Denise Richards has certainly proven herself to be a dedicated single mom. Richards is a former supermodel and mother of three (two of who she had with ex-husband Charlie Sheen). When Sheen had his outbursts last year, Richards knew better then to continue to lie to her children and keep them in the dark. She decided to educate her daughters about the cause of those outbursts: addiction. According to UsMagazine.com, Richards said, “It’s too early [for them to understand], but I told them enough for them to make sense of things that were going on.” There’s no doubt that single parents can use Richards as an example.
How do you explain to your kid(s) why you’re a single parent?
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By Marianne Beach, GalTime.com
It’s a new year but you’re still stuck on that old guy. And now the most romantic holiday of the year is fast approaching. Wouldn’t Valentine’s Day be the perfect time to exorcise that ex and move on for good?
The short answer is, I have no idea. I have no idea when you will meet your significant other, if you will be bound to singledom the rest of your life, or if you will in fact run into your future spouse on the train today. Any of these scenarios has a chance of happening.
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By Steven Zangrillo
If questions about your singledom are still echoing in your head from your last family visit and you feel down about your relationship status, this is the year to make a change. That doesn’t mean going out and finding the first online suitor you fancy or tying the knot in Vegas with someone you just met. Instead, make a resolution to yourself and celebrate the positive aspects of flying solo.
Can’t think of anything but the negative? Well, soak it up, because despite what others tell you, there are many reasons to celebrate. If you need some help with your list, here is a jump start so you can start smiling about being stag:
Sorry, girls! Rob Kardashian is flying solo this holiday season. “I mean, I want a girlfriend. I’ve been single for a while, but I’m 24 years old and I feel like I have a lot of work to do on myself first and that’s really what I’ve been focusing on. I’m focusing on my health and getting into shape and my career,” he tells People. What does Kardashian want exactly? Just time together with his family. The whole Kardashian crew spends Christmas Armenian style and, of course, together as a family. Kris Jenner gives out pjs every year for the whole crew, and they all sleep at the house, get up at about 6 a.m. and celebrate together. “My mom also throws an awesome Christmas party every year and at the end of the party — once everyone leaves — we all sit by the fire and talk as a family.”
What if the man you like doesn’t want to settle down?
In a interview for Vanity Fair, Lady Gaga opened up about her love life. The singer is known less for her romantic relationships, and more so for her dedicated relationship with her fans. According to E! Online, Gaga thinks that she will never know martial bliss. With the divorce plague that many stars face, it can be hard to find love in the entertainment business. Gaga told Vanity Fair that it isn’t the men she dates that are the problem, but herself. Whatever the issue, we hope Gaga finds love. But if she doesn’t, her little monsters will still get great music out of it.
What are the advantages of playing the field and staying single?
Kelsey De Santis and Justin Timberlake. Photo courtesy of Lance Cpl. Emmanuel Ramos.
Justin Timberlake, 30, accompanied combat instructor Kelsey De Santis to the Instructor Battalion Marine Corps Ball on Saturday, making good on his previous promise. The singer and actor accepted De Santis’ invitation over the summer. After the fact, Timberlake had nothing, but excellent things to say of the experience, saying that it “was one of the most moving evenings” he’s ever had and that he was “really blown away.” The star was very humbled by the experience and was surprised that such a young lady was representative of those that look after our freedom, according to People. He described them as “humble, concerned for others before themselves.”
What do you do if your partner continually breaks promises?
BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker Patti meets up with drag queen Frank (who sometimes impersonates Patti herself!) and gives him tips to be himself while dating, instead of the larger than life personality he sometimes embodies. As a “celebrity”, Frank and Patti discuss the good and the bad about dating when you’re well known. Going from too much personality to zero personality, Patti’s other client this week, Jason, is way too uptight and needs to loosen up to find a match. Keltie, a body movement coach meets with Jason to help him relax. Will he be able to take what he learns and apply it to dating, or will he leave all his new moves at the dance studio? Find out this Tuesday 11/8 @ 9/8c on BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker
Thinking Like a Drag Queen: Patti Stanger and her millionaire female impersonator are on the same page.
Pulling the Stick Out: Patti Stanger has this millionaire go to a dance class to find some personality.
British actor, Hugh Grant, welcomed a new addition to his bachelor life. In early October, his baby girl was born to a woman who has yet to be revealed. “He and the mother had a fleeting affair and while this was not planned, Hugh could not be happier or more supportive.” Grant’s rep told UsMagazine.com. The About a Boy star has never been married, but he admitted to Vogue in 2007 that he was ready for fatherhood, stating that he was “…quite keen to find someone else to care about more.” The 51-year-old seems to have gotten his wish and, according to close sources, is extremely thrilled to accept the new challenge of raising of child.
How do you make sure your child feels loved as a single parent?
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By Max Milano
It’s that time of year again when the winter blues start to kick in and people begin to daydream of a tropical holiday vacation. Many of us push aside the idea of a Caribbean getaway because we feel that it’s either too expensive or not a place for folks who are single. Well, if you think the Caribbean is for couples only or people with money, it’s time to think again.
