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May 8, 2019 0

Expert Dating Advice: Tired of Online Dating Sites? 3 Ways to Get Off As Quick As Possible

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By Josh Pompey

Online dating can be physically exhausting for a lot of people.  Add to that the emotional exhaustion that often comes with the territory, and it’s easy to see why so many people would do anything to get off of dating sites as fast as possible.  If you fall into that camp, here’s 3 tips that may boost your ability to find love quicker than you think.

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Feb 18, 2019 0

Expert Dating Advice: 5 First Date Ideas to Get Past the Winter Blues

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By Joshua Pompey

Winter sure seems like it lasts forever sometimes.  Especially here in New York.  But that doesn’t mean you have to put your dating life into hibernation.  Before you let that polar vortex get the best of you, let’s take a look at five dating ideas that will spark some heat back into those long winter months. 

First Date Ideas for the Winter Months!

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Jan 28, 2019 0

Dating Advice: 5 Online Dating Tips to Start the New Year Right

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By Joshua Pompey

New Years’ Eve may have come and gone, but it’s not too late to make those resolutions still, especially in regards to improving your dating life.  Let’s take a look at 5 online dating tips that you could implement immediately to get your love life on the right path this year.

New Year, New Profile!

Update the photo gallery

This is one area of your online dating life that there is always room for improvement with.  Unless you are a Kardashian garnering tens of thousands of likes with every picture you take, break out the camera and get to work.

Focus on taking pictures that highlight your best attributes, while also capturing you in scenarios that reveal your best personality traits.  You will also want to thumb through some of your best pictures of the past year, with the focus being on combining your best experiences, with pictures that you look most flattering in.  For some great advice on how to do this, you can read this guide to creating a perfect photo gallery https://joshuapompey.com/women/guide-online-dating-profile-pictures-women/

Related Link: Expert Dating Advice: 5 Reasons to Hire a Professional Online Dating Profile Writer

Rewrite the profile

There is always room for improvement here, not to mention, the written portion of your profile is arguably the most important determinant of your success.

When you revisit your profile, don’t think of it as a homework assignment or essay.  Keep it fun, playful, and lighthearted.  The idea is to reveal your best personality trait and interests in a way that jumps off the page and shows who you are at your core.  And don’t forget to proofread!

Related Link: Expert Dating Advice: Date Ideas for Spring Love

Improve your emailing game

With all the competition that exists online, you can’t afford to be boring.  You need to make sure your email stands out from everyone else by making it fun, engaging, and interesting.  The best approach is to scan the profile for something interesting about the other person, think of something playful to say, and then follow that up with a question.  Once you do this a few times, you’ll get the hang of it and be able to do this on autopilot in a relatively easy manner.

Related Link: Dating Expert Reveals Why Online Dating Is Better Than Meeting In Real Life

Start initiating messages

Here’s a little secret.  Often times the highest quality men and woman are not initiating conversations online, nor are they performing searches.  Why?  Because the more successful and well-rounded people are in their personal life, the less time they often have to spend on dating sites.

So while you might be waiting around for someone special to send you and email and sweep you off your feet, the irony is that they might not ever even know you exist.  The best way to ensure that you get dates with the highest quality people is to actively perform searches and show up in their inbox with an incredible message and profile to match.

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Oct 22, 2018 0

Expert Dating Advice: 5 Reasons to Hire a Professional Online Dating Profile Writer

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By: Joshua Pompey

Online dating can be tricky. With so many moving parts and different components, it’s often hard to diagnose how to improve your results. If you are having trouble attracting the highest quality singles, you may want to look into having your profile revamped by a professional. Below are 5 reasons why you should hire a professional online dating profile writer:

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Sep 17, 2018 0

Expert Dating Advice: 5 Reasons to Hire A Online Dating Assistant

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By Joshua Pompey

As the head of Next Evolution Matchmaking, I am hired by busy and successful professionals to serve as their very own online dating assistant. But I don’t just assist them with the process, I take complete control of the process. If you don’t have the time to build an online profile, keep reading for some dating advice from relationship expert Joshua Pompey 

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Aug 13, 2018 0

Dating Advice: How to Make Summer Love Last

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By Joshua Pompey

The end of the summer may be closing in, but that doesn’t mean we can’t still take advantage of the few weeks we have left. This is an optimal time to plan some date nights that will be remembered long down the road. Summer time is when I met the love of my life online, who I am proud to say is now my beautiful wife. Read the below dating advice from relationship expert Joshua Pompey to help spark that summer love.

