Author Tonilyn Hornung has used the 153-plus years of marriage experience accumulated by her grandparents and parents as well as herself and her husband to bring other married couples advice. Now, with five other married women, she is sharing her first book, How to Raise a Husband: A Whole Bunch Of Ways to Build A Strong And Happy Marriage, to help other wives raise not only a better husband but also build a stronger relationship. Read on for some of the advice that Hornung shared exclusively with CupidsPulse.com!
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. Photo: Starmax / PRPhotos.com
By Louisa Gonzales
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt went on a weekend celebrity getaway, just the two of them. According to UsMagazine.com, the famous couple were spotted at a hotel in Beverly Hills having a lovely time together on Saturday, Apr. 5, without their six children, Pax, 10, Zahaa, 9, Shiloh, 7, twins Vivienne and Knox, 5, and Maddox, 12. The engaged twosome were not shy about showing their affection towards one another, even entering the hotel arm-in-arm. This much-needed private outing is well-deserved, as it comes after Jolie, 38, and Pitt, 50 had been a part for a few months because of work.
Famous couple Pitt and Jolie recognize the value of alone time with each other. What are some reasons it’s important to spend quality time with your partner?
Daniel Gomez. Photo courtesy of AvantGarde Communications Group.
By Brittany Stubbs
Although infidelity is no longer classified as a criminal act, the consequences of cheating can ruin marriages, families, and lives. For 14 seasons, the reality TV show Cheaters has invited viewers to watch real relationships and love unravel as private investigators are hired to help spouses catch their partners cheating. Having served 16 years as the Chief Detective on the show, Daniel Gomez has a lot of knowledge when it comes to infidelity.
Johnny Depp has been hit by Cupid’s arrow and is not afraid to show it! The 50-year-old actor confirmed on his appearance at the Today Show that he is nothing short of head over heels for actress fiancée, Amber Heard. According to UsMagazine.com, he gushed about Heard during the April 4th interview, saying, “She’s a wonderful girl. She’s sharp as a tack. A southern belle and sweet as can be, and very good to me.” He also explained he has been wearing a woman’s engagement ring, whilst a source told Us that it actually belonged to Heard but was too big: “The fact that I’m wearing a chick’s ring on my finger is probably a dead giveaway. Not very subtle.”
What are some ways to show your excitement about your relationship?
When it comes to love, it’s important that you have a close bond with your significant other. This truth holds for more than just romantic relationships but for friends and family as well. Take a few minutes to browse through these helpful articles from our partners to give you ways to improve your connections:
1. Enjoy the sunshine: When it comes to children, whether they’re your biological kids, step-children, or nieces and nephews, it’s important to hang out with them. Let them know how much they mean to you by taking the time out of your busy schedule to get outside and play. Trista Sutter recently shared how her and her children will be having fun this summer. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
2. Show appreciation: You may get so caught up in day-to-day events that you don’t stop and show your loved ones how much youappreciate them. This idea shouldn’t be applied only to your romantic partner! It’s important to show your gratitude for everyone, especially your friends who have stuck by your side through thick and thin. Check out some of these quotes about friendship to get the gears turning. (YourTango.com)
3. Be confident: Confidence is key — and that goes for both you and your man. When your beau sees that you’re feeling strong and sure of yourself, it’ll put him at ease…which is a great step towards building a better bond. If your sweetie is lacking in the confidence department, help them build it back up. For more qualities that form deeper connections, read through this article. (YourTango.com)
4. Be yourself: It’s easy to forget who you truly are, especially when you’re at the office. Workplace relationships are just as important as the one between you and your partner. In order to create an enjoyable environment, remember to stay true to yourself and never pretend to be someone else. For other ways to improve your interactions with your co-workers, check out these suggestions. (GalTime.com)
5. Find the right one: When it comes to dating, it’s tempting to create an elaborate list of things you want in a partner. Time after time, you find yourself saying, “He’s not my type,” but do you really know what you’re “type” is? Take the time to forge a connection with someone before writing them off completely. This approach will prevent you from serial dating and help you find exactly what you’re looking for. (GalTime.com)
How do you create stronger bonds in your relationships? Let us know in the comments below.
