By Daniela Agurcia

The best revenge is happiness. You may feel like wallowing in your sorrows after a breakup with someone who you once thought was “the love of your life,” but the best thing to do is get back on your feet and start dating again. Feeling sorry for yourself won’t get you anywhere, and won’t help you move on to bigger and better things, which is what you should want. Regardless of the reasons of why you and your partner ended things, you should want to look better then ever and get back into the dating scene. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here for more.

Eva Longoria is a tough woman on the inside, beyond her beautiful looks. The actress is getting back up on her feet after divorcing her cheating husband, Tony Parker. On Thursday, Longoria opened up on Lifetime’s The Conversation With Amanda de Cadenet, saying that she refuses to blame herself for what happened. She claims to have had a conversation with Parker about why he did what he did, but in a way most women wouldn’t have done. “I really wanted to know, and if you genuinely want to get something out of somebody, you have to not judge,” she said. Since her divorce, the actress has been able to accept the fact that what happened was out of her control, and to start having fun again. With her positive attitude, Longoria seems to be on the right track to happiness.

How do you keep from blaming yourself when your partner cheats?

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By Charly Emery

2011 served up some serious heartbreak for a multitude of our favorite celebrities.  Off the court, Tony Parker messed up his shot at matrimonial bliss with Eva Longoria.  Arnold Schwarzenegger mis-played his hand with Maria, while the Latin heat known as Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony incinerated any enthusiasm for making their marriage work.  Twitter gave us a glimpse behind the final curtain of Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore’s six year production, and Taylor Swift kept us all armed with a plethora of musical angst-filled love memoirs – courtesy of her little black book of breakups.

So which “ex factor” do Taylor Swift and Demi Moore along with a host of other stars have in common?

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Eva Longoria is in a different place today than she was just a year ago when she was filing for divorce from then-husband Tony Parker of the San Antonio Spurs.  This all happened after the discovery of inappropriate text messages to Parker’s teammate’s wife.  According to UsMagazine, Longoria knows that people think she is “angry and resentful,” but that’s just not the case.  Her forgiving attitude may stem from the successful relationship she’s been in since February with Penelope Cruz’s little brother, Eduardo Cruz or “Edu” as she affectionately calls him.

How do you keep from lashing out about a partner’s infidelity?

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Eva Longoria is speaking out against long engagements.  The Desperate Housewives actress says, “I never believe in long engagements.  People think engagement is another step. It’s not another step. You’re single and then you’re married.  The engagement is the planning part.”  She goes on to say that if she were the bride, she’d be like, “All right, let’s get going.”  Although Longoria’s three-year marriage to Tony Parker ended in January 2011 after rumors of an affair on his part, she has found happiness again with Eduardo Cruz.  When asked if she would consider marrying again, she said, “I’m not opposed to it, I just don’t really give it a lot of thought right now.”  Well, here’s to the happy couple!

What are the benefits of a short engagement?

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Eva Longoria may have recently split with ex-husband and NBA star Tony Parker, but it’s not holding her back. She recently celebrated her 36th birthday with new boyfriend Eduardo Cruz at a 1920’s themed bash. According to People, other celebrity attendees included Eduardo’s big sister Penelope Cruz and husband Javier Bardem, Kim Kardashian, Heidi Klum and Kanye West. A source says, “Eva and Eduardo were so cute. They were kissing and making out all night.  He’s so genuine.”

How do you make your partner’s birthday special?

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It’s official: Eva Longoria is over Tony Parker.  The Desperate Housewives star was recently spotted smooching new beau Eduardo Cruz at an L.A. restaurant, according to RadarOnline.  Longoria split from San Antonio Spurs player Tony Parker in November 2010 after three years of marriage.  The 35-year-old actress has rebounded with singer (and Penelope Cruz’s brother), Eduardo Cruz, 10 years her junior.  Last month, Eva tweeted that she is ready to move on.  “Starting over is hard to do, but life goes on.  I pray for strength, courage and wisdom on my new journey.”

After a divorce, how do you start over?

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By Emily Macintosh of My Life On Match

If you’ve read my blog, you know that I popped my sexting cherry this year.  I found sexting to be flirty, scandalous and fun, but I also found it to be a bit dangerous.  If I took a picture of myself and sent it, would he show it to his friends?  Could it end up on the Internet?  What if I go missing on a hike and that’s the last picture they have of me to show on the 6 o’ clock news?  In this new age of technology, is sexting just another step in the dating world or is it the new way to cheat (and think you’re not going to get caught)?

