Directed by Steven Bill, The Walk of Shame tells the tale of a reporter whose one-night stand with a stranger leaves her stranded the next morning. Unable to find her phone, ID or car, she must think fast in order to make it in time for the most important interview of her life.
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By Maria Darbenzio
We all know that trends come and go. This idea holds true for the dating world too. What you’re used to now may not have been the same during the time of your grandparents, and it’ll certainly change again when your grandchildren are dating. Still, some things remain classic. We pulled these five articles from our partners to keep you up-to-date on relationship trends:
1. Open relationships: Although most people believe in monogamy, there seems to be a rise in couples who practice an open relationship. Some even think it’s a way to keep their marriage from ending in divorce. Experts have used the recent split of Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin as an example. Take a look at this article to find out more. (YourTango.com)
2. Dating through the ages: It’s no secret that the rules of dating change as you get older. Looking for love in your teens is radically different than dating in your 30s. Check out this video that explains how age impacts the way people view relationships. (GalTime.com)
3. Baby before marriage: It seems like more and more couples are having children before marriage. Much like Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis, the sequence of love seem to have been altered with the current generation. Although plenty of couples continue to marry first, as long as both parents take the responsibility that comes with a child, this alternative approach doesn’t seem as harmful to relationships as some may think. (GalTime.com)
4. Going green: Loving the Earth shouldn’t be designated to just one day, and Raphael Sbarge feels the same way. As becoming Earth conscious gains popularity, so do the combined efforts of partners looking to lessen their ecological footprint. Whether it’s buying cloth diapers for your child, supporting local farmers, or composting for your garden, this is one topic that deserves to stay in fashion. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
5. Timeless classics: Not everything needs to change with the time. A simple ‘I love you’ can say more than one would think. Breaking Bad star Aaron Paul knows how to brighten his wife’s life — and how to make us fall more in love with him! Check out how he makes Lauren feel like a queen each day. (YourTango.com)
What are some other trends and/or timeless classics when it comes to relationships? Share in the comments below!
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Mr. Locario about what attracts a man. A self-proclaimed serial dater, he started out by helping his friends and family with their love lives — and now, he’s here to help you! We all know that every man is attracted to different things, but there are some qualities that catch the attention of all guys. For instance, men like women with positive and pleasant attitudes as well as women who are independent and have their own lives.
A June wedding invite came in the mail for my husband and me this week. Ahhh, I think June is still the month for weddings, although I have read that October is quickly matching it for the month chosen by brides.
I met the groom-to-be a couple of years ago at a film festival where the documentary produced by him was being previewed. Dan and the other two creators of the film Give a Damn had decided in their mid-twenties to travel to one of the poorest countries in Africa. This film was to bring awareness to the world, to encourage those who saw the film to be proactive, to become involved in whatever manner they chose to be involved.
Although the 21st century has made it seem like ambitious women often end up alone, Dr. Sonya Rhodes assures us that this message is completely false. In her new book The Alpha Woman Meets Her Match: How Today’s Strong Women Can Find Love and Happiness Without Settling, the relationship therapist argues successful, modern, career-driven women can meet The One without changing — and she shows them how.
Rhodes advises women to look past the overly competitive, domineering alpha male and instead find a man who’s in touch with his inner beta qualities — someone who is communicative, responsible, thoughtful, and collaborative. Demonstrating that most people are a combination of both sets of qualities, she includes a revealing test to help readers define where they (and their partners) are on the spectrum.
Spring has always been known as a time for new beginnings. If you and your partner are expecting a baby, it’s best to be prepared in every sense of the word. Whether this is your first or fourth child, it helps to read up on pregnancy and parenting. We pulled together five articles from our partners to help you on the journey ahead:
1. Go green: Earth day is right around the corner, and these celebrity moms are doing everything they can to do their part. Whether it’s eating organic or purchasing recycled goods, every little bit can help protect Mother Nature, so why not get your children started young? Simple choices, such as cloth diapering, can go a long way. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
2. Stay active: Being the healthiest you can be can be incredibly important to both you and your unborn child. While you won’t be able to go hard at the gym anymore, that doesn’t mean you have to give up your workout altogether. Check out this set of pregnancy friendly exercise moves to keep you active and moving. (GalTime.com)
3. Break from routine: When it comes to raising a family, it’s easy to get comfortable and find yourself in the same routine. In order to become a better parent — or person in general — sometimes, you need to break from that routine and walk a different path. This can include anything from physical activities to expressing unique ideas and opinions. If you’re confident in yourself, your children will grow up with you as a role model and structure themselves in the same way. (YourTango.com)
4. Sleep train your infant: It’s no secret that the first few months are going to be full of sleepless nights, but at four months, the baby is developmentally ready to be put on a schedule. That means sleeping peacefully through the night for both you and your little one. What parent doesn’t want that? Take a look at this article to find out more! (GalTime.com)
5. Live your dreams: Some people put a lot of focus into becoming a parent. Comedian Mike Myers was no different. In the previous years, he stated that fatherhood was something he always dreamed of. His wife has made that possible for him — not once, but twice. The couple welcomed a son in 2011 and a daughter earlier this week. (YourTango.com)
In what ways did you prepare for a baby? Let us know in the comments below!