Jason Sudeikis and Olivia Wilde prepare for parenthood. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
By Sanetra Richards
Parents-to-be Jason Sudeikis and fiancée Olivia Wilde seemed to have enjoyed themselves in Titletown, also known as Boston, during their weekend getaway. Wilde stylishly joined Sudeikis on set as he was in the process of filming for the upcoming romantic comedy Tumbledown. According toPeople, the couple was no stranger to the well-liked neighborhood coffee shop Haute Coffee (they ordered haute lattes with almond milk and a house-made syrup of honey and cinnamon). A bystander described the pair as ‘very cute,’ whilst an employee said, “They’re very casual, very down to earth. They couldn’t have been nicer. It’s just a pleasure to have them here.” The actress also shared they are expecting their little bundle of joy in about four weeks.
What are some ways vacation can make you closer as a couple?
Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott. Photo: PRN / PR Photos
By Louisa Gonzales
New docu-series on Lifetime starring Tori Spelling and husband Dean McDermott, will invite viewers and TV cameras into their home during a rough time in their marriage. According to People, the couple’s marriage was recently in hot waters because of a cheating scandal involving McDermott, 47, which caused the actor to enter rehab. The series, True Tori, will focus on the married duo and it will follow them as they work on their problem, starting when McDermott’s leaves treatment. Spelling, 40, has been married to her husband for seven years and they have four children together.
What are some ways to confront issues in your relationship?
On today’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay about why men disappear. Have you ever been happily dating someone when he suddenly stops texting and calling? It can leave you feeling hurt, vulnerable, and confused. You may blame yourself (as many women do), but Aslay wants you to know that it probably has nothing to do with you. A man may disappear because of his own issues.
Man giving his partner a kiss on the cheek. Photo: karelnoppe / Bigstock.com
By Melanie Mar
Butterflies in your stomach, questions running through your mind, and nervous energy are all natural reactions before heading out on any first date. The first date is an icebreaker, not a marriage interview, so sit back and enjoy! The beauty of a first date is that, if it goes poorly, you will most likely get over it quickly. Remind yourself that your best self is relaxed and confident. Follow the tips below to reduce your first date anxiety and set yourself up for fun.
Miranda Kerr did a revealing photoshoot and interview for the May 2014 issue of British GQ magazine. According to UsMagazine.com, Kerr not only graced the cover of the mag wearing nothing, but a pair of thigh high stockings, she also delved into steamy details of her life following the split with her husband of three years, Orlando Bloom. Kerr, 30, is reportedly enjoying the single life, open to dating and confessed to the magazine, as she gets older she is becoming more confident in asking for what she “enjoys” in and out of the bedroom. Kerr also revealed that she is open to explore whether it be with men or women.
How do you join the dating world after splitting from you own long-term relationship?
In this week’s dating advice video, relationship expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House shares her thoughts on the sexiest trait that attracts any guy. “Did you know many of my clients who are seemingly the total package can’t get a guy to ask them on a fourth — or sometimes even a second — date? Do you know why?” the dating expert asks. “It’s actually the most important thing when it comes to attracting a guy.” It’s not about looks or even being the total package; it’s a trait that’s available to average or even below-average women.
Dating Advice from E!’s Famously Single Laurel House on Sexy Traits
Rushing into a new relationship is never a good idea. You don’t know the person you’re dating well enough for a commitment, and you’ll just end up right back where you started shortly after attempting the new romance. Take a step back from the dating scene and reevaluate what you want out of a partner. Cupid has some advice:
Lorde's boyfriend James Lowe is proud of her. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
By Sanetra Richards
Lorde and boyfriend James Lowe are making it known that they are on each other’s team. Through all of the negative comments and criticism towards their relationship, the 17-year-old singer and 24-year-old photographer have seemed to be unbothered by it all and remained mute — not anymore. According to UsMagazine.com, the pop star’s beau posted a blog about dating the “Royals” songstress: “I’ve written, deleted, re-written, and deleted this post at least five times over the past few months, wondering when would be an appropriate time to start writing again,” he says. “Since originally sitting down to write this post, Ella (Lorde) has become a two-time Grammy winner. She has taken home a Brit too,” he gushes. “Currently she is on the opposite side of the world on tour. As much as I miss her, I couldn’t be prouder of what she has achieved so far.”
