We were at an airport recently, waiting in the gate area for our flight to board when an incident inspiring relationship advice presented itself to us. Sitting close by was a middle-aged woman who was literally unloading her romantic life frustrations on a lady, whom we hoped, was a friend of hers. She kept lining up one anecdote behind another about how insensitive her boyfriend was to her. With no apparent shame, (she was so loud that we wished she could have been the gate attendant giving us the flight status information) she carried on describing how “her guy” seemed to get a kick out of giving her stupid gifts and cards on special occasions. She said, “For my last birthday, he gave me a card that said, ‘Old age has its benefits. You can now have all your meals in a cup to go.’ and the accompanying present was a plastic cup with a straw and a set of fake dentures.”
And just as we both thought we had heard everything there was to hear, the poor woman dropped the bomb on us. She said, “Now with Valentine’s day just around the corner, I soooo much hope he will spoil me with something decent, you know… Something that will show how much he loves me. I just want to feel loved!”
Celebrity relationships haven’t been easy for Khloe Kardashian. The reality TV star and her basketball star beau James Harden recently split after dating since this past summer. People.com confirmed the break-up between the former celebrity couple, and it seems like Kardashian can’t catch a break. The two started to drift apart right around the time that Khloe’s “estranged husband,” former NBA player Lamar Odom, was found unconcious in a Las Vegas brothel back in October 2015. Khloe said that Harden had been “very supportive and awesome” of the situation with Lamar. Since the split between Harden and Kardashian, Khloe has signed up on OKCupid, a free online dating site.
This duo is no longer a celebrity couple! What are some ways to move forward after a hurtful break-up?
“Come at me bro,” said by who else but Olivia, a contestant on The Bachelor season 20. This was the quote of the episode, especially since Ben Higgins and many of the ladies came after Olivia last night. This episode of was so eventful I don’t even know where to start. It definitely could make the front page of celebrity news. From not having a rose ceremony last week and girls starting unnecessary drama this week, this episode did not disappoint, and I felt it was very pivotal to the season.
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By Katie Gray
New relationships are fun and romantic. It’s exciting to get to know someone you care about on another level outside of your friends. It’s nice going on dates, laughing, and then talking about it with your friends and family afterward. Our emotions vary during this new stage of a relationship. Cupid has some relationship and dating advice to help you navigate and understand these emotional stages of being in a new relationship.
Check out Cupid’s relationship advice about handling the 10 emotional stages of being in a new relationship:
On the latest episode of the Single in Stilettos show, matchmaker and dating coach Suzanne Oshima talked dating advice with David Steele, a marriage and family therapist, relationship coach and founder of the Relationship Coaching Institute. Through his experience professionally and personally, Steele had an epiphany: “Singles become couples, that’s absolutely where we need to start.”
Hugh Jackman and wife Deborra-Lee Furness. Photo: KM/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Dr. Jane Greer
Actor Hugh Jackman’s marriage to Deborra-Lee Furness has stood the test of time. He recently appeared on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, where he spoke fondly of his wife saying, “it gets better and better” with time. This celebrity couple has been together for more than 20 years, and are a perfect example of a couple making marriage succeed. It’s heartening to hear, especially in Hollywood where there are a lot of exit opportunities as well as added stressors that can tax any relationship. So what’s the secret (or relationship advice!), for them and for anyone who manages to have a marriage with mileage?
How do two people love and respect each other, learn to work through conflicts and problems, and maintain intimacy, attraction, and desire for the long run? The bottom line is, how do you make it strong so that it lasts? Check out this relationship advice.
If we are truly going to know and, eventually, accept ourselves for who we are, it’s crucial for us to have clarity not only on what we value, like, and enjoy, but also on what we don’t—and ask ourselves why. Probing our dislikes helps us discover what are our deepest values. This is essential because self-awareness and self-acceptance are key parts of the foundation of all successful relationships. In an interview with Entertainment Tonight, Will Smith was asked how he and his wife, Jada Pinkett Smith had managed to have a successful 20 year marriage. His relationship advice was, “If there is a secret I would say it’s that we never went into working in our relationship” … “We only ever worked on ourselves individually, and then presented ourselves to one another better than we were previously.”