Several celebrities have jumped on the sexting and technology train this year, too.   Couples like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore and Lamar Odom and Khole Kardashian have been publicly showing their love for each other over Twitter.  But, sexting is different.  It’s meant for the two people who are involved and not the rest of the world.   Unfortunately, because cell phone records are not as private as we sometimes would like to believe, some celebrities have gotten into some serious scandals in less than 30 seconds, 10 words and the press of the “send” button.

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Just one week after finalizing her divorce with Tony Parker, Eva Longoria finally went public with her new boyfriend, Eduardo Cruz.  If that name sounds familiar, it’s because Longoria’s new flame is none other than actress Penelope Cruz’s younger brother. According to RadarOnline,  the couple were were first spotted together in October at her restaurant, Beso, followed by a few other encounters in December and January.  While it was clear that those encounters were meant to be a secret, the pair seemed open on Saturday while sailing on a luxury yacht in Miami.

Should you keep your new relationship under wraps?

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Eva Longoria was spotted out and about for the first time since filing for divorce from husband Tony Parker, Us Weekly reports.  The starlet was sipping champagne and chatting with friends at Hollywood hot spot Chateau Marmont over the weekend.  Dressed in all black, Longoria was smiling and chatting with Jason Biggs and Kate Bosworth.  Sources say she looked defeated and that,  “She had a grin on her face, but every so often she would stare off into space and looked very sad and somber.”

After a divorce, what are ways to cope?

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Apparently one set of divorce papers isn’t enough.  Just days after Eva Longoria filed for divorce from husband Tony Parker in California, Parker has counter-sued in Texas.  Longoria’s decision to end the couple’s 3 year marriage was due to her discovery of a number of text messages between her husband and Erin Barry (wife of fellow San Antonio Spurs teammate Brent Barry).  According to RadarOnline, since Longoria’s filing, the only public comment Parker had to make about the split was to People, saying that he was aware that his wife was filing in California, while denying allegations that he had already filed in Texas.

How do you cut out the drama in a breakup?

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Tony Parker recently set the record straight about his impending divorce from actress Eva Longoria, reports People.  The NBA star was aware that Eva Longoria would be filing for divorce in Los Angeles, and they are trying to deal with the situation in private.  He also denied rumors that he was the first to file for divorce.  “I did not file for divorce in Texas and did not hire divorce attorneys in either Texas or California,” said Parker.

How do you break the news of a divorce to friends and family?

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Eva Longoria officially filed for divorce from San Antonio Spurs player, Tony Parker this past week.  The actress was appalled after finding hundreds of inappropriate text messages from the wife of Parker’s teammate whose identity still remains a mystery, according to People.  The Desperate Housewife confided in pal, Mario Lopez, and it’s now been revealed that this is not Tony Parker’s first affair.  Prior to this indiscretion, he cheated with another woman and continued to keep in touch with her on Facebook.  “[Eva] is devastated, she wants us all to know that, but she’s strong,” said Lopez.

How can you tell if your partner is cheating?

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Eva Longoria and Tony Parker are ending their three-year marriage, reports Us Weekly. Parker had been exchanging personal text messages with another woman for over a year, and Longoria found out.  Sources say, “Eva is heartbroken by the betrayal…Once the trust was lost, the marriage was over.”  Longoria filed for divorce papers on Wednesday.  Says an insider, “Eva truly thought she was going to grow old with Tony and have children with him.  She’s inconsolable.”

How can you rebuild trust in a failed relationship?

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True Blood costars and real-life newlyweds Anna Paquin and Stephen Moyer were just one of the celebrity couples present at the 2010 Emmy Awards.  Other couples who made stylish appearances on the red carpet were Claire Danes and Hugh Dancy, Amy Poehler and Will Arnett, Eva Longoria Parker and Tony Parker, Neil Patrick Harris and David Burtka, January Jones and Jason Sudeikis, as well as many others, according to YourTango.  All making different fashion statements, the stars made sure their partners were up to snuff as well.Should you tell your partner how to dress?

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Eva Longoria and hubby Tony Parker were spotted partying it up at a nightclub in Croatia last Wednesday.  According to Mail Online, the Parkers and their friends have been hopping around Europe on a rented yacht for the last two weeks in celebration of the couples’ third wedding anniversary.  Their entourage included other high-profile celebrities, like Spanish TV star Maria Bravo, House actress Jennifer Morrison and her boyfriend, Prison Break actor Amaury Nolasco, as well as Tony Parker’s brother, Terence Joseph Parker.

What’s a less expensive way for you and your sweetie to spend your anniversary?

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