Relationship Expert Tag Archive: Suzanne Oshima
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Question from Mandy G.: I went on a first date with a great guy this weekend, but we didn’t make plans to see each other again. I want to connect with him on Facebook without seeming overeager. How soon can I send him a friend request?
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and dating expert Des O’Connor discuss first date tips for women.
1 In this relationship advice video, matchmaker and relationship expert Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Tinzley Bradford about how to answer the dreaded question, “Why are you single?”
0 We all know that finding someone special isn’t easy. If it were, then everyone would be in love, right? In this relationship advice video, these dating experts agree that, with these four tips, your chances of finding a relationship and love will increase.
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1. Put the gadgets away: Your cell phone, computer, or tablet is creating a barrier between you and any man that wants to meet you. By holding your phone or looking at your laptop in a coffee shop, it seems like you’re busy and don’t want to be bothered.
2. Pay attention: It’s important to pay attention and be fully present. Notice the men around you and be open to meeting them organically.
3. Get real: Be realistic and clear about who you are and what you’re looking for. Once you know what you want, don’t focus on a long list of “must haves.” If you do, you’ll be single for a long time!
4. Reach out: If you had a great time, it’s important to acknowledge and follow-up after the first date. Be available and don’t wait too long to schedule the second date. You don’t want him to lose interest.
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Here are three secrets that you need to keep in mind:
1. Men are afraid to approach you: They’re terrified of rejection, so they’d rather not risk it and not say anything to you at all.
2. Men put a lot of pressure on themselves: They want everything from your first date to your first kiss to be perfect, so give them a break!
3. Men can’t read your signals: Just like you don’t always understand them, they don’t always understand you. They need help understanding your signals, so make your feelings very clear for them.
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Duana Welch about whether or not you have to be happy alone before you can be happy with a man.
Related Link: Duana Welch Reveals How to Tell If Your Man Will Cheat
Both dating experts agree: You can’t be happy with someone else until you’re happy with yourself. According to their love advice, no man can complete you; he can only complement you. Still, it’s normal to feel lonely when you’re single. As Welch explains, “The fact of the matter is most of us are not very happy alone.” That’s why you’re dating after all — to bring more happiness into your life! “This is not the same thing as failing to love yourself,” she assures us.
The relationship author adds, “It’s very important to work on loving you.”
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Middle-aged women often think that men their age only want to date younger women, but that’s not always true. According to this relationship advice video, it really just depends. If a man is going through a divorce and experiences a mid-life crisis, he may feel the need to date a younger woman to validate himself or make him feel desirable. If a man wants children, he’ll be attracted to women of childbearing years.
As this dating expert explains, there are also men, though, who aren’t going through a life change or don’t want children and will date people closer to their age. For the most part, men want to date someone within 10 years of their age.
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0 Matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Arica Angelo about how to find true love fast. Check out their expert dating advice above!
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Angelo believes that there are two pieces of love advice you must consider if you’re ready for The One. First, you must come off the sidelines. Dating is constantly changing, which means you have to break out of your routine if you want to keep up.
And second, you have to be willing to take risks. If you’re not meeting someone special, it’s time to stop playing it safe and do something differently!
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Question from Jenny T.: I have a lifestyle blog where I constantly post updates about my friendships, favorite fashion, recipes, and occasionally my love life. I started dating a new guy about two weeks ago. Can I blog about our dates and how I feel about him, or is it too soon to share those details about our relationship?
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In this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert Des O’Connor, who shares his best love advice for someone who has a successful career but is struggling to find The One.
Despite what you may think, you can climb the corporate ladder and have a fulfilled romantic relationship and love life. O’Connor reveals five tips to remember:
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1. What you focus on is what you become:Â If you’re only concerned about your job, it’ll take over your personal life too. Turn some of your attention to dating instead.
2. You need to strike a balance.
3. Men need to feel needed.
4. Stop saying, “I don’t need a man!”: If you keep sending that idea out into the universe, guess what? You won’t find a guy to invite into your life!
Related Link: Des O’Connor Reveals Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men
5. Men aren’t intimidated by strong, independent women: If you keep running into this issue, you’re attracting the wrong type of men.
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and dating expert Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Tinzley Bradford about why men disappear.
The author of Settle Free Dating Method for Women explains that dating is hard enough without having to worry about the great guy in your life suddenly disappearing. According to her expert love advice, here are four reasons why a man may vanish:
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1. He met someone else: While it may be hard to accept, until you’re in a committed, monogamous relationship, he’s free to date multiple people at once — and so are you!
2. He already has someone: You may be the other woman and not even know it. If he suddenly stops calling, there’s a chance he’s focusing all of his attention on his girlfriend or wife. Unfortunately, some men enjoy the thrill of cheating.
3. He just wants sex: He may want sex without any strings attached. If so, if you don’t give him what he wants, he’ll disappear.
4. He’s bored:Â He may think your relationship has become predictable and mundane. In that case, he may stop calling without any explanation.
If you’re dating a man who disappears, it’s important to remember that he’s doing you a favor: Any guy who leaves without an explanation isn’t the right one for you!
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How do you handle a man who disappears? Share your relationship advice below!
0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert and relationship author Robert Manni about what women don’t know about men.
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According to this relationship advice video, there are three things that women don’t know about men. First, men are not that complicated. The dating expert says that they are very simple creatures — what you see is what you get! Second, they don’t pay attention. They’re consumed with their own lives and often forget to focus on the details of their relationship. If you want him to open up, you have to ease him into it; otherwise, you might scare him away. And finally, men aren’t mind readers. If you feel a certain way, you need to tell him because he probably won’t figure it out on his own. Armed with this love advice, you’ll be ready for your next date!