As mentioned previously, the couple has been exposed to many counts of cyber bulling. Lowe addresses this, saying the negative side is “only a small part” of his world. He continues to say, “There is a bright, shining silver lining to this thing I’ve been exposed to. I’ve been able to tell tales of the many amazing people I’ve met along the way — from fellow photographers, to artists I’ve always admired and never thought I’d get to meet, let alone have a simple thing like coffee with.”
How do you show your appreciation for your partner’s accomplishments?
Laying in the grass. Photo: Phase4Photography / Bigstock.com
By Maria Darbenzio
Warmer weather is upon us, and as the flowers begin to bloom, so does romance. Take this time to focus on incorporating new and interesting things into your relationship. It can be as extravagant as a new vacation spot or as simple as showing support for a good cause. We pulled together these five articles from our partners to help give you some ideas:
1. Break away from reality: You don’t have to be a college student to go on spring break. You and your partner deserve a vacay just as much as anyone else! There are plenty of romantic getaway spots that are perfect for kick-starting this spring with your sweetheart. (GalTime.com)
2. Inspire your love: Turn your typical movie night into a time to take notes and make a list of ways you can spice up your love life with the help of the classics. For instance, if you’re a fan of Dirty Dancing, try incorporating some of those dance moves into your night — a simple yet fun way to add some excitement to your at-home date. (YourTango.com)
3. Get involved: Once it warms up, there are tons of options for walks and events that raise money for various organizations. Pick a cause that both you and your partner want to support and do it together. Not only will it give you a chance to bond, but you’ll feel good about making a difference. For inspiration, check out how Bobbi Brown Cosmetics is giving back to the community. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
4. Control those allergies: No one wants to sniff and sneeze their way through a date. This spring, take control of your allergies and don’t give them a chance to ruin the memories that you and your honey want to make. Take a look at how you can kiss those itchy eyes goodbye! (GalTime.com)
5. Express your love: As you’re spring cleaning your house, leave little notes around for your partner, letting them know how much you love them. Don’t live with your sweetheart? No problem! Sneak something sweet into their wallet or briefcase to make them smile when they find it during the day. Here’s a list of other ways to share your love. (YourTango.com)
How are you going to get in the springtime spirit? Tell us in the comments below!
Kanye West and Kim Kardashian. Photo: GG/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Sanetra Richards
Kimye is nothing short of fabulous these days. Kim Kardashian and Kanye West were seen looking grand while walking through the LAX airport on Monday, March 24th. The two have been the topic of conversation since revealing their April 2014 Vogue cover and spread. The reality star was dressed in form fitting gray jeans, a gray V-neck, a black blazer jacket, and nude pointy toe heels. Her guy, on the other hand, maintained his signature layered style in a dark colored trench coat over a black hoodie, jeans, and gray suede boots.
Fashion seems to run in both of their veins (one of the reasons for their Vogue debut). According to UsMagazine.com, photographer Annie Leibovitz was behind the camera for the couple’s highly publicized, “top secret” wedding photo shoot. The source added, “Only a very small number of people were told it was happening, and all of them were sworn to secrecy. There are lots of photos of Kim in different kinds of white wedding-like dresses.”
What are some ways to keep your relationship grounded in reality?
Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin are amicable post-split. Photo: Away! / PR Photos; Janet Mayer / PR Photos
By Sanetra Richards
Another one bites the dust! Gwyneth Paltrow and husband Chris Martin have decided to part marital ways after 10 years. The couple announced the split earlier this week. According toPeople, Paltrow (PEOPLE’s 2013 Most Beautiful Woman) and Martin stated they were “working hard for well over a year” — both as a couple and individually — “to make their relationship work.”
The pair released the following statement on the GOOP website under the heading “Conscious Uncoupling”: “It is with hearts full of sadness that we have decided to separate.” The parents of a 9½-year-old daughter Apple and a 7½-year-old son Moses went onto say, “We have come to the conclusion that, while we love each other very much, we will remain separate.”
Although the marriage is ending, co-parenting is not out of the question. “We are, however, and always will be a family, and in many ways, we are closer than we have ever been. We have always conducted our relationship privately, and we hope that as we consciously uncouple and co-parent, we will be able to continue in the same manner.”
How do you know when it’s time to go your separate ways?