Dating Advice to Help You Hold Onto Your Summer Crush!

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Jul 2, 2018 0

Expert Dating Advice Guys’ Edition: 5 Not So Obvious Signs She’s Into You

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By Joshua Pompey

Guys, have you ever been on a date that you thought went well, only to never hear from the girl again? This is frustrating and discouraging for anyone. Don’t dwell on the dates that didn’t work out. The best thing you can do is learn how to assess a date while you’re on one so you won’t be taken off guard if you do get ghosted. Read the below expert dating advice by relationship expert Joshua Pompey to enhance your dating life!

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May 21, 2018 0

Expert Dating Advice: Date Ideas for Spring Love

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By Joshua Pompey 

If you are a New Yorker like me, it often feels like winter will never come to an end. Believe it or not, it was snowing in April this year! While this can be frustrating, it only makes the arrival of Spring all the more sweeter. As an added bonus, spring is an incredible time for dating if you use the expert dating advice below. Try these spring date ideas from relationship expert Joshua Pompey that will help you and your loved one make the most of this season!

Expert Dating Advice to Ignite a Spring Love!

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Apr 9, 2018 0

Expert Dating Advice: Why You and Your Partner are Constantly Arguing

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By Joshua Pompey 

I’d love to sit here and pretend that I was always Mr. Perfect when it came to relationships — I am a relationship expert after all! But I had to learn the relationship advice that I offer. When I look back at my younger days, I had one specific relationship that was not only far from perfect but downright unhealthy. The arguments would come in like clockwork. No matter how many times I would say, “This is the last fight,” a new argument inevitably came around sooner rather than later.

Fast forward to the present with my beautiful wife, and I can happily say that our fights are almost non-existent. We’ll have one small argument every few months — if that. So, what brought the turn-around? Here are a few reasons that my former self was always arguing in a previous relationship as well as some possible signs that you may need to end your own relationship. With this expert dating advice, you too can build a healthy relationship that’s free of arguing.

Relationship Expert Shares Expert Dating Advice About Arguing

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Feb 26, 2018 0

Expert Relationship Advice: Is It Lust or Love?

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By Joshua Pompey

The first few weeks of dating can be so exciting: the laughter, the new experiences, and, of course, the physical connection. But how exactly do you know if the chemistry you’re feeling should be attributed to blooming love versus something that is merely an intense physical attraction? If you are attempting to determine whether it’s lust or love, try asking yourself the following questions:
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Jan 15, 2018 0

Dating Advice from a Seasoned Vet: 4 Reasons to Avoid Matchmakers

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By Joshua Pompey

I’ve been in the game of helping men and women find relationships for a long time — almost a decade to be exact. And while I have learned a lot as a dating expert, if there is one fact I’m certain of, it’s that single men and women should steer clear of traditional matchmakers. Why? Well, I could go on for pages with dating advice about this topic, but here are four reasons why I strongly advise that you avoid going down this path.

Dating Expert Shares Why You Should Avoid Matchmakers

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Nov 13, 2017 1

Dating Expert Reveals Why Online Dating Is Better Than Meeting In Real Life

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By Joshua Pompey

So often online dating is looked upon as a medium that people turn to after running out of options in “real life.” As an online dating expert, I may be a bit on the biased side, but I personally think this is a mindset that officially needs to be put to death. Not only is online dating an incredible opportunity to meet other singles, but dare I say, it’s even better than attempting to meet people out and about. Here are five reasons why:

Online Dating Advice: Why It’s Better Than Real Life Dating

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Aug 29, 2017 0

Dating Advice: The Do’s and Don’ts of Online Dating First Dates

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By Joshua Pompey

Ready for your very first online date? No? Well, don’t worry. If you’re nervous about meeting someone for the first time or simply need some solid dating advice, today, we are going to go over some fundamental first date information that you should abide by when you meet your next online match.

