As little girls, we’re afraid of monsters in the closet.  But when we grow up, that monster is replaced with a fear of aging.  But Reese Witherspoon isn’t afraid of getting older!  “Funny doesn’t sag!”  Witherspoon tells Us Weekly.  The 34-year-old actress assures us that age brings more sexual confidence.  “You’re not as intimidated by it, not as embarrassed by it.  Sexuality and femininity is an accumulation of age and wisdom and comfort in your own skin.”Is it tougher to date as you get older?

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Another celebrity couple has split!  According to Us Weekly, Scream star Neve Campbell filed for divorce from husband John Light in secret earlier this year, citing “irreconcilable differences.”  The 37-year-old actress married her British actor husband, 36, in Malibu in 2007.  This is the actress’ second divorce after being previously married to Canadian actor Jeff Colt.

How can you keep your divorce under wraps?

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Russell Crowe has a reputation for being brash, egotistical and even violent.  And now for the first time, his wife even admits he can be “volatile,” according to DigitalSpy.  Danielle Spencer, an Australian musician and mother to Charlie and Tennyson, said the media have turned her husband into a “caricature.”  Spencer said, “He’s quite a volatile person, sure, but he also has a very warm and soft and funny side to him, too.  He’s multi-faceted, as most people are, but the media doesn’t allow for shades of grey.”

How do you deal with your partner’s temper?

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Who would have pegged Ben Affleck for the old fashioned type?  According to People, in a recent interview with Ellen Degeneres, Affleck said that he leaves the holiday shopping up to his wife, Jennifer Garner.  Although Affleck is aware that his approach to Christmas shopping may be a bit outdated, he explained himself by saying that Garner is “just an efficient Christmas-shopping machine,” while he sits around sputtering over the single gift for which he’s most responsible — the one for his wife.

What are ways to split family responsibilities in a relationship?

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By Roy Sheppard

Here in the UK, we are being drenched with Prince William and Kate Middleton stories in the media.  They are everywhere!

Unlike the loved-up celebrities who can’t wait to show off the latest in a long line of soul mates, what’s different about Prince William and Middleton is their quiet togetherness.  They already exude a sense of being an ‘us,’ rather than part of a ‘me + me’ relationship.   Their focus is on each other, and they’re not trying to convince their friends or the world that they’re together.  They just are.

They royal couple each have what I describe in my book, How to Be The One — a well-developed Emotional Core, the emotional equivalent of a strong physical core stability known to anyone who has ever practiced Yoga or Pilates.  The emotional ‘muscles’ they have developed in life include: a healthy self-esteem, an appealing attitude to life, a deep sense of inner happiness and kindness towards others.

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Cameron Diaz and on-again-off-again Yankee boyfriend, Alex Rodriguez were caught canoodling in Mexico over the Thanksgiving holiday last week, according to Us Weekly.  The pair spent time in the sand showing off their beach bods and taking dips in the water.  The two were originally spotted together over the summer, but kept things cool in October.  “They break up and get back together all the time,” says a source.Is an on-again-off-again relationship healthy?

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What is the most romantic city in the world?  Paris, of course!  Ryan Seacrest had the right idea by taking his sweetheart, Julianne Hough there with his family over Thanksgiving.  The group took advantage of the the City of Light by visiting a selection art galleries, shops and the best restuarants Paris has to offer.  According to People, Hough and Seacrest also found some alone time  on their balconied terrace and couldnt keep their hands off each other!  Nothing says “je t’aime” like a nice romantic vacation.What are the best cities for a romantic getaway?

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NCIS actress Cote de Pablo loves her boyfriend, despite their opposite personalities, according to People.  “I’m in a long-term relationship with [actor] Diego Serrano, and I’m very happy,” said the actress.  “He’s the worst influence that I have ever had in my life, and I love him for it.”  De Pablo, 31, elaborated, saying, “Every once in a while, he turns to me and goes, ‘Live a little.’  I’ll have chicken with broccoli and he’s like, ‘What about the chocolate cake?’  If it weren’t for him, I’d be the most boring person in Los Angeles…we balance each other.”

What are the benefits of having the opposite personality of your partner?

