Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: 5 Things He Must HaveCupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: 5 Things He Must Have

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Tinzley Bradford to offer their dating advice on what it is that a man needs to have before you attempt a relationship with them. Learn how you can win the right man over and stay happy with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find A Quality Man Without Settling

1. Must have vision. A man must be able to see a future with you for the relationship to get serious. Someone who can’t imagine themselves with you long-term isn’t the right person for you. Commitment is a goal you should both share and work toward. If there’s no common vision, then what’s the point?

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2. Must have a job. Any potential mate should have had a stable job at some point in their life. If you end up with a man who is inconsistently employed, then this can be a telltale sign of what the relationship could be like. You don’t want to worry about your partner all the time, so find someone who can take care of their self.

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3. Must have transportation. Depending on whether you live in a place that has reliable public transportation or not, you need to consider how important it is to you that a man have a car. It might be a red flag if he depends on you to take him places and run errands all the time. If a man doesn’t have a car or license, it’s at least important that he’s responsible enough to arrange transportation when needed.

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4. Must have positivity. A quality man should have confidence, morals and be respectful towards you. If he has issues with people around him like family or friends, that could be a red flag that there is something wrong with his attitude. Don’t settle for someone who exudes negativity  or has other bad traits.

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5. Must have something going for him. You should find a man who has a hobby that keeps him busy. Someone that is clingy and has no interests is a person that will get bored and try to bring you down when you’re not paying attention to them. Your mate needs to support your passion and vice versa for a successful relationship.

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