Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: Are You Intimidating Men?Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: Are You Intimidating Men?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Wendy Newman to offer their best dating advice on how to attract a man. Learn how you can be intimidating to men and how you can prevent these behaviors in the dating scene. Here are three great ways to improve your love life with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Be Less Intimidating

1. Saying “I got this.” Being independent is a good thing, but waving your self-sufficiency in front of a man’s face shows that you don’t need them. A man wants to feel needed, like he has a place in your life and can take care of you. Let him pay for a meal, pull out your chair and help you with errands.

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2. Not having a place. Men like to provide, it’s in their nature. Find a way to let a man contribute to your life, whether it be as a breadwinner or confidant. If you show any sign that you don’t have a place for a man in your life, any potential partner will lose interest. Show him that you want him as much as you want him to want you.

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3. Don’t be demanding. Sure, a man wants to feel wanted and needed, but he also doesn’t want to be treated like a slave. Make sure you’re not too demanding or asking for help all the time. You want to be high performance, not high maintenance. A man wants to be satisfied, not overwhelmed by upkeep.

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