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By Dr. Tranquility – Lydia Belton, PhD, Ct. H.A.
how to improve your love life in the new year
Many couples come to me as part of my Date Therapy for Couples protocol and ask how they can make their relationships healthier. Being each other’s strongest support system and not taking each other for granted is key. These underlining core values are the bond that makes it all possible. So whether you’ve been married for over a decade or you’re in a brand new relationship, you can still keep the romance alive. Here are five tips to help make your partnership the best it can be in 2014.
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By Cynthia MacGregor for Hope After Divorce
Ah…we’re moving into a new year, and don’t we all love new beginnings? It feels like a fresh start, a new chance, a do-over. It feels like an opportunity to “get it right this time.” The reality is that we can make a new beginning, a fresh start, any time. We don’t need a special date marked in red on the calendar or a month that we know is at the head of a whole fresh year.
I’ve never believed in New Year’s resolutions, but that doesn’t mean I’m against making a fresh start. I just don’t confine such activities to the first month of the calendar year. For instance, the beginning of spring is a time of rebirth. Your birthday is always a good day to re-evaluate your life and see what needs re-calibrating. In truth, any time is a good time to begin anew.
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By Leslie Chavez
For many women, the start of the new year means a renewed hope in their love lives — which means they want to look and feel their best. If you’re seeking brighter and tighter skin for your next date night, the smart solution is BioElixia skin care products, which use science and a blend of natural ingredients to produce a unique skin treatment that really works. The formula is backed by 14 years of research that relies on key healing components, like multi-vitamins, anti-aging peptides, and moisturizing oils, that safely and effectively absorb into skin.
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The BioElixia BodyShaper bundle includes everything you need to revitalize your body in the middle of a dry winter. First, the Cellulite Contour Crème is proven to reduce the appearance of cellulite by an average of 57 percent. The Exfoliating Body Polish uses micro-crystals to refine the skin, while the Radiance Body Cleanser cleanses and moisturizes with fruit enzymes and minerals. Next, the Firming Toning Body Lotion supports all-over skin tightness. Finally, don’t forget the Stretch Mark Diminishing Crème, which improves the visible appearance of stretch marks by an average of 71 percent.
All of these products work together to give your body a toned look and smooth feel that your partner will love. The TPM Dermal Delivery Technology allows the active ingredients such as sweet almond, aloe vera, vitamin E, ginseng, fruit acid, and more to penetrate further into the skin and increase absorption by five times. And it gets better: BioElixia is free of formaldehydes and other harmful chemicals as well as artificial colors and dyes.
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Lucky for you, CupidsPulse.com will be giving away a bundle of BioElixia BodyShaper products — including all of the items mentioned above — to one lucky reader. After a few short weeks, you’ll have firmer, healthier skin and the confidence that comes with it. You’re sure to be glowing, gorgeous, and toned when your man surprises you with a romantic night out!
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9 Dating coach Nando Rodriguez has helped his clients open their eyes to love and find The One, so it’s only fitting that he shares his first date tips on this week’s Single in Stilettos show. He discusses first date expectations and preparations; the biggest mistake you can make when it comes to dating; why your checklist may be keeping you single; why you should stop thinking so much; whether or not you should go on a second date with him; and more.
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Question from Amanda G.: My college roommate just invited me to a wedding reception via a Facebook “event”. While I understand the family’s need to save money, I find it classless and tacky. So when is it appropriate to send an event invite via Facebook? Should I let her know that I didn’t find this appropriate?
Answer from Our Love Experts:
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By Leslie Chavez
When it comes to love, the phrase “treat others the way you want to be treated” doesn’t always ring true. When we’re all so very different, it only makes sense that we would want and need to be treated in different ways specific to our individual personality types. Relationship coach Trevor Silvester agrees: He says that a lot of the difficulties that we come across in relationships are from the fact that we treat each other as if we’re the same. Once we understand how we’re different, creating intimacy becomes simple.
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Long distance relationships aren’t always easy, but that doesn’t mean they’re not worth the extra trouble. In truth, they do take a bit more effort, but with these 10 tips, you’ll overcome the miles separating you and your significant other.
1. Talk every day: No matter how far apart you are, a simple phone call will work wonders. Hearing your loved one’s voice will not only make your day better; it’ll also make you feel like a bigger part of your partner’s day.
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If one of your resolutions is to be the best girlfriend you can be, we’re here to help! Thanks to these great articles from our partners, you’ll be off to a fantastic start.
