Cupid's Pulse Article: Expert Dating Advice: How to Get a Man to Crave Your Company!Cupid's Pulse Article: Expert Dating Advice: How to Get a Man to Crave Your Company!

By Gillian Lee

In this week’s Singles In Stilettos, dating advice video, founder and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to Lisa Shield about how to get a man to crave your company. Watch the video above and read the article below to find out some good dating tips in your life.

Get Men To Love Your Company

Lisa Shield is a dating and relationship coach, for Emotionally Naked Dating. Shield met her husband after going on 96 first dates and went through them very quickly. 16 years later, she’s with the love of her life, and she is a successful dating and relationship coach.

1. Share your head before you share your bed: In today’s dating world, men are putting a lot of pressure on women to have sex right away. “We have to be the ones that put the brakes on and say no, they can’t read our minds and cannot tell if we are ready or not.” If you want a man to that is interested in more than just sex, and a man who loves you for your thoughts and your heart, then you have to wait on having sex. Nobody can tell you when the right time to have sex is, you will know when the time is right for you. So, a word of advice, don’t sleep with them within the first four dates!

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2. Really understand the man sitting across from you: When you tell a man you don’t want sex, he’s going to feel rejected. “If you are going to put a break on sex, you’re going to have to learn how to reject a man without making him feel rejected,” Shield tells us. Really own that you are an elegant woman, and don’t let men call you a girl. If you’re in your 20s, 30s, and 40s you’re not a girl anymore, really own up to who you truly are. To truly get a man to crave your company, you have to treat him like a man. “When you start to treat a man like a man rather than a little boy, you start to bring out the man in him.” Women in today’s society tend to sit back and wait for the man to do everything, but we need to start being able to do stuff for ourselves.

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