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Anything else women don’t know about men? Tell us in the comments below!
0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos video, relationship expert Suzanne Oshima and WingGirlMethod.com founder Marni Kinrys share their best dating advice for attracting an alpha male.
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While Kinrys has worked with a lot of alpha males who are attracted to strong women, the dating expert believes that all men still want to feel needed by their partner. If they don’t, they won’t stick around. So ladies, no matter how independent you are, you need to let the man take the lead when it comes to your relationship and love life!
Watch the video above for more great dating advice!
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Tell us your best tip for attracting an alpha male in the comments below!
0 In this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and relationship author Duana Welch reveal how to know if a man is a cheater.
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First, the dating experts share a piece of good news: Most men are not cheaters! To help you figure out if your guy will cheat, here are five types of men who are more prone to infidelity: Mr. History follows a pattern of cheating — not once but multiple times; Mr. All That has women at his beck and call and just can’t resist the constant temptation; Mr. Highly Experienced is used to dating numerous women and doesn’t want to commit; Mr. Globe Trotter attracts ladies with his wealth and adventurous spirit; and Mr. Personality is a narcissist who doesn’t see anything wrong with getting “some” on the side.
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How can you tell if a man is a cheater? Share your love advice in the comments below!
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The relationship experts first clarify that beauty is not an option. As Oshima explains, “Ladies, physical looks are the number one thing, but I’m talking about the number one quality a woman should have in order to get a man.” Crowther then responds with his expert love advice: It’s going to vary from guy to guy! “Some men love to be challenged, while some men love to be nurtured or taken care of,” he shares. The dating expert encourages you to figure out what part of you is most important for a guy to accept; if he’s not okay with that piece of your personality, then he’s not the one for you. It’s that simple!
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What do you think men want most when it comes to their search for love? Tell us in the comments below!
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Question from Elissa B.: I’ve been seeing this guy for a few months now, and anytime we’re not together, he always texts me and never calls. Whether he’s seeing how my day is going or we’re trying to arrange our plans for the weekend, he only texts. What does this behavior say about our relationship and about him?
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Des O’Connor about the secrets of meeting men.
According to O’Connor’s expert dating advice, you have to remember that you can meet men anytime, anywhere! It’s something you should always be doing to increase your chances of success. The relationship expert reveals that you can meet a man while you’re walking down the street, running errands, or even standing in line at the grocery store. Just keep your eyes open!
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They also encourage you to go where men like to hangout. They enjoy sporting events like basketball, hockey, or boxing. And while they may not like to shop, the men’s section of a department store is another good option! Once you spot a potential match, all you have to do is smile and strike up a conversation.
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert Marni Kinrys about how to handle a bad kisser.
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and dating expert Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Duana Welch about what you think you need in a man but don’t.
Related Link: Duana Welch on Finding Love By Not Looking for Love: Is It Fact or Fiction?
According to the writer of Love Factually, many women focus on the wrong must-haves when they’re looking for The One. Doing so may be keeping you single! Here are a few qualities that you think you need in a partner but actually don’t: every shared interest, a “cool” guy, someone who respects your independence, love and sexual attraction only, and someone who is wealthy. To follow this love advice, reevaluate your checklist and remove those things that you don’t really need in a man.
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What is a quality that you thought you needed in a significant other but actually don’t? Share your love advice in the comments below!
0 The dating consultant for SurviveWomen.com explains that the only person who truly knows the answer to this question is the man himself. However, the relationship experts offer a few potential reasons for you to consider: Something may have come up in his personal or professional life; he didn’t find you attractive or may have been bothered by something you said; or he may be taken already. Of course, he may just be someone who lacks integrity. If that’s the case, he’s not someone you want as your partner in a long-term relationship and love.
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There’s one other question that women often ask themselves: If he doesn’t call, should I reach out? Feel free to contact him, but remember that you shouldn’t be doing all of the pursuing. It’s a two-way street, and you deserve someone who’s willing to go the extra mile for you!
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0 Dr. Kirschner shares the following love advice: Have fun in and out of the bedroom; be radiantly happy; don’t be a drama queen; make him feel good about you; and be patient with where you’re at in the relationship process. While there’s no set timeline, your partnership should always be moving forward. No matter what, though, never give a man an ultimatum; you don’t want to force him to be with you exclusively before he’s ready.
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If you follow this love advice from Dr. Kirschner, which is based on the simple laws of attraction, you’ll be one step closer to finding the relationship and love you want.
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima and dating expert Des O’Connor share their best love advice for how to win him over.
Related Link: Des O’Connor on Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Men
According to O’Connor, finding a relationship and love shouldn’t be hard for women. If you understand how men think and what they want, you can capture his attention. Consider this love advice from the dating expert and make yourself aware of these three things: Know what makes him tick; understand his relationship with his mother; and remember that food is really important to a man. Other than that, just show him that you’re thinking of him. It really is that easy!
Watch the relationship advice video above for the rest of O’Connor’s great dating tips!
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0 On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, relationship expert Suzanne Oshima and author and passionate living coach Abiola Abrams share their best dating advice about mindfulness.
“Self-being is really just mindfulness. When you don’t have access to self-love, go for self-being,” Abrams explains. “It’s about learning how to be comfortable with yourself and where you are. So when I say dating and mindfulness, it’s about learning how to be present, not only on a date but in a relationship.” Watch the video above for her tips on how to improve your relationship and love life!
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Tell us: What’s your best dating advice for how to be mindful when looking for a relationship and love?