1. Reflect on your love: The New Year is the perfect time to think back on the past twelve months and look forward to the future. Consider these touching quotes from well-known authors, artists, and poets. Maybe you’ll even be inspired to write some sweet words of your own!
2. Partner up: Take a cue from Real Housewives of New York star Jill Zarin and join your man in supporting a cause that’s close to both of your hearts.
3. Make him happy: Make your partnership the best it can be by focusing on your beau and what keeps him smiling. Guys aren’t so complicated — it’ll be easier than you think!
4. Fully commit to your beau: With next week’s premiere of The Bachelor, you’ll be obsessing over what lucky lady is going to win Juan Pablo’s heart before you know it. Why not focus on your own man instead and help your relationship grow even stronger?
5. Take the next steps: If you’ve been with your someone special for the past few weeks and know that he’s a keeper, it may be time to take your relationship to a new level. Consider these five tips as you plan your first overnight date.
How will you become closer to your partner this year? Tell us in the comments below.
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By Jared Sais
The start of a new year gives everyone a renewed sense of hope, and with this thought in mind, I decided to consider three celebrity couples who are happy in love.
Amanda Seyfried and Justin Long: These lovebirds have become a paparazzi favorite lately. In many photos, the couple appears surprised at their picture being taken. You’ll see their eyebrows and eyes raised and their mouths just a bit open. Note that surprise is one of the seven micro-expressions that people make to indicate an emotion.
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By Rosalind Sedacca, CCT for Hope After Divorce
It can be tough — but necessary!
As a divorced parent, you can never pay too much attention to your communication skills with your children. It keeps the doors open for a healthier, more positive relationship with them. It makes you more sensitive to issues of concern early on, so you can nip them in the bud. It also encourages your children to talk about what they are feeling, questions they have, and situations that are creating conflict for them.
10 If you’re hoping to find love in the new year, this Single in Stilettos show is for you! Founder Suzanne Oshima chats with dating coach Hunt Ehthridge to uncover the secrets of flirting. Ethridge, who believes that flirting is the best way to show a guy you’re interested in him, shares his top three tips: eye contact is key; appropriate touching is allowed; and playful teasing can be fun.
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By Eric Bittman, CEO/President of Warren London
Picking out a pet as a couple can be a cause of stress in a relationship. The biggest choice is usually deciding whether you want a big dog or a small one, but it can be much more complicated than that.
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It’s no secret that many pet owners want what’s best for their furry friends, and Eric Bittman was no different when he created Warren London. Eric and his wife Sara are the proud parents of two Boston Terriers, Maurice and Brittney. When Maurice was six months old, he developed a number of skin allergies. Unfortunately, the recommended shampoo only left his skin drier and itchier, which is why Eric decided to develop his own line of grooming products.
Warren London’s main goal is to make innovative luxury spa and grooming products that get great results. The company uses only natural ingredients to ensure that all items are top quality; they’re even human tested on top of being dog tested. Each product is made with a simple belief in mind: “Every dog deserves a spa day!”
From shampoos and conditioners to paw revitalizers and facial cleansers, Warren London sells a wide range of products that are sure to keep your dog looking (and smelling) his best. We all know that a clean dog makes a happy partner; after all, nobody wants to come home from a week-long business trip and be greeted by a smelly pooch who leaves muddy paw prints on their dry clean-only suit.
Plus, for a bit of added fun, the company also has quick-drying, non-toxic, water-based Pawdicure Polish Pens, available in 13 colors and perfect for dog nail art.
My husband and I used the Coconut 2-in-1 Shampoo + Conditioner on our Lab mix, Finn. Just a puppy, he loves to play and run around outside, which means he gets dirty quickly; even so, three days after his bath, he still smelled like coconuts. His coat was particularly shiny and seemed more moisturized despite the Colorado winter air.
We also used the Instant Ear Cleaner on Finn’s sensitive ears. He happily obliged while we massaged the solution into his ear canals, and his floppy ears stayed much cleaner than usual.
Lucky for you, one lucky CupidsPulse.com reader will win a Warren London gift bundle that includes: Lavender Shampoo, Hydrating Butter, Deep Cleaning Paw Fizz Tablets, Paw Sani-Scrub, Cucumber Melon Foaming Facial, “Wet Kiss” Dog Cologne, Grapeseed Oil, Instant Ear Cleaner, three Polish Pens, Nail File, and Buffer Block. Grooming your dog should be easy, effective, and, most importantly, fun — and thanks to Warren London products, it can be!