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The Amazing Race is full of surprises, like underdogs winning it all, leaders falling into last place and challenges that test the mind and body.  Love entered the picture as well when contestant Chad Waltrip proposed to teammate and girlfriend Stephanie Smith during the show’s 17th season, despite their tumultuous time on the show.  “Early on we struggled, had a tough time and I second-guessed myself,” admitted Chad Waltrip.  “I was so amped up and we fought a lot.”  Since the couple’s elimination and intermission from the spotlight, they completed their nuptials, and are expecting their first child.

How do you cut back on fighting in a relationship?

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It looks like even the busiest Olympic athletes are finding time for some romance these days!  Olympic gold medalist, Michael Phelps, has been spotted around town with jewelry designer and reality TV star, Brittny Gastineau.  According to TV.com, a the duo appear to be in the early stages of their relationship.  This seemingly unlikely pair have more in common than just their good looks.  Gastineau’s father is former Jet’s play Marcus Gastineau, which allows her to understand Phelps’ athletic background. However, sources say that Gastineau has been in long-term relationships her whole life and is just looking to have a little fun.

Is it okay to date only for fun?

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By KB in NYC

We all know that dating is a minefield, right?  But here’s the thing; getting older doesn’t help.  A lot of 40-year-old men only want to date 25-year-olds.  And here’s why: a woman in her 30’s or 40’s knows what she wants.  She’s been around the block a few times, and she’s less willing to compromise.  She’s less easily impressed and she is, in a word, more discerning.

Now that’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it does make dating harder.  Also, when man hunting at an older age, you tend to want different things.  At 24, a cocktail and a great make out session will suffice; at 40, not so much.

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Even though Taylor Swift is rumored to be dating Jake Gyllenhaal, she’s still enjoying her independence, reports People.  The 20-year-old singer recently appeared on Chelsea Lately to discuss the perks of having her own place.  “Living alone you can do so many fantastic things,” Swift told Chelsea Handler.  “You can walk around and have conversations with yourself and like, sing your thoughts…  I think I’m the only one who does that.”What are benefits to living without a partner?

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It looks like things between Kim Kardashian and Canadian model Gabriel Aubry are heating up!  The pair spent a romantic Thanksgiving together in Los Angeles, according to RadarOnline, Kardashian and Aubry were spotted catching a late night showing of Burlesque, starring Christina Aguilera and Cher.  The reality star’s sexy outfit included high heels, a short skirt, and a tuxedo jacket and her date’s classic ensemble of a pressed white shirt and black pants left no doubt that the two were on a date.  Suspicions of a new romance were heightened when the two drove away in Gabriel Aubry’s white Rolls Royce Ghost.Does what you wear on a date send hints to your partner?

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The date is set!  According to People, Prince William and his new fiance, Kate Middleton, have decided on a spring wedding.  The royal union is set to take place on April 29 of this coming year at Westminister Abbey.  Both Prince William and Middleton wanted as short of an engagement as possible, and they got their wish.  The wedding, which will make Middleton the first non-royal to marry into the royal family in a very long time, will mark a new public holiday for the UK!

When should you get married?

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Heidi Montag says she’s madly in love with her husband, Spencer Pratt, but did she have eyes for someone else?  According to RadarOnline, the former Hills star may have had a secret crush on her plastic surgeon, Dr. Frank Ryan, who recently died in a car accident.  In fact, sources say that the crush bordered on obsession.  Montag tried to see Frank as much as possible, going so far as to get ten plastic surgeries in a single day.  “I believe she was romantically obsessed with him … She saw him as a night in shining armor,” says Dr. Ryan’s close friend, Dawn DaLuise.  However, Montag claims that it was Dr. Ryan who wanted her to be his “barbie doll.”

How can you tell if your partner is obsessive?

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Engaged Bachelorette couple Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez aren’t sure of their holiday schedule yet, because “scheduling is difficult,” says Fedotowsky.  One thing that is for sure, however, is that the blonde Bachelorette wants a yellow beach cruiser and Christian Louboutin shoes “really bad” for Christmas, according to Us Weekly.  Unfortunately, there’s one issue with her wish list.  Martinez says, “I don’t know what they look like!”

How do you resolve holiday scheduling conflicts with your partner?