Online Dating Advice from a Relationship Expert

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Jul 21, 2017 0

Dating Advice: 5 Reasons You Should Consider Hiring A Professional Profile Writer

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By Joshua Pompey

Over the past 10 years as a relationship expert, I’ve written a whole lot of dating profiles. From teachers, to doctors, to CEOs, and even best selling authors, I’ve had the pleasure of helping people from all walks of life. And while most of the people I’ve worked with are intelligent, well-rounded, and perfectly capable people, it wasn’t until they outsourced a professional profile writer that they will able to find true online dating success. If you’ve been having less than stellar results online, or are even just beginning, I would strongly urge you to consider hiring a professional profile writer of your own. Here are five pieces of dating advice as to why.

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Jun 16, 2017 0

Dating Advice: How to Make the First Move (Women’s Edition)

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By Joshua Pompey

The person sitting across from you is cute, charming, and you just can’t seem to stop thinking about going in for that first kiss. But the question many women have is how to you make the first move? Truth be told, the first move shouldn’t just happen at the end of the date. It should be the result of many small moves that occur over the course of a first date, eventually building to that first kiss by the end of the night. So before you make the first move at the end of your date, the following dating advice will help you to make the transition much easier while avoiding relationship problems.

Dating advice that will help you make the first move like a pro!

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May 3, 2017 0

Dating Advice: 4 Reasons Younger Women In The City Struggle To Forge Meaningful Relationships

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By Joshua Pompey

As someone who lives in New York City, I can say with full enthusiasm that it is one of the greatest cities in the world. The food! The culture! The diversity! And of course, the incredible women are right up there with any other city. Unfortunately, one aspect of city life often let’s women down though, and it affects their ability to forge meaningful relationships. And while it’s easy to claim that men in the city just don’t want to settle down, I’ve personally found that this is far from the case for most men I’ve worked with or encountered. Sometimes it’s just a matter of avoiding certain mistakes and making the right adjustments to find love. In this article I will be discussing four big reasons many women often struggle to find relationships in big cities, and dating advice to help you avoid these issues.

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Apr 1, 2017 0

Dating Advice: 5 Online Dating Photos That Will Instantly Up Your Profile Game

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By Joshua Pompey

Let’s face it. Men are all about appearances. It’s bred into our DNA. Sure we want to settle down with women who are are well-rounded, fun, caring, intelligent, and all that other good stuff. But before we actually get to the good stuff that leads to a long-term bond, we still focus on the visuals. This is why it is so critical to perfect the photo galleries of our online dating profiles in ways that will ignite high levels of interest. The good news is that you don’t have to be a supermodel, or even a model to spark high levels of attraction. But if you are one, call me ok? Where were we again? Oh yes… Creating a photo gallery that will ignite interest! The following five dating tips will put you on the path to a perfect photo gallery and hopefully increase your potential date nights.

Dating Advice That Will Help You Improve Your Online Dating Chances With Pictures Alone!

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Mar 1, 2017 0

Relationship Advice: How Do I Know If I’m Rebounding?

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By Joshua Pompey

You’re fresh out of a volatile relationship and ready to start something new. What an exciting time in your life, right? But not so fast! Before you go jumping into that next relationship, ask yourself the question: am I really ready, or am I simply on the rebound? Below are five signs you may not be quite ready to take on a new partner yet. Follow this relationship advice so you can avoid hurting yourself and others.

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Dec 21, 2016 0

Dating Advice: 3 Online Dating Trends to Watch Out For In the New Year

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By Joshua Pompey

The New Year is upon us.  And for some of us, this means a symbolic fresh start.  Especially in the world of online dating.  But before you start firing up those dating sites again, take a moment to note these three new trends that are emerging in the online dating world, and the dating tips that will help you avoid relationship problems. 