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The start of a new year is like a blank slate. It’s the perfect time to evaluate your goals and figure out what you want to accomplish over the next 365 days. If you’re single and ready to settle down, use these great articles from our partners to open up your heart to love in 2014:
1. Get inspired: Thanks to these 50 romantic quotes, you’ll be more than ready to find the relationship you deserve. So snuggle up with a cup of hot cocoa and get ready to be inspired! (YourTango.com)
2. Rediscover your passion: It’s easy for romance to take a backseat during the hustle and bustle of the holiday season. Whether you’re partnered up with someone who you think may be your soulmate or you’re working up the courage to say hello to your crush, these four tips will help you reignite your love life. (GalTime.com)
3. Tap into technology: If you want to settle down in the new year, it’s time to change your approach to dating. Use this foolproof advice to perfect your online dating skills and meet the man of your dreams. (YourTango.com)
4. Take a deep breath: Former Baywatch star Gena Lee Nolin encourages us to enjoy this time of year — whether you’re single, in a new relationship, or happily married with four children (like she is!). After all, “true happiness comes from within.” (Celebrity Baby Scoop)
5. Ring in the new year with someone new: Just because you’re single doesn’t mean you can’t have a fantastic New Year’s Eve. Why not find a single guy and plan a first date for December 31st? Sparks may fly! No matter what you decide to do, reflect on the past year and set clear goals for the coming twelve months. (GalTime.com)
How will you find true love in 2014? Tell us in the comments below!
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By Shoshi
For today’s column, let’s consider three couples who have controversy currently surrounding them, whether it’s because of baby weight, a surprise split, or anti-feminist song lyrics:
Jessica Simpson and Eric Johnson: This blonde pop star has come a long way, which makes it so easy to root for her success. Recently, she announced that she’s going to stop acting and retire from the entertainment world. Her focus is now on being a business woman and mother.
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Like any mother-to-be, Daphne Oz has been excitedly preparing for her upcoming arrival. She recently took a big step and picked out baby furniture at Delta’s Children showroom in New York City.
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The holidays are meant to be spent with the ones you love most: your family. Whether you’re a newlywed spending your first Christmas with your husband’s family or new parents trying to survive those sleepless nights, it’s important that you soak up this time together. With this thought in mind, CupidsPulse.com has pulled together these great articles from our partners, filled with the tips you need to have a fun-filled holiday with your family:
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1. Bond as a family: It’s no secret that your kids won’t be little forever, so why not enjoy this time before it’s gone? Take a look at these gift ideas to bring your family even closer. (GalTime.com)
2. Show your bestie you care: Many women find a BFF in their sister or mother, but even if you’re not related to your best friend by blood, you probably still view her as family. These 37 friendship quotes will remind you how special your bestie is. (YourTango.com)
3. Celebrate your loved ones: Making people feel loved and special is important all year long, not just during the holidays. Here are four ways to show your family and friends just how much you care. (GalTime.com)
4. Embrace your inner kid: Take a cue from Alyson Hannigan and her husband of ten years Alexis Denisof and be a kid at heart. We promise you’ll enjoy the holidays even more through the eyes of a child! (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
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5. Tell your partner you love her: With the needs of your little ones filling you and your wife’s days (and often your nights), it’s easy for you to feel like you’re missing out on time as a couple. Use these 15 tips to make sure your actions show your sweetheart just how much you love her. (YourTango.com)
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By Lori Zaslow and Jennifer Zucher for Project Soulmate
Deciding to get married is not a choice you should not make lightly. It’s different for every couple, and timing is everything.
We’re advocates of the popular rule of thumb that says it’s important to see all four seasons of a person before deciding on marriage. It’s easy to love someone in less than a year, but it’s hard to really know them in that short time frame. To truly know someone inside and out, you have to make sure you spend quality time with one another and make an effort to see each other consistently. You have to be with a person through happy times, sad times, and tough times in order to see their true colors.
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By Michele Sfakianos, RN, BSN for Hope After Divorce
It doesn’t have to be difficult.
A stepparent who has different holiday traditions from the rest of the family, especially a stepparent with no child of their own, can feel left out of the celebration. All family traditions matter, and it’s vital for everyone to be considered when planning holidays.