Kate Hudson and Matthew Bellamy. Photo: richard shotwell / PR Photos; ER/Flynetpictures.com
By Louisa Gonzales
Kate Hudson may be happily engaged to her fiancé Matthew Bellamy, but that doesn’t mean the couple doesn’t face relationship woes from time to time. According to People, they’re working through a rough patch. The lovers face “bumps in the road” just like any other couple, but the source says it’s not as big of a deal as fans seem to think. With their busy careers, they just have to put in extra work to make time for each other. The lovebirds got engaged back in 2011 and have a two-year-old son but have shown no signs of rushing to the altar.
What are some ways to strengthen your relationship?
Spring is officially here and love is in the air. In order for new romances to blossom this season, singles need to face the always unpredictable and often times stressful first date. Before setting a time and place, there are some important factors to consider in order to make a good first impression on a new fling based on the helpful findings from a recent report released by ChristianMingle and JDate.
The goal of any first date is to hit it off well enough to secure the coveted second date and hopefully lay the foundation for a successful, long-term relationship. But we all know there are things we can do — and things we can avoid doing — that can help our chances in any dating scenario. In the report, U.S. singles weighed in to reveal the rules of first dates when it comes to eating, drinking and general dinner etiquette, as well as the biggest turnoffs and deal breakers when it comes to courtship. Here are the top five dating rules and deal breakers needed to turn your spring fling into the real thing:
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks with relationship strategist Joe Amoia about why quick fix dating tips don’t work. He believes that the reason they don’t work is because they’re just that — a quick fix! They won’t give you the long-term results that you want when it comes to your love life. Instead, you need to explore the true cause of your dating problems. Look inward and try to identify repeating patterns or issues that always come up.
Johnny Weir and Victor Voronov. Photo: Bernadette Giacomazzo/PR Photos
By Louisa Gonzales
Johnny Weir and soon-to-be ex-husband Victor Voronov recently settled their custody battle over their family dog. According to TMZ, during their divorce proceedings, Voronov filed papers to request that their dog Tëma be returned to him. The Olympic figure skater believed that the dog rightfully belongs with him because he was allegedly a “make-up gift.” He says he was also the one who trained and took care of the dog. For now, they have agreed to joint custody. Additionally, Voronov is seeking financial support from Weir because, according to his attorney, he gave up everything to be with him, including his career.
Couple missing each other. Photo: Wavebreak Media Ltd / Bigstock.com
By Janeen Diamond for Hope After Divorce
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I don’t know about you, but for me, the winter months are often the hardest to get through. Sometimes, it feels like all I can do is grit my teeth and survive! The snow falls, which is great the first several times, but then it starts to get annoying. The sun rarely shines because of the inversion, and, no matter what I do, I’m freezing all the time. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here for more.
Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher. Photo: VM/CPR/Dino/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Louisa Gonzales
Congratulations to Mila Kunis and Ashton Kutcher who are expecting their first child together! According to UsMagazine.com multiple sources confirm the two stars couldn’t be happier about the news, as it was something they both wanted. This exciting news comes only about month after a source confirmed the two lovebirds were in fact engaged. The couple went public with each other back in spring 2011 and have been going strong ever since. Kutcher had no children with his previous partner Demi Moore and their divorce was finalized last November.
How do you support your partner through a surprise pregnancy?
Blogger-turned-author Mandy Hale is affectionately known around the world as “The Single Woman.” With a heart to inspire single women to live their best lives without settling, she cuts to the heart of the matter with her inspirational, straight-talking, and often wildly humorous take on life and love. Her message reaches millions of women across the world every day through her blog, and with followers from all over the world, she has made a name for herself as the voice of empowerment and sassiness for single women across the globe.
Ryan Sweeting and Kaley Cuoco. Photo: Juan Rico/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Louisa Gonzales
Lovebirds Kaley Cuoco and Ryan Sweeting continue to show off their love and commitment toward one another. The couple have had a whirl wind romance ever since they first met. Starting with them quickly dating and then soon after becoming engaged and even sooner married. According to UsMagazine.com Cuoco, 28, recently showed off her new tattoo of her wedding date in between her shoulder blades in three rows of large Roman numerals, including the numbers that read, 12-31-13, at a charity tennis event in Calabasas, California on Saturday, March 22. The numbers tattooed on her back are the date of when the lovers said their vows to one another on New Year’s Eve last year in Southern California, just four months after getting engaged.
What are some ways to publicly show you love your partner?
