Scott Disick recently recovered from alcohol poisoning. Photo: Justin Paludipan / PR Photos
By Sanetra Richards
Blame it on the alcohol. Scott Disick can owe it all to exactly that for his recent hospital stay. According to UsMagazine.com, the reality star was reportedly hospitalized for alcohol poisoning during his belated birthday bash on June 22nd. Kourtney Kardashian’s longtime love and father of two, partied and had several drinks at the Hamptons nightclub 1Oak before being treated at Southampton Hospital. A source stated Disick “went through a dark place” after losing both parents within the past year, but, “is doing great now.”
What do you do if you think your partner drinks too much?
Two co-workers flirting with each other. Photo: zurijeta / Bigstock.com
By Shannon Seibert
In-office dating is risky. On the outside, it looks like a wild thrill ride that involves a lot of stolen glances, secret flirting, and sneaking around. Truth be told, your co-worker is still a person with dating potential. We’ve snagged these five articles from our partners to show you the most important points about dating in the workplace:
1. Despite the warnings, it can work out: Relationships are tough as it is, and when you factor in the stress of the workplace, things can get pretty intense. An in-office romance can challenge people to test boundaries that they haven’t before, but by pushing these limits, couples can also live their fairytale. Ginnifer Goodwin found her love story on the set of Once Upon a Time, where she literally fell for Prince Charming, played by Josh Dallas. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
2. Secrecy can lead to hotter sex: Keeping secrets can be fun! Subtle touches and hidden jokes within conversation create sexual tension unlike any other. The forbidden fruit always seems to be the ripest, so go ahead a pick it. Plus, it’s an added bonus when you catch him checking you out in the break room; it gives you something to look forward to when you clock out at the day’s end. (YourTango.com)
3. There are a new set of rules: The dating game becomes a little more complicated when it comes to courting a colleague. For the sake of being professional around your boss and for the courtesy of others, keep public displays of affection to a minimum. They can hinder your work as well as jeopardize your position at the office. You’ll have direct contact on a daily basis, so just remember to toe the line from nine to five. (GalTime.com)
4. It may become big news: In the office, all personal relationships are hot gossip. When you really start to fall for a co-worker, people will know just by looking at you. Some industries are more accepting of colleagues seeing each other romantically. Actors date other actors all of the time! In fact, Katie Holmes is allegedly dating her co-star in The Giver, Alexander Skarsgard. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
5. It can lead to a serious connection: Colleagues tend to develop strong bonds due to the common ground of their work. You understand the day-to-day grind, and you run in the same circles. This allows two people to know each other in more ways than ones. The way he deals with being stressed, flustered, or successful demonstrates a lot about his character. Seeing these sides of each other can lead to greater intimacy and understanding of one another. (GalTime.com)
We’d love to hear your in-office dating stories! Share with us in the comments below.
“Sometimes, life is about just being here and feeling gratitude and enjoying all we are blessed with.”
I have been spending a great deal of time lately with a good friend who is deep into self healing, meditation, de-stressing, clearing buried emotions, and other ideas that go along with living a healthier, happier life.
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima speaks with women’s dating coach Jonathon Aslay about how and when to approach your honey with tough conversations. Aslay shares the key skills every woman should practice when trying to get her man to open up.
As much as we may try to seem above it, there’s no denying that photos are a major factor when choosing whom to pursue in the online dating world. While I always encourage women to look beyond a man’s physical characteristics and delve deeper to determine overall compatibility, online dating presents a whole different animal.
Andi Dorfman quits her job to be 'The Bachelorette.' Photo: PRN / PRPhotos.com
By Laura Seaman
In the latest celebrity relationship news, reality TV sensation Andi Dorfman has narrowed it down to two men on The Bachelorette. Chris Soules, a farm boy from Iowa, was eliminated after his date in the Dominican Republic. Soules told Dorfman that he loved her, but according to UsMagazine.com, the reality TV star didn’t feel the same way. “I don’t think it’s fair to make you sit here for days and wait for a rose ceremony,” she said. “I just think I’d rather be honest with you and tell you that I’m trying and trying, but it’s not there…”
How can you manage your relationship and love when your feelings are different from your partner’s?
Growing up and growing older offer a variety of challenges, including the guilt imminently packaged with being a mother or daughter. Have a Nice Guilt Tripis the fourth book in its series from this lovable and popular mother-daughter duo and details their journey in vibrant colors. Filled to the brim with witty, hilarious, and heartwarming anecdotes, the authors have mastered the art of tugging at your heart strings and putting a laughing cramp in your side simultaneously. Lisa Scottoline and her daughter Francesca Serritella share the pages, decorating them with the stories of their lives and loves. CupidsPulse.com had the pleasure of interviewing both authors about their new collection of tales, which was released on July 8th.