Relationship Advice: Your self-knowledge deepens when you recognize what you do not want and helps you realize what you do want and need in a long-term relationship.
In our exclusive celebrity interview, Yvette Gonzalez-Nacer discusses her role in 'Grease: Live' and shares her best relationship and love advice. Photo courtesy of Anderson Group Public Relations.
By Emily Hoff
If you were one of the nearly 12.2 million viewers who tuned in to watch Grease: Live on Sunday, January 31st, you saw Yvette Gonzalez-Nacer knock it out of the park when she played Danny Zuko’s saucy ex-girlfriend Cha Cha. In our exclusive celebrity interview, she opens up about this fun role, discusses her other current projects (she’s got an EP on iTunes!), and shares her best relationship advice and top four commandments for moving on after a break-up. …On the edge of your seat? Click here for more!
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By Lori Zaslow and Jennifer Zucher for Project Soulmate with contributing writer Emily Stovall
It’s no secret that relationships are not always easy. In some cases, going to a professional matchmaker might be better than dating on your own. Consider our dating advice on how to know when it’s time to get an expert involved and everything they can do for your love life. This love advice may save your troubling love life!
On this week’s Single in Stilettos post, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks expert relationship advice with love coach Nicole Moore on finding your next relationship and love. They’re not talking how to attract just any man, but a high quality man. “You want to be an energy of ‘I am the prize,’” Moore exclaimed.
When it comes to problems in relationships, one that may be immensely mind boggling to us all is: why be in a relationship with someone you are ashamed of? In celebrity news, Zayn Malik and supermodel Gigi Hadid have been spotted out together multiple times, and there’s been some social media love as well. According to UsMagazine.com, Malik is essentially denied dating Hadid on an interview with Apple’s Music’s Beast, and Hadid confirmed that Malik is “actually single.” These two continue to claim each other as just good pals, even though celebrity gossip says they are a celebrity couple.
This celebrity news seems to point toward a denial that the two celebs are dating. What do you do if you are getting signs that your partner is ashamed of you?
I’ve got a confession for you: I’ve always been quick to say the L word. I finally learned, though, that doing so leads to the quick destruction of your relationship and love, and I’m going to explain why.
Relationship Expert Discusses Saying “I Love You” For the First Time
According to my expert dating advice, telling somebody you love them shouldn’t be taken lightly. As a matter of fact, it’s a very serious thing to say to somebody. The problem is, too many of us throw “I love you” around too quickly, and that’s because we’re in love with the idea of who we think someone is.
Every time I thought I was in love, I was always in love with the idea of that person. I loved the way they looked; I loved the way they smelled; I loved the way they spoke. I loved what I thought they were all about. The myth of being in love is the key here. You see, when we think we know somebody, we fall in love with the idea of what we actually think they are.
We’re all guilty of it. We tend not to listen when people usually tell us exactly who they are. So let’s go a little deeper right now, and talk about the L word.
When you meet somebody and you think you’re in love with them, it’s your thoughts that you love. You’re deeply intoxicated and love drunk, under the powerful drug called chemistry.
I remember my last relationship and love. I was so in love with her, that I was blinded to who she really was. She wasn’t a bad person. She was actually a good person, but she wasn’t my special person. I put the L word out there and told her I loved her quickly — and that changed everything. She immediately felt like she could do no wrong.
Here was this great man that told her how much he loved her after only three weeks. Six months later, when the relationship was on rocky ground and I started expressing my needs, wants, and desires, she had no idea what to do. She thought I was happy the whole time because I told her how much I loved her over and over again.
The right time to tell someone new that you love them is when you really get to know them. You get to know who they are; you get to know their faults; you get to know what they’re about. When you know that they make you feel loved, wanted, and desired, then it’s time.
I’m going to say it again: The L word is not something you should throw around lightly. That will get you into trouble. So I strongly suggest you follow this expert dating advice: Take 90 days to look at your partner, see what they’re all about, and get to know them. See who they are in different situations. See if the feeling of love is real or just chemical.