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By Gabby Robles
Grab your honey and get environmental! Our Earth is so beautiful, but with our busy schedules, we can forget how amazing it actually is. Lace up your sneakers and get ready for a good old-fashioned clean up with your man.
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship strategist Joe Amoia about whether or not men are really intimidated by strong and independent women. While that may the case, there’s a chance that you’re making the biggest and most common mistakes made by career women, including: acting too self-sufficient, bringing masculine energy on a date with you, lacking vulnerability, and more.
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By Maria Darbenzio
You don’t have to break the bank to show your significant other how much you truly care about them. When it comes to money, let’s face it, not everyone has a chunk of extra spending money on hold for elaborate gifts. There are plenty of ways to say ‘I love you’ inexpensively or without spending anything at all. Keep your relationship and bank account in check with some of these ways to express your love and appreciation.
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By Gabby Robles
Just because you can’t go on vacation this spring doesn’t mean you can’t still enjoy a much-deserved break. First, pick an interesting country and research it online with your honey. Set your wallpapers on all your devices to photos of the hotspot and check out some of the country’s facts and famous tourist attractions to learn more about the locale.
Finding love is hard enough, but when you’re working overtime and never leave work on time, it can seem impossible. For this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to life stylist and mind body coach Diana Antholis about how women can succeed at the office and still meet their soul mate.
If you’re facing this dilemma, she recommends that you identify your priorities and make time for what’s important; be open and tell people you’re looking for the right man; pick something new and step out of your comfort zone; indulge in “me” time; and indulge in doing an activity that gives you good energy.
As much as we’d like to think of ourselves as relationship experts and place all the blame for failed attempts at love on pure male stupidity, women may unknowingly make crucial slip-ups that land them back in the singles pool time and time again. If you find yourself chronically heartbroken, it’s time to take an objective look at your past relationships and ‘fess up if you’ve been guilty of making some of these common missteps. To help you do so, here are the top three mistakes women make in relationships and how to avoid them. …On the edge of your seat? Click here for the rest.
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By Gabby Robles
Charity walks are perfect for this time of year. The sun shines brightly, and the air is a bit cool, so being outside is particularly enjoyable. Throw on a pair of leggings and a sweater (or a t-shirt if your hometown allows) and grab your man for the walk!
On today’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating and relationship coach Jonathon Aslay about why men disappear. Have you ever been happily dating someone when he suddenly stops texting and calling? It can leave you feeling hurt, vulnerable, and confused. You may blame yourself (as many women do), but Aslay wants you to know that it probably has nothing to do with you. A man may disappear because of his own issues.
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By Melanie Mar
Butterflies in your stomach, questions running through your mind, and nervous energy are all natural reactions before heading out on any first date. The first date is an icebreaker, not a marriage interview, so sit back and enjoy! The beauty of a first date is that, if it goes poorly, you will most likely get over it quickly. Remind yourself that your best self is relaxed and confident. Follow the tips below to reduce your first date anxiety and set yourself up for fun.
Miranda Kerr did a revealing photoshoot and interview for the May 2014 issue of British GQ magazine. According to UsMagazine.com, Kerr not only graced the cover of the mag wearing nothing, but a pair of thigh high stockings, she also delved into steamy details of her life following the split with her husband of three years, Orlando Bloom. Kerr, 30, is reportedly enjoying the single life, open to dating and confessed to the magazine, as she gets older she is becoming more confident in asking for what she “enjoys” in and out of the bedroom. Kerr also revealed that she is open to explore whether it be with men or women.