Dating Advice That You Should Try Out In 2017

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Nov 16, 2016 0

Dating Advice: I’m Never Single. Is it Bad to Go From One Relationship to the Next?

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By Joshua Pompey

There’s no doubt that single life can be a bit unsettling at times.  In this day and age of swiping left and right- where sexual deviants and creepy singles are running rampant, sometimes the mere thought of staying single for a few months can feel like an eternity. And I’m sure with the emails some of you women receive on a daily basis on dating websites, it’s a wonder that some of you are even able to maintain faith in the prospect of a relationship. So when a nice guy comes along as a potential partner, I can’t blame you for wanting to dive right in. Great men are scarce, so why not jump at the opportunity when you see one right? As a relationship expert and matchmaker, I need to caution you that there’s a problem with this. Jumping from relationship to relationship without ever exploring the single world, it’s nearly impossible to learn who you are and what your needs are. Therefore, you’re placing the need for a relationship over your ultimate needs in a relationship.  And this can become very problematic down the road. If you don’t want this to happen to you, take note of the following dating advice

Dating Advice For Those Who Are Never Single

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Oct 19, 2016 0

Dating Advice: Do Pick Up Lines Actually Work?

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By Joshua Pompey

There she is standing at the bar. Tall. Beautiful. Long flowing blonde hair. Think. Think. There must be a pickup line that will work…  Okay, I’ve got it!  

“Damn girl.  Are you okay?”  

“Yes, why?”

“Because damn it must have hurt when a beautiful Angel like you fell from heaven.”

Cue the eye roll, the grabbing of her closest friend’s arm, and the immediate exit. And just like that, bye bye beautiful blonde. If you’ve used cheesy pick up lines at any point in your life, odds are this may have happened to you at some point. While this may have been a terrible pick up line for the sake of the overall argument I’m about to get into, the question is, can pick up lines ever actually work? Well, that depends on a number of factors that I’ll explain to you in the following dating advice.

Dating Advice On Whether Pick Up Lines Work

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Sep 14, 2016 0

Relationship Advice: So When Exactly IS It Time For Sex?

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By Joshua Pompey

I’m ready. At least I think I’m ready. No, I’m definitely ready.  Ugh, I’m sorry, but I’m just not ready! Does deciding when to have sex sometimes feel like a ping pong match in your head that ends with nobody scoring? Or perhaps, people scoring a bit too much?  Well, maybe I can be of help as a relationship expert. If you aren’t sure if you should have sex or wait, let’s take a long look at some solid indicators with the following relationship advice.

Relationship Advice On When It’s The Right Time To Have Sex

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Aug 24, 2016 0

Dating Advice: Should A Woman Split The Bill On A Date Night?

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By Joshua Pompey

The moment has come. The bill arrives. Sweat trickles down the back of your neck once the server drops the checkbook at your table. What do you do?  Do you let him pay for the meal? Or do you sit there awkwardly while he reaches for his wallet? Ah, the age old question that relationship experts love to answer. If you’re looking for dating advice that will help you navigate this dilemma, take into consideration the different scenarios that can arise on a first date.

Dating Advice On Splitting The Bill With Your Date

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Jul 20, 2016 0

Relationship Advice: How Do You Know When It’s Right To Move In With Someone?

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By Joshua Pompey

So you think you’re ready to move in with your significant other?  After all, he’s fun, treats you well, and let’s face it, he really only gets on your nerves about 20 percent of the time.  What more could you ask for in a man?  But before you go unpacking in his place, you better make sure you’re prepared for what comes with the move ahead.  Moving in with the wrong person can be a nightmarish experience.  Especially when you find yourself packing up your bags and single again. As a relationship expert, here is my relationship advice and thoughts on whether you should make the big move.

Relationship Advice: 4 Questions To Ask Yourself Before Moving In With Someone

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