Following are some undiscovered destinations where singles and groups of friends can take a walk on the wild side full of rum, salsa, reggae and the real Pirates of the Caribbean. The best news is that these locations are all a fraction of the price.
After just releasing her fifth album, Stronger, Kelly Clarkson was asked what she sees in her future. The singer expressed her hopes to be married with four kids someday. “I love what I do right now, but I live a very single life,” said Clarkson. According to People, the singer also revealed once she has a family, her career will take a backseat. “I don’t know if I’ll retire,” she says, “but it won’t be as full-on. Obviously things will supersede music.”
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By SMF Marcus Osborne for GalTime.com
There are so many roadblocks to lasting, loving, relationships in our lives that I can’t help but to cringe when I hear some of the dealbreakers that people throw up on those cockamamie love lists they construct.
Can’t be black, can’t be divorced, can’t be under 6’1”, can’t make less than one-hundred grand a year, can’t drive a hooptie (if you’re unfamiliar with the term “hooptie” consult your urban dictionary) blah, blah, blah.
BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker: This week Patti takes on broken-hearted brothers who are ready to make a change and find “the one.” The bodybuilding brothers certainly have the cards stacked against them. Older brother Abe spent the last three years in prison and younger brother David married young only to be cheated on, leading to divorce at 24. Patti has a good feeling about these guys, but will she be successful in finding women who can look beyond their troubled pasts? Find out this Thursday 10/13 @ 9/8c on BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker
· Venturing into the World of Abe Cruz: This millionaire was incarcerated for the past three years but is determined to turn his life around. http://bravo.ly/oLCIub
· Got Burned Young: David Cruz got burned as a young guy and is now trying to do the right thing. http://bravo.ly/oR5OJ3
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By Tiffani Azani
“There are over 100 million single adults over the age of 25 in our country, and for most of them, the thought of being single and dating is analogous to having a red hot poker jammed into their eye.” – Dating coach, Jo Amoia
Let’s face it: 100 million is a lot of singles out there, and it makes us wonder why those people can’t find mates. A new theory called the Disney Myth has recently been brought to light by Dr. Joe Amoia, D.O. and professional relationship coach. It turns out that Disney movies aren’t quite as perfect as you had once imagined, because, according to the theory, when a woman goes out with a man and he doesn’t treat her like Prince Charming treated Cinderella, she becomes disillusioned. She becomes bitter about the whole dating process, because it’s not at all like she’d expected.
The thing is, most people tend to place all of the blame on women for having false expectations and vain imaginations about romance. But women aren’t the only ones who are being affected by the Disney Myth. Men, too, are putting on a Prince Charming act in order to capture the attention of a girl. Dr. J.R. Burns, M.D., psychiatrist and author of The Tiger Woods Syndrome says, “It is unfair to blame women for “foolish choices” when even the kindest, most religious and moral young men are using the same deceptive technique to woo and win women as the worst misogynist.”
BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker Patti’s client’s this week need some help, but nothing too challenging for Patti to tackle. Her first client is looking for perfection, but on the way to perfection will find every fault with a potential mate. On the other hand, Patti’s other client doesn’t know when to hold back and keep his mouth shut. These rusty daters are depending on Patti’s expertise, but will she come through and find these men the love they’ve been searching for? Find out Tonight 10/6 @ 9/8c onBRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker
Fault Finding Territory: Patti Stanger believes this millionaire is headed towards being a fault-finding, nit-picking millionaire. http://bravo.ly/ntlU8q
Vomit Too Much Information: Patti Stanger helps this millionaire who is a bit rusty in the dating world. http://bravo.ly/nnXCcg
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By Amber Soletti
As a dating expert and resident NYC single gal who runs speed dating and singles events, I’ve always found it interesting that the majority of my super attractive, sexually confident and financially independent single girlfriends are those who seem to remain forever single.
I’ve always wondered why guys wouldn’t want to be with these women, and after years of thinking about it, I think I’ve finally figured it out:
The “Good Girl” Phenomenon
Some common complaints from my guy friends are that they’ve “never dated a girl with money,” or that “they never have sex because their girlfriend never wants to.” When I ask why they’re with their girlfriends, they almost always say she’s “nice” or “a good girl.”
You’re single. You’d like to be in a relationship. So, what’s the problem?
The Myth
Well, if you ask around, you’ll get plenty of input as to what you’re doing wrong. Your friends insist you need to “get out there” more. Your mother complains that you’re too picky. Your coworker swears that if you just get online, you’ll meet “The One” in no time.
Or in some cases, your family and friends take it a step further. While conducting a little arm chair psychoanalysis, they determine that the core issue keeping you lonely on Saturday nights is YOU. You’re flawed, damaged–a dating disaster zone. They say you’re alone because you keep messing up your relationships. You’re too controlling or too passive; too intimidating or too low-key. Too opinionated or too boring.
And even if your friends and family hold their tongues, the rest of society doesn’t. Bookstores’ self-help sections preach the same rhetoric with titles like, Getting Married After 30: You Won’t Unless You Change and Ten Things to Fix Today to Meet “The One” Tomorrow. Clearly, single people need to shape up or expect to live alone forever.
BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker, Thursday 9/22 @ 9/8c: Patti has her hands full this week when one client, Emma, refuses to get over her masculine tendencies, while the other client, Frank, suffers from some pretty serious control issues. Emma and Frank are both desperate to find love, but if they don’t learn how to let someone in–not just into their bedrooms, but into their hearts–they will never fall in love. Patti must bring out the big guns this week to help Emma set her sights a little higher than just any guy that is available, and to help Frank take his guard down and let a girl stay past 5 o’clock in the morning. Will Patti succeed?
Breaking Control Habits: Patti Stanger brings in a life coach to help her millionaire break his bad habits.
Breaking Control Habits
Going Against Her Human Nature: This millionairess must listen to Patti Stanger and Patti warns her that this process will be hard.
BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker 5, Airing Thursday 9/15 @ 9/8c: Patti takes on another Bravo star this week, trying to find love for the lonely. Million Dollar Listing’s Madison is one of Patti’s clients and while he wants to find love, he just doesn’t have the time. Meanwhile, Patti’s other client may need more help than your basic mixer. Eric meets with a psychotherapist in the hopes that it will lead him to love. Will these single men walk away with the love they’ve been looking for or will Patti need to put in extra work for these bachelors?
Madison Hildeband’s Past Relationships: Patti Stanger meets Madison Hildebrand and gets right down to the nitty gritty.
Getting the Intel: Patti Stanger sends this millionaire to see a psychotherapist so she can clean him up and help him meet the right guy.
Jake Gyllenhaal and Rashida Jones. Photo: Albert L. Ortega / PR Photos; Andrew Evans / PR Photos
Jake Gyllenhaal is definitely enjoying the single life! The 30-year-old actor was spotted with no less than three women in one week, reports People. First, Gyllenhaal stopped at a gas station with Anna Kendrick on their way back from Las Vegas. Next, the eligible bachelor joined pal Rashida Jones for lunch at an organic, vegan café in L.A. Finally, he hung out with married Cougar Town star Busy Philipps, who is a longtime friend and fellow godparent to Matilda Ledger, Heath Ledger and Michelle Williams’ daughter. Although all three women are said to be “just friends” with the Love & Other Drugs star, it looks like Gyllenhaal is still one of Hollywood’s most popular bachelors.
What are things to be cautious of while dating around?
As August winds down and we start to tuck away our beach bodies, once again the focus returns to Fall fashions and lifestyles for 2011. It’s interesting to see how the dating world is affected by our turbulent economy. Since we now need to tighten the strap, we also need to re-evaluate the way we spend money on that special someone — you know the drill… flowers, drinks, dinner, a new outfit. That new outfit, in particular, can really bust the bank and cause a headache or two. However, if you reside in the “young and wealthy rapper” demographic, chances are that you can still use that chunk of bling to woo the lady of your dreams.
Before her big day, a bride-to-be has so many details to consider: location, music selection, flower arrangements, seating chart, menu choices, and, of course, her personal style. She needs to pick out a dress and jewelry, as well as decide how to do her make-up and hair. When it comes to her hair, she not only needs to choose a style — keeping in mind her choice of veil — but also a color.
That’s where Rebecca Friedman can help. Co-owner of Goodform Salon in Hollywood, and a celebrity colorist expert, Friedman knows just how critical it is to achieve that perfect hair color — and most recently, as the exclusive colorist to Kim Kardashian, she’s helped one bride-to-be do just that. Continue reading →
BRAVO’s Most Eligible Dallas *PREMIERE* Monday 8/15 @ 10/9c:
Tune in for Bravo’s newest series: they’re young, they’re hot, they’re single — they’re Dallas’ “most eligible!” From beauty queens to pro-football players, this group of Texas socialites proves that everything’s bigger in Texas — including the drama. Some are looking for true love while others have perfected the art of the one-night stand, but somehow their love lives have all crossed paths at one time or another. And don’t expect this group of friends to hold back when it comes to critiquing each other’s lives especially when new gal in town / young and single mom Neill starts seeing the handsome Matt. How does Matt’s best gal friend Courtney feel about this budding relationship? And does she hold a secret candle for Matt?
Just Friends? When Matt Nordgren introduces Neill Skylar to the group, she gets a chilly reception from Courtney Kerr.
Not That There is a Checklist: Courtney Kerr is not going to settle and her list for a man proves it.
*SEASON PREMIERE* of BRAVO’s The Millionaire Matchmaker 5, Monday 8/15 @ 9/8c
Patti is back! And back where she belongs, among the beautiful blondes that need her dating guidance on the West Coast. After a stint in NYC, Patti is happy to be back in LA to tackle the troublesome single scene. Patti’s first client Michael seems to be the complete package. But is it possible that he is as good as he seems? Patti digs deep to figure out what his issues are and why he is still single. Will Patti make her mark on California and keep her clients happy, or are there some drama-filled dates in this matchmaker’s future?
Single and Ready to Mingle: Patti Stanger is back in LA and back on the dating scene.
Too Good to be True: Patti Stanger tries to figure out why a good-looking guy like Michael would be single.