Give yourself this 90-day challenge and don’t say the L word for the first three months. If the love drunk feeling begins to wear off and you see them for who they really are and you still want to tell them that you love them, go for it.
David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship expert, author of the book Naked, and speaker. Through his boot camps, personal coaching, and his website, his love advice has transformed the relationships and love of hundreds of thousands of people from every corner of the globe.
For more expert relationship advice from David, click here.
Rob Kardashian and Blac Chyna. Photo: Justin Paludipan / PR Photos; Juan Rico/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Dejha Carlisle
It seems like the Kardashians like to keep it in the family! In the latest celebrity news, Blac Chyna riled up her followers on Instagram after she posted a pic of herself and Rob Kardashian on January 26th. Not only that, but his family was less than thrilled after he posted another photo with the caption, “Blac Chyna probably out shopping rite now as she plan to give birth to the only next generation of the Kardashian Name! #BabyKardashian.” According to UsMagazine.com, Khloe Kardashian tweeted, “You can do anything. But never go against the family.” She states she was referring to a different family member, but it might as well have been aimed at Rob. Chyna is celebrity exes with Tyga, who is now dating Kylie Jenner. She also had a falling out with Kim Kardashian, so the family is not on good terms with her.
This celebrity news is stirring up some drama! What are some ways to deal when your family doesn’t like your new partner?
It’s no secret that relationships and love are hard to navigate sometimes. It’s easy to become unsure of ourselves and not know how to deal with questions surrounding things like monogamy and faithfulness. Fortunately, author Neil Strauss tackles these tough topics in his new book The Truth: An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships.He addresses issues that couples face on a daily basis and shares his own journey along the way. In our exclusive author interview, Strauss talks about the inspiration for his autobiography, the lesson he hopes his readers learn, and his three best pieces of expert relationship advice.
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By Steven DeSalvo
When we are our true, authentic selves in a new relationship, we begin it with honesty about who we are and what we desire. It gives the partnership a solid foundation from which it can grow into a long-term friendship or potential romantic adventure. When we are not our authentic selves, the relationship starts on uncertain ground. Despite good intentions, over the long run, it can create bigger problems.
Here are five pieces of relationship advice to help you put forth your authentic self:
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By Elaine Taylor
A couple of decades ago, my dog was sprawled out snoring on the sofa, belly on a pile of unfolded laundry, tail stuck in an empty Ben & Jerry’s tub. I was slouched beside her stroking her hindquarters, glumly ticking through the carcasses (figurative, not literal) that made up my dispiriting trail of my relationship roadkill. I had recently completed a reverse sprint down the aisle (not my first) with Peggy Lee’s, “Is That All There Is?” echoing through my disenchanted heart.
Was I ever going to find a true love who didn’t walk on four legs and woof for his breakfast? Here’s what I found in the way of relationship advice.
Now that we’re closing in on February, it’s a good time to take inventory of how your New Year’s resolutions are progressing, or not. Have you made adjustments to your environment, created a specific plan, tweaked your schedule or set aside time for following through on the short-term objectives that will get you there? If you have done even one of these, it’s a real start. However, if you draw a blank when reading this, you may have already lost your resolve or even forgotten about your goals altogether. If this is the case, and you want to get back on track—it is important to examine where you got off course and what factors may have influenced it.
As a relationship expert, I notice that one variable people may overlook, but that carries a lot of weight, is how much support you get from your relationship and love. In assessing this, it’s important to pay attention to what they do more than what they say. There are many subtle ways that a partner can sabotage your efforts, especially if he or she fears it will impact your shared lifestyle, threatens him in some way, or upset the status quo in general. If you believe this is occurring, consider talking to your partner about what you see happening and ask for help. My relationship advice is to look at the following eight behaviors to assist you in pinpointing and articulating your concerns and then moving toward a productive discussion on how you can best support one another.
Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani. Photo: John Witt / PRPhotos.com; David Gabber / PRPhotos.com
By Dejha Carlisle
Everyone has some type of animal lover in them! In the latest celebrity news, singer Gwen Stefani shared a photo of her new horse on Instagram, January 24. Sources say the furry animal was from her beau Blake Shelton, and that’s some sweet celebrity news. According to UsMagazine.com, the celebrity couple hasn’t been hiding their celebrity relationship since they got together in November. They even spent time at Shelton’s ranch in Oklahoma over the holidays.
This celebrity news leaves us in suspense! What are some ways to get creative with gifts for your partner?
On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert and relationship author Tinzley Bradford about how to be a smarter dater. “I do what I do because I love to help women be better!” Bradford, writer of The Settle-Free Dating Method for Women, exclaims. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here for more love advice.
Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth. Photo: Emiley Schweich / PR Photos
By Dr. Jane Greer
Pop star Miley Cyrus was spotted wearing an engagement ring after she and former fiancé Liam Hemsworth reunited over New Year’s in Australia. Multiple sources revealed that Miley had been struggling to move on from Liam after the end of their celebrity relationship, and has never fully gotten over him. It appears the feelings are mutual, as the celebrity couple is giving it another try. And, they aren’t the only ones people are talking about when it comes to wondering about the possibility of rekindled love. Superstar Madonna and movie star ex-husband Sean Penn have reportedly been spending more time together lately, and were recently seen at a hotel bar together. All of this can be heartening for those who wonder about doing something similar with a previous partner. Hearing these stories can make people believe in romance and the value of a shared history. But, it also raises questions.
How do you know when an old loved has the potential to come back to life, and when is it best to leave an old relationship where it is, in the rear view mirror? Here is some relationship advice:
Pink and Carey Hart. Photo: Rula Kanawati / PRPhotos.com
By Katie Gray
Trust is the most important aspect of a relationship. Without trusting your partner and having that trust reciprocated, your relationship won’t be a healthy and happy one. We can take cues from celebrity couples and their celebrity relationships to see how they restore the trust in their relationship when it’s lost. For example, Pink and Carey Hart married in 2006, and announced their separation in 2008. After marriage counseling and song therapy, they reunited in 2010, welcomed daughter Willow Sage in June 2011, and just celebrated their 10 year celebrity wedding anniversary. According to Psychology Today, 41% of first marriages and 60% of second marriages end in divorce. Wow! Nobody told us relationships would be easy; they just promised it would be worth it!
Cupid has some relationship advice on how to restore the trust in your relationship:
Hollywood medium & reality TV star Tyler Henry shares relationship advice & his own near-death experience in this exclusive celebrity interview. Photo: Tommy Garcia/NBC
Most young celebrities are known for their talents but none quite like Tyler Henry. He has a unique gift of his own: He connects to those who have departed. Known as one of Hollywood’s youngest psychics, he began working as a medium when he was just 16-years-old. He practiced his skill in a small town in California and has since worked with some of the biggest stars, including Snooki and Boy George. His everyday life was recently pitched for a reality TV show, and now The Hollywood Medium with Tyler Henry is airing Sunday nights at 10/9c on E!.
In our exclusive celebrity interview, Henry opens up to us about his own near-death experience and shared his best relationship advice.
Relationship experts give dating advice on what texting on a date says to your partner. Photo: AntonioDiaz / Bigstock.com
Question from Julia Y.: Because of my job, it’s important that I always keep my phone handy so I can be available in case there’s an emergency. Will a new guy get the wrong impression if I text during a date?
If you’re looking for dating advice on what texting on a date says to your partner, then keep reading to see what our relationship experts had to say!
Sean Lowe says that wife Catherine is hot. Photo courtesy of Sean Lowe's Instagram.
By Jasmine Igwegbe
We can all claim to experience relationship problems similar to celebrity couples for sure. In latest celebrity news,celebrity couple Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici’s relationship is making progress on Marriage Boot Camp with the assistance of celebrity judge Lynn Toler, according to UsMagazine.com. Lowe even admits to Toler that he has trouble being compassionate even when he’s really trying. This pair is continuing to work on their issues, even as they prepare to welcome their first celebrity baby to the world.
This celebrity couple has their issues, just like everyone else. What are some ways talking to a third party can help your relationship?