Shop until you drop with your partner! Photo: Shock / Bigstock.com
By Ashley Martini
It probably isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when we’re seeking love. Usually, we’re wondering where we should be hanging out and where all the single people are. We shouldn’t care what other people think; right?
Wrong…because it may be preventing us from meeting our potential significant other. Clothing is a way to show off our personalities; however, we don’t want to come off misconstrued.
Roger Williams and Jenni Farley welcome their first child. Photo: Robin Wong / PRPhotos.com
By Shannon Seibert
This past Sunday Jenni ‘JWoww’ Farley gave birth to her first born child and daughter Meilani Alexandra Mathews. Farley and fiancé Roger Mathews welcomed their happy and healthy baby girl into the world after many long months of waiting. Farley had recently posted her final picture of her baby bump, commenting on how excited she was to see her daughter. According to UsMagazine.com, the former Jersey Shore reality star initially didn’t take well to pregnancy, but was overjoyed to meet her daughter.
How do you support your partner through the final days of pregnancy?
Congratulations to the Claytons! Lindsay Ellingson married her fiancé Sean Clayton this past Saturday in South Carolina. The pair got engaged last Thanksgiving after Clayton’s beautiful snow-proposal, adorning his bride-to-be with a custom oval diamond. The couple decided to have an intimate ceremony at The Inn at Palmetto Bluff exchanging “I dos” in front of less than 100 guests. The Victoria’s Secret model gushed to UsMagazine.com about her man having “the biggest heart” and how she is ecstatic to be married to her best friend.
What are some ways to determine the location of your wedding?
Lea Michele and Cory Monteith. Photo: Courtesy Lea Michele/Twitter
By Shannon Seibert
This past Sunday marked the year anniversary since the death of Cory Monteith who died of heroin and alcohol overdose at the age of 31. Former girlfriend, Lea Michele had been dating Monteith for almost a year and a half before his untimely death in 2013. Michele honored her love’s memory by posting a touching photo on Twitter. The Glee actress tweeted: “We hold you in our hearts today, and every day we remember your smile. We will love you and miss you always,” according to UsMagazine.com.
How do you honor the memory of a loved one who passed away?
One couple is headed to Splitsville, for the second time. Emilie de Ravin and husband Joshua Janowicz have filed for divorce once again, according to UsMagazine.com. “Emilie and her husband have filed for divorce,” de Ravin’s rep, Jeff Raymond, released in a statement. “They have recently been living separately and remain friends.” The couple first filed for divorce in January 2007, seven months after their wedding ceremony. Janowicz was served the papers two years later, however, and it was not finalized. This time around may be for good. The 32-year-old cited irreconcilable differences with the Once Upon a Time actress. The two have been separated since November.
How do you know when to call it quits on a long-term relationship?
Mother and children. Photo: Anna Omelchenko / Bigstock.com
By Shannon Seibert
When you’re dating as a single parent, each date seems to be the equivalent of a job interview. Will he get along with my kids? Does he mind me having kids? Does he even like kids? All of these questions are rational worries that every single mother faces in the dating game. We’ve pulled these five articles from our partners to help you play your cards right and find a love that’s worth it:
1. Realize that it’s okay to be dating: Single mothers often fear their children’s reactions when they start dating. They don’t want their kids to get attached to someone who may only be temporary or, even worse, hate someone who they want to be permanent. Relax and remember that this is about your happiness too. Soon, you’ll find a man who will make you eternally happy like Savannah Brinson and her star-studded hubby LeBron James. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
2. Consider online dating: Online dating is very convenient for single parents. It allows you to create a profile that will highlight all of your expectations for a mate. You’ll be able to state whether or not you’ve been previously married, that you have children, and if you’re looking for a long-term meaningful relationship. This will also allow you to check out your matchs’ profiles to see whether or not he’d be a good fit for you and your family.(GalTime.com)
3. Make it fun: Finding love as a single mother is hard enough, so you might as well not add to the pressure. Stay light on your feet and be prepared for anything. Though it may feel like a job interview, it’s important to not treat it like one. You’ll find out more about your partner by interacting with them in atypical environments, so feel free to be spontaneous with him.(YourTango.com)
4. Combining families is a wonderful thing: Dating someone else who has children can also work to your advantage. You both will understand that introductions may be delayed until you feel comfortable with one another and that your children are your first priorities. Guy Ritchie and fiancée Jacqui Ainsley are welcoming their third child together, making Ritchie a father of five. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
5. If you’re looking for long-term love, tell him: By being up front about what you want, you put the ball in his court. Establishing this desire early on in the relationship is a confident move that he’ll either admire or run from. His reaction will show you what kind of man he is or the kind of man he could be. Be patient and understand each other’s needs from the get-go. (GalTime.com)
What’s your best tip for dating as a single parent? Share in the comments below!
