Jef Holm and Emily Maynard. Photo: Billy Bennight / PR Photos; SBMF/FameFlynet Pictures
At the end of The Bachelorette’s eighth season, Emily Maynard couldn’t be happier with her fiancé, Jef Holm. Maynard tells People, “There were many ups and downs, and at times things were very chaotic, but love is worth the chaos!” The reality star says that while she always dreamed of great love, she didn’t know that the love that she and Holm share even existed. After a failed first attempt at finding a man, Maynard reaches out to her fans stating, “Thanks again for the second chance and sticking with me until I got my fairy tale ending!”
Emily Maynard and Jef Holm. Photo: ABC/Rick Rowell
The winner of The Bachelorette’s eighth season, Jef Holm, is moving to Charlotte, North Carolina. According to UsMagazine.com, Holm has made the decision to move to Charlotte to be closer to Emily Maynard and her daughter, Ricki. He will be getting his own place until the two get married, at which point he plans to move in with Maynard and Ricki.
When is it time to relocate in order to be with your partner?
I have to say, I was shocked at ‘The Bachelorette’ finale. Well, kind-of shocked. For some reason, I knew that Emily was going to pick Jef, but I was still surprised that she didn’t choose Arie. It goes to show you that physical chemistry does not equal partnership for life and that you can make the right choice if you take your time and really evaluate what relationship is best for you.
Emily Maynard stole our hearts with her sweet personality and her easy, southern style. For an entire season of ‘The Bachelorette,’ she has shown us that fashion-forward style mixed with classic elegance can certainly work for any occasion. I have chosen my three favorite date oufits that any woman can pull off, whether you go out or stay in – and even if your date isn’t equipped with helicopter or Ferrari transportation.
This first look (image above) is a perfect example of keeping it simple and still having fun with color! Make what you wear work for you. Always wear what you feel most comfortable in (but try to avoid sweat pants for the first date).
On the June 11 episode of The Bachelorette, Kalon McMahon called Emily Maynard’s daughter “baggage,” greatly insulting the single mother. As reported by UsMagazine.com, McMahon apologized for his actions this week on the Men Tell All show. McMahon says he’s glad that Maynard seems happy now, although he’s sorry that things didn’t work out between them. “I’m trying to use it as a growing experience in my future relationships and I really wish the best for you,” he said to her. That said, Maynard does not seem satisfied with his apology. She still doesn’t believe him, and seems to stand by her prior statement that she loves her daughter so much that she wants to “rip [McMahon’s] limbs off and beat him with them” for insulting her.
What are some ways to tell that your partner is truly sorry about an incident?
Jef Holm and Emily Maynard. Photo: Craig Sjodin/ABC
The Bachelorette is finally wrapping its summer season with the pretty, prim and proper Emily Maynard and her two remaining candidates. One of the men is Jef Holms, who shockingly denied the opportunity to stay the night with the seemingly-perfect Maynard in a luxurious suite in Curacao on Monday’s episode. According to UsMagazine.com, Maynard said on the pre-finale, “It was very sweet, but he turned me down and I wanted to turn him down!” The 27-year old beauty will definitely have her chance to turn one of the men down for the whole world to see as she chooses her prince charming on the upcoming season finale.
How do you know when it’s time to get intimate with your partner?
Sean Lowe and Emily Maynard. Photo: ABC / Craig Sjodin
By Marni Kinrys, of WingGirlMethod.com
OMG I was totally shocked last night when Emily Maynard did not pick Sean Lowe. I totally thought that Jef Holm was going to be sent packing. My husband and I were watching the show (he will deny it if ever asked), and both of us thought that it was going to be Arie Luyendyk and Sean for sure. I actually think my husband has a crush on Sean based on how disappointed he was that this “solid man” was not selected. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here for more.
John "Wolfie" Wolfner and Emily Maynard. Photo: ABC / Nick Ray
By Marni Kinrys, of winggirlmethod.com
That’s it! I’ve decided that, if things don’t work out with my husband and if I ever have to look for love again, I’m going to have a baby first. There must be some hormone that’s released when you have a child that allows you to be more open, real and honest. It’s amazing how I continue to be impressed by Emily Maynard. She definitely knows how to date and make sure she’s getting what she wants.
Her final four bachelors are truly a solid group of men. They definitely proved themselves last night with their ability to express themselves and communicate with Emily, something that is essential to any great relationship. As I always say, in order to get what you want, you have to ask for it – and last night, the guys asked for it!
