Cupid's Pulse Article: Jef Holm Is Moving To Be Closer to Emily MaynardCupid's Pulse Article: Jef Holm Is Moving To Be Closer to Emily Maynard

The winner of The Bachelorette’s eighth season, Jef Holm, is moving to Charlotte, North Carolina. According to, Holm has made the decision to move to Charlotte to be closer to Emily Maynard and her daughter, Ricki. He will be getting his own place until the two get married, at which point he plans to move in with Maynard and Ricki.

When is it time to relocate in order to be with your partner?

Cupid’s Advice:

Moving for your partner is always a big step, but it’s often important if you want your relationship to last. How do you know when it’s a good time to relocate to be with them? Consider these tips:

1. Your career has taken you there: Don’t ever pack up your life if you only have one reason for it. Make sure your career is secure in the move. This way, you aren’t sacrificing everything for your love.

2. You’re ready to live with them: If you envision a future with your sweetheart, and you’re willing to move for them, you better be ready to live with them. That’s the logical next step, so if you’re doubting it, you’re probably not ready to move yourself.

3. You’re thinking about it: If relocating is always at the back of your mind, you’ve already made your choice. You want to be with your beau, and you just need to get there.

When do you know it’s time to relocate for your partner? Tell us in the comments below.