relationship is worth fighting for?