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New couple alert!  Rumors are flying after Gabriel Aubry and Kim Kardashian were spotted sitting together at an L.A. Lakers game.  A source tells People, “They’ve been dating a little bit.”  Gabriel Aubry’s ex, Halle Berry has already moved on after their split earlier this year, and it looks like the Canadian model is doing the same with Kim Kardashian.  While the curvy reality star was enjoying being single, she had also complained about her lack of a love life. How do you take your time in a relationship?

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Miley Cyrus definitely had fun at her birthday party last weekend.  The teen star and fellow teenage actor, Avan Jogia were getting cozy at Trousdale nightclub, reports Us Weekly.  Jogia, an actor for the Nickelodeon show Victorious, was seen nuzzling the neck of a very scantily-clad Miley Cyrus.  As Cyrus turns 18 on Tuesday,  she says that her birthday celebrations will continue indefinitely.  “I have a birthday month,” she explained.  “I do the whole month of November.  Thanksgiving, cake — [it’s] all about me on Thanksgiving!”

What are the benefits of dating around?

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Courteney Cox’s recent split with husband David Arquette has been making quite a few headlines.  Unfortunately, news of the break-up has also been affecting Cox’s daughter, six-year-old, Coco.  The actress’ Cougar Town costar Josh Hopkins told People, “The day that the news of the separation broke, there were paparazzi outside of their house, and they were taking pictures when Courteney took Coco to school.”  Though Courteney Cox has remained strong at home and professional at work, “Coco [still] sees these things, because [paparazzo are] not a normal thing in any respect, and she is a precocious child.”  Hopkins went on to explain that the couple’s split is tougher than most due to their celebrity status.  “There’s no doubt they have a lot to deal with right now…more than you would in your average separation.”

How do you keep a breakup from affecting your children?

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It’s official!  Former Biggest Loser contestant Stephanie Anderson plans on saying “I do” to fellow contestant Sam Poueu, according to Us Weekly.  Poueu popped the question at NBC’s Biggest Loser ranch in California.  “I wanted to go back to the ranch, because that’s where it all started,” said Poueu.  The two, who collectively lost 241 pounds on the show, are now ready to build a life together, and they want their Biggest Loser family to be there when it happens.  “They know what we’ve been through,” says Stephanie Anderson.  Though the groom’s brother will be his best man, his cousin and partner on the series, Koli Palu, will be a groomsman.  Between the announcement and the wedding decisions, the couple has been too caught up in all the excitement to set a date!

What are ways to decide who will be at your wedding?

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It looks like there’s at least one celebrity couple we can count on.  After two years of marriage to musician Ryan Adams, Mandy Moore is still very much in love.  The actress and singer recently told People, “I feel very supported and loved and at peace … I got my own little happy ending.”  And for Moore, happiness is found in the little things.  After mentioning how “nerdily obsessed” she and her hubby are with their two cats and dog, the actress added, “We’re big homebodies … We never want to leave [the house].”How do you have fun staying in for the night?

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In a black Janey Lopaty Vintage Couture dress, Pink graced the red carpet at the American Music Awards over the weekend, right after announcing her pregnancy on the Ellen DeGeneres Show. Standing with husband, Carey Hart who lovingly patted her growing bump, it’s evident that the couple is overjoyed with the news, according to Us Weekly. Pink told reporters, “I’m feeling great! Hungry!” But before you contemplate the possibility of a surprise pregnancy, Pink clarified saying, “I worked for it. It was not an ‘Oops.”

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Sex, drugs and rock n’ roll aren’t usually a parent’s “Teenage Dream,” but they added up to the perfect husband for singer Katy Perry, according to her father Keith Hudson.  The Santa Barbara preacher told RadarOnline, “You couldn’t see two f**king happier people,” about his daughter and her new hubby, actor and comedian Russell Brand.  “I could not have wished for a better son-in-law in Russell.  He makes my girl so happy,” said Hudson.  “She’s so happy and he makes her light up.  They’re going to be just fine…”

How can your partner make a good impression on your parents?

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Tony Parker recently set the record straight about his impending divorce from actress Eva Longoria, reports People.  The NBA star was aware that Eva Longoria would be filing for divorce in Los Angeles, and they are trying to deal with the situation in private.  He also denied rumors that he was the first to file for divorce.  “I did not file for divorce in Texas and did not hire divorce attorneys in either Texas or California,” said Parker.

How do you break the news of a divorce to friends and family?

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