How do you join the dating world after splitting from you own long-term relationship?
In this week’s dating advice video, relationship expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House shares her thoughts on the sexiest trait that attracts any guy. “Did you know many of my clients who are seemingly the total package can’t get a guy to ask them on a fourth — or sometimes even a second — date? Do you know why?” the dating expert asks. “It’s actually the most important thing when it comes to attracting a guy.” It’s not about looks or even being the total package; it’s a trait that’s available to average or even below-average women.
Dating Advice from E!’s Famously Single Laurel House on Sexy Traits
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By Liz Kim
Sometimes, you just need a little liquid courage to go over and talk to the blue-eyed Adonis you’ve been staring at all night. A bar is a convenient place where single people can let loose and have some fun. But while bars attract singles like moths to a flame, if you’re looking for a long-term relationship, your local watering hole may not be the best place to find Mr. or Mrs. Right. U.S. dating site PlentyOfFish conducted a comprehensive research study and found that the drinking habits of single people are very much correlated to whether or not they are looking for true love or a casual fling.
Rushing into a new relationship is never a good idea. You don’t know the person you’re dating well enough for a commitment, and you’ll just end up right back where you started shortly after attempting the new romance. Take a step back from the dating scene and reevaluate what you want out of a partner. Cupid has some advice:
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By Maria Darbenzio
Warmer weather is upon us, and as the flowers begin to bloom, so does romance. Take this time to focus on incorporating new and interesting things into your relationship. It can be as extravagant as a new vacation spot or as simple as showing support for a good cause. We pulled together these five articles from our partners to help give you some ideas:
1. Break away from reality: You don’t have to be a college student to go on spring break. You and your partner deserve a vacay just as much as anyone else! There are plenty of romantic getaway spots that are perfect for kick-starting this spring with your sweetheart. (GalTime.com)
2. Inspire your love: Turn your typical movie night into a time to take notes and make a list of ways you can spice up your love life with the help of the classics. For instance, if you’re a fan of Dirty Dancing, try incorporating some of those dance moves into your night — a simple yet fun way to add some excitement to your at-home date. (YourTango.com)
3. Get involved: Once it warms up, there are tons of options for walks and events that raise money for various organizations. Pick a cause that both you and your partner want to support and do it together. Not only will it give you a chance to bond, but you’ll feel good about making a difference. For inspiration, check out how Bobbi Brown Cosmetics is giving back to the community. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
4. Control those allergies: No one wants to sniff and sneeze their way through a date. This spring, take control of your allergies and don’t give them a chance to ruin the memories that you and your honey want to make. Take a look at how you can kiss those itchy eyes goodbye! (GalTime.com)
5. Express your love: As you’re spring cleaning your house, leave little notes around for your partner, letting them know how much you love them. Don’t live with your sweetheart? No problem! Sneak something sweet into their wallet or briefcase to make them smile when they find it during the day. Here’s a list of other ways to share your love. (YourTango.com)
How are you going to get in the springtime spirit? Tell us in the comments below!
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By Kristin Mattern
Spring is in the air. Take advantage of the warming weather and hit the road with your man. Head to the racetrack to enjoy the fresh air and excitement with your dearest, or get a little romantic and go for a trail ride. However you welcome the new season, you’re sure to feel the love blossom.
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks with relationship strategist Joe Amoia about why quick fix dating tips don’t work. He believes that the reason they don’t work is because they’re just that — a quick fix! They won’t give you the long-term results that you want when it comes to your love life. Instead, you need to explore the true cause of your dating problems. Look inward and try to identify repeating patterns or issues that always come up.
According to People, the leader singer of Neon Trees Tyler Glenn opened up about his sexuality, revealing that he was gay. He started sharing the news with loved ones last October. Glenn grew up in a Mormon church and says he’s dealt with a “complicated relationship” with religion. “I’ve always felt like I’m an open book, and yet obviously I haven’t been completely,” he told Rolling Stone. Glenn also explained how he’s been inspired by current sport figures openly discussing their sexuality. “I appreciated [that] Michael Sam was like, ‘I want to be able to go to the movies and hold hands with my boyfriend.’ Even hearing him say ‘boyfriend’, I was like, ‘that’s cool.'”
What are some ways to tell your loved ones about the one you love?