On Monday night’s Bachelorette, suitor Ryan had a few words to say that Emily Maynard was not too pleased about. On their one-on-one date, he called Maynard a “trophy wife,” to which she aptly responded, “Trophies don’t talk back,” according to People. Soon after, Ryan was sent home – not without protest, of course.
What are some warning signs that your partner views you as a prize?
If there is one thing I can say about Emily Maynard, it’s that she has a super human strength for trusting her gut, instead of listening to her heart. This is a skill set that most women do not have but should definitely work on developing.
Just as the men on ‘The Bachelorette’ rewarded her for seeing through Ryan’s suave exterior, I want to do the same. Emily is a woman who knows what’s best for her long term and I can’t help but have extreme respect for her, if not a little crush.
If you’ve been watching this season of ‘The Bachelorette,’ you’ve surely taken note of Emily Maynard’s fabulous wardrobe. Week after week, she continues to impress us with her easy sense of style, transitioning effortlessly from date to date. Whether she’s wearing jean shorts and a crochet sweater for a day by the water or a one-sleeve gown at the Rose Ceremony, one thing remains the same: her eye-popping jewelry. And now, CupidsPulse.com readers have the opportunity to win one of two Towne & Reese jewelry giveaways OR receive 15 PERCENT OFF the entire Towne & Reese collection, including the highly-anticipated Fall 2012 Collection, from Pea Pod Paper & Gifts. Use the discount code cupidspulse at checkout.
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Ashley Grulich won the Daisy Turquoise Ring, and Elizabeth Gottier won the Brooke Earrings in either Mint Green or Crystal.
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Bachelorette Emily Maynard is having some trouble finding her true love. On Monday’s episode, set in London, suitor Kalon McMahon brought out a side of Maynard none of the contestants wanted to see after calling her daughter Ricki “baggage,” according to People. A hurt Emily exploded on Kalon, feeding him his own line, “I’d love to hear you talk, but not until I’m done,” before immediately sending him packing. She also criticized her other dates for not sticking up for her in her absence.
What do you do if the person you’re dating doesn’t accept your child?
Emily Maynard and Kalon. Photo: Nick Ray / ABC / The Bachelorette
By Marni Kinrys, of WingGirlMethod.com
We’ve made it! We’re finally to the halfway point when the superficial, made-for-TV drama must go away and make room for the real connections to bloom on ‘The Bachelorette.’ Emily Maynard is now in falling-in-love mode, so it’s time for the guys to get serious and show her they’re ready to fall in love too.
As you know, I work with thousands of men, and one of their biggest challenges is connecting. Connection is something that comes really naturally to women, especially to a woman like Emily. As a single mother, she is even more open to love. But for men, the ability to share themselves with a woman can be a daunting task.
Honestly, I have been surprised this season because most of the contestants have it figured out. But there are still some who struggle with opening up, which may hurt their chances of taking their relationship with Emily to the next level – especially as the number of men gets smaller and smaller every week.
Roberto Martinez. Photo: Richard Shotwell / PR Photos
Rumors were swirling in Hollywood last week that Roberto Martinez, a former contestant on The Bacheloretteand ex-fiancé of Ali Fedotowsky, would be the next star of The Bachelor. “That’s far from the truth!” a source confirms to Us Weekly. “They are asking him to be the next bachelor, but he has no interest as of right now.” Martinez was engaged to Fedotowsky for 18 months until they called off the wedding in November of 2011.
When is it time to put yourself out there after a difficult breakup?
Emily Maynard and Ryan. Photo: ABC/Donna Svennenik
By Marni Kinrys, Ultimate Wing Girl
Well, I think we found Doug’s imperfection: he has a vagina. “I never make the first move.” Come on, Dougy! No wonder you have not been kissed in months. Don’t you know women rarely make the first move? They should, but that would be unladylike.
This issue kept popping up over and over again in last night’s episode of ‘The Bachelorette,’ and I could tell Emily was getting frustrated with the guys. Doug turned bright red, and you could see him internally fighting the urge to kiss her, trying to respect his self-imposed rules. And then, there was the young, skateboarder Jef. This was the second time he had her on the beach and he didn’t lean in for a kiss. Instead, he opted to cut their time together short. Obviously, Emily felt rejected because these guys wouldn’t just go for it. …On the edge of your seat? Click here for more!