The summer weather won’t last forever, so take advantage of it while it’s still here! This weekend, learn a new skill with your honey with this fun date idea. Think of something you’ve always wanted to try and conquer it as a couple.
Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are having a baby. Photo: Emiley Schweich / PR Photos; Marco Sagliocco / PRPhotos.com
By Sanetra Richards
Yes, you read the headline right! UsMagazine.comreveals a source has confirmed that pregnant Eva Mendes and longtime boyfriend Ryan Gosling are expecting a bundle of joy. The news was verified shortly after rumors circulated around the web about the 40-year-old actress’ seven month pregnancy. This will be the first child for the Mendes and Gosling. In an interview with Ellen Degeneres at the beginning of the year, the Hitch star joked about the pregnancy rumor frenzy that was happening: “It’s so ridiculous,” she said. “It all started because I didn’t want to go through the scanners at the airport. You know those X-ray scanners, which are really creepy? They basically see you naked, right? And not only that, but there’s a radiation aspect to it, so I always opt out.”
What are some ways to keep your pregnancy under wraps?
Cupid’s Advice: Expecting a baby is quite exciting! You are bringing a tiny human into the world, and there’s no feeling that could possibly compare. For now though, you and your partner don’t want anyone else to know your big news. Cupid has some tips to help you hide your baby-to-be:
1. Don’t tell a soul: If you are waiting until you’re further along in your pregnancy to break the news, your best bet is to keep your lips sealed. You can tell a couple of close friends and family members; however, everyone else is off limits!
2. Avoid hint-dropping: You may be extremely tempted to post cute baby-related things on your social media accounts…but don’t! People will probably figure out what you do not want to reveal. Remember, the ultimate goal is to keep this a secret until you’re ready to share.
3. Toss the fitted clothing: Use your wardrobe to your advantage! Maybe you have some flowy, shift dresses to wear when out and about; opt for those instead of your tight tees and button downs. No one will suspect a baby bump is underneath.
How do you keep your pregnancy under wraps? Share your suggestions below.
Justin Theroux says he fell in love in a "real, legit fashion" with Jennifer Aniston. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
By Sanetra Richards
Believe it or not, according to UsMagazine.com, Justin Theroux says he fell in love in a “real, legit fashion” with Jennifer Aniston.They have a normal, romantic relationship. In the August issue of Details, the 42-year-old Leftovers actor revealed they connected immediately just by reminiscing on a few memories of the “Waldorf grade-schooling they both received.” The two met back in 2007, when mutual friend Robert Downey Jr. introduced them to one another: “He and Jen fell in a real, legit fashion,” the actor told Details, “and he was willing from the jump to make sacrifices.” Since then, Theroux has been sure not to let the attention influence his ego or his relationship. “It doesn’t feel like a hardship; it doesn’t feel difficult,” he explained. “It can be an annoyance, but it’s not the end of the world. You have to center on what its core thing is, which is that you met someone you fell in love with. “
How do you know that you’re truly in love?
Cupid’s Advice: Finding love is one of the greatest feelings of all time. You’ve had your fair share of admirers in the past, but now, you think this special someone is here to stay. And guess what? You may actually be in love! Cupid has some ways to tell if you’re feelings are real:
1. Nothing feels better: Your head is up in the clouds; your heart flutters every time you see them; and you can’t stop daydreaming about the future — all of these feelings are undeniable. A relationship has never felt so great before. So what truly makes this time different? Ask yourself a few questions to see if you have indeed been shot by Cupid: What will I sacrifice for my partner? Do I see a future together? Is commitment an issue? Your responses will let you know if you’re in love or not.
2. You have a strong connection: You and your partner have developed a foundation that you’re continuing to strengthen. You share the same morals and beliefs, and your bond is unbreakable. If this describes your relationship, the love bug may have bitten you!
3. There are no comparisons: If you can’t even fathom being with another person and no one else can make you happier, the answer is quite simple. You’re in love!
Tell us about a time that you knew you were truly in love! Share below.
When is the right time for the first time in a new relationship? Yes, I’m talking about sex. There is no right answer to this question. Ask numerous people, and they will each tell you a different story: “We had sex the first night we met. It was meant to be a casual encounter, but we’re still going strong nine years later,” or “We waited five months to have sex and then broke up two months later.”
So there’s little wonder that many of you are confused on this topic! Below, I’ve outlined three points to consider when deciding to have sex for the first time in a new relationship:
1. Never assume: Unless you’ve had a conversation with your new partner about exclusivity, then you can’t presume that having sex will automatically make you a couple in a monogamous relationship. This is not true in most cases, and it can be very hurtful when you discover after the fact that you’re not on the same page in regards to what you want and expect in the relationship.
2. Premature sex: Having sex early on isn’t usually a good idea if you are seeking a long-term relationship. You are most often best served by investing time and energy getting to know the person before becoming sexually intimate. This enables you to discover if your new partner has good intentions and high integrity and is capable of making and keeping their commitments. These things are impossible to know on the first few dates but are crucial if you want a future together.