Now, I am not a single mom or even a mother for that matter, but during last night’s episode of ‘The Bachelorette,’ I got a good sense of how it may feel. I had no idea just how much parents put their children before them. It was beautiful. …On the edge of your seat? Click here to read the rest!
How to host a viewing party. Photo: monkeybusinessimages / Bigstock.com
By Andrea Woroch
I don’t watch much television, aside from an hour of news to go along with my morning latte. Yet there’s something about this sappy, reality dating show that makes me scramble to the couch every Monday evening. Though I hate to admit it, I eagerly awaited the premiere of season eight of ‘The Bachelorette’ as America’s favorite past contestant and single mom, Emily Maynard, took the stage in her quest for love.
Though Emily weeded out some of the weirdos in the first episode, there’s still plenty of drama, tears, exotic destinations and heartfelt goodbyes to enjoy. So whether you’re looking to gossip with some gal pals over your favorite eligible bachelor or you simply have nothing better to do on Monday nights, consider hosting a ‘Bachelorette’ viewing party, using these tips to make it memorable and fun.
Season 8’s Bachelorette Emily Maynard recently talked about her tough decision to send home hopeful bachelor, Joe, in her blog for People. Maynard discussed her date with Joe, mentioning how fun of a time she had with him. However, she said, “I knew that we were just in different place in our lives.” So, even though she had a blast with fun-loving bachelor, she knew they weren’t a good match and let him go.
How do you know when to cut ties early in a relationship?
Has reality TV suddenly gone real? This season of the Bachelorette is actually shocking me because it’s real (or as real as reality can get). They’re in Emily’s hometown. She’s living in her own home with her daughter. Friends and family surround her while she seeks romance. Looks pretty real to me. We can only hope that the bachelors match up to that sentiment.
This season of The Bachelorette kicked off last night with a bang. And by bang, I mean the noise that would resonate off all the contestants’ abs if you gave them a pat on their bellies. Is it just me, or are these guys extra ripped this year? Last night was all about First Impressions and, as we all know, they can be tough. Join that high pressure with tight competition, cameras and millions of viewers watching and judging. Not an easy stroll on your way to a televised romance.
Jeremiah Korfe and Paige Duke. Photo: PRN / PR Photos
By Daniela Agurcia
We all fell in love with Paige Duke, the small town girl from South Carolina on season three of CMT’s reality dating show, Sweet Home Alabama. We interviewed the down-to-earth sweetheart, learning about her experience as the bachelorette and how listening to her heart led her to choose her true love, Jeremiah Korfe. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here to continue.
Ali Fedotowsky and Emily Maynard. Photo: FameFlynet
Having previously starred on The Bachelorette, former contestant Ali Fedotowsky knows what it takes when it comes to finding love. Although she and her love match, Roberto Martinez, recently called it quits, Fedotowsky is hoping that the new leading lady of The Bachelorette, Emily Maynard, will have a better shot. “Emily is amazing! She’s such a sweetheart,” Fedotowsky told UsMagazine.com. “If anyone deserves to find love, it’s her.” Fans were first introduced to Maynard on Brad Womak’s season of The Bachelor when she fell for the bar owner, however, Fedotowsky believes viewers can expect something different this season. “Emily told me she likes guys with tattoos, so we’ll see what kind of guys she has on this season,” Fedotowsky said. “It should be interesting, I’m psyched.”
When you have many suitors, how do you choose which one to date?
New York, NY – ABC’s “The Bachelor” and “The Bachelorette” have another ugly public controversy to deal with. Despite 23 seasons of success, this past year has been tough on executive producer Michael Fleiss, as he is now dealing with his second set of legal issues in the span of a few months. CupidsPulse.com listened in on a press conference yesterday surrounding the impending class-action lawsuit against the popular ABC reality franchise for racial discrimination. The plaintiffs, Nathaniel Claybrooks and Christopher Johnson, are two African-American males who say they were discriminated against during the casting call process.
When Former ‘Bachelorette’ winner Jesse Csincsak treads deep into the Colorado woods, he should bring a few lotto tickets with him. On Friday, February 17, the Breckenridge local was snowmobiling 15 miles in the middle of the backcountry in Vail when he came across a lost mother and her son. Mother, Hilary Skye, and son, Dillon, had been stranded before Jesse came to the rescue. This isn’t the first (or second) serendipitous encounter to sneak up on the professional snowboarder as he’s navigated the trails of the Rocky Mountains. Last year Thomas Pazerunas had also lost his way 15 miles behind the Vail Resort with no cell service until Csincsak helped him.