3. Oxytocin bonding: Oxytocin is biochemical that is released during sex that creates a feeling of attachment. Unfortunately, you may experience it with someone you’re not at all compatible with, but this bonding effect can override your logical sense of judgment and keep you in a relationship with a person who is completely wrong for you — another reason to not have premature sex!
There are no hard or fast rules, and there will always be exceptions. By having an understanding of the basic principles above and being smarter in your choices, you can protect yourself from potential heartbreak. High sexual chemistry is difficult to contain, and it’s very easy to get carried away with intense sexual desire, so don’t put yourself in situations that make it harder to refrain. Keep your dating to public places, and let your hearts and minds be aroused before your body. Talk about intimate things and allow the relationship to turn you on mentally; the better connection you have out of the bedroom, the better connection you’ll have in it. Enjoy!
Melanie Mar is a celebrity relationship specialist, matchmaker and life coach.
Ever wonder if social media can reveal red flags when it comes to that new guy you’re dating? In this week’s dating advice video, relationship expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House believes it can! If your partner asks you to unfriend your cute male friends or feels uncomfortable with you maintaining contact with your ex, it’s time for a conversation. “It can really be the ruin of relationships if you let it be,” she explains.
Dating Advice from E!’s Famously Single Laurel House on Social Media Red Flags
Brody Jenner says he never dated Lauren Conrad. Photo: PRN / PRPhotos.com
By Sanetra Richards
Brody Jenner is letting the cat out of the bag! According to UsMagazine.com, the former Hills star is letting it all be known in his latest podcast, The Brody Jenner Podcast with Dr. Mike Dow. In addition to revealing he dated his brother Brandon’s wife Leah at one point in time, Brody Jenner and Lauren Conrad never dated, despite what the show may have portrayed. As Dow began to name a few of Jenner’s past lovers, such as Avril Lavigne, Kristin Cavallari, Lauren Conrad, and Nicole Richie, Jenner stopped him in his tracks, saying, “That’s false. Lauren Conrad and I never dated. Lauren and I have always been just friends,” the Bromance stud went on to say. “We worked together on a show called The Hills where we had to pretend like we were dating, but we never dated.” After clearing up the L.C. rumors, the 30-year-old was also asked about his other “relationship” with cast mate Kristin Cavallari and if that too was staged. “I dated Kristin when we were very young … when she was on Laguna Beach and I was on a show called Princes of Malibu with Spencer Pratt … we met at a party in Hollywood … but during [The Hills] when we filmed, Kristin and I did not date, we were not hooking up.”
What are some ways to squelch rumors about your relationship?
New couple alert! According to UsMagazine.com, Penn Badgley is now dating Domino Kirke, sister of Girls star Jemima Kirke. The lovebirds were spotted in New York City taking a stroll on Wednesday, July 2nd. “They’ve been dating for awhile. They have a number of mutual friends. It is a very mature and free relationship,” says a source. “Domino is a great girl for him, being a musician. Their interests align.” Over the years, the 27-year-old actor/musician has been linked to Zoe Kravitz, daughter of Lenny Kravitz, as well as former Gossip Girl costar Blake Lively.
How can your career lead to a stable relationship?
You’re out and about with your friend, and you start to notice a funny feeling in the pit of your stomach. No, don’t worry, it has nothing to do with what you ate; it’s probably butterflies. If you’ve been thinking about your interactions with this person for awhile, it’s probably a good idea to assess whether or not you want to turn what you have into something more. And, if you do, Cupid has some food for thought.
‘Duck Dynasty’ star Uncle Si explains why wife, Christine Robertson, isn’t on TV. “Sometimes we film 12 hours a day, and she’s just not healthy enough to go through the rigors of that,” said Si Robertson, according to UsMagazine.com.
What are some ways to help your partner through health issues?
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Sandra Fidelis about signs that you may be pushing for commitment too soon. Don’t worry — we’ve all done it! In fact, the top reason why a guy ends a relationship after only a few months is because he’s simply feeling too much pressure. In order to not make this mistake, you need to first understand why you’re pushing him so hard. You may be feeling pressure from your friends, family, the media, or even yourself, thanks to your biological clock.
Next, Fidelis shares four ways to avoid pushing for commitment too soon: Remain present in the moment; make sure you have your own life; don’t think so far ahead; and establish clear boundaries.
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Cupid wants to know: How do you avoid pushing for commitment too soon?
Girl looking at her boyfriend's phone. Photo: Innovated Captures / Bigstock.com
Question from Alex S.: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. Every once in a while, I’ll see a text on his phone pop up from his ex. He says they’re just friends, and he’s even introduced me to her before, but my girlfriends tell me that it’s weird and that I should ask to read their messages. What do you think?
