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By Tanni Deb
With the arrival of June, days become longer, nights become shorter and summer flings are perhaps the most popular activity taking place. Though Flag Day (June 14) is a holiday that celebrates the adoption of the American flag, why not use it as an excuse to throw a party – or better yet, attend one. Whether you go all out or stay simple, take advantage and get noticed by that special person. Not sure how? Take a look a these five tips to flag down a hottie:
Ryan Seacrest and Julianne Hough. Photo: Allen Berezovsky / PR Photos
Julianne Hough and boyfriend Ryan Seacrest bonded this weekend over an unfortunate event, according to People. The couple made an emergency trip to the veterinarian’s office with Hough’s Cavalier King Charles spaniel, Lexi. While the actress/singer didn’t specify what was wrong with her beloved pooch, she tweeted, “First time I legitimately [bawled] my eyes out in years… Being a helpless parent is the worst thing in the world!” Luckily, Hough later reassured her fans that Lexi was doing okay. Good thing Seacrest was there to support her!
How can owning a pet together enhance your relationship?
Cheryl Burke and Maksim Chmerkovskiy. Photo: Robert Delgadillo / PR Photos; Tina Gill / PR Photos
Dancing with the Stars castmates Cheryl Burke and Maksim Chmerkovskiy are at the center of many relationship rumors, nearly all of which are not true, reports People. The rumors surrounding the two good friends heightened recently after Burke’s wild birthday celebration at Palazzo Las Vegas’s Azure Luxury Pool. However, Burke adamantly denies the rumors. “We have a good time,” said Burke. “We’ve known each other since we were kids. We have that brother and sister relationship.”
Looks like Hayden Panettiere has a thing for athletes. Just a month after ending things with heavyweight champion Wladimir Klitschko, Panettiere is reportedly dating NFL player Scotty McKnight, according toUsMagazine.com. After mistakenly being linked to McKnight’s pal and fellow footballer Mark Sanchez, Panettiere, 21 said, “I’m a huge Jets fan and became very good friends with Mark and his buddies, I’ve always been that girl who has a lot of dude friends. I’m into sports so we have a lot in common.”
What characteristics of an athlete make a great partner?
Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi. Photo: Bob Charlotte / PR Photos
In order to create reality show drama of epic proportions, the cast of the Bachelor Pad 2 includes exes who are anything, but on good terms, such as Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi. So much for a relaxing summer! Pavelka will be spending it watching his ex get chummy with her current boyfriend, Kasey Kahl. According to Associated Content, reality villains Justin Rego and Michelle Money have also joined this very turbulent cast.
How can you handle seeing your ex with someone new?
Managing finances in a relationship. Photo: RockandWasp / Bigstock.com
By Stephen L.
Being in debt can be an embarrassing situation, but talking about it can feel even worse; especially when discussing it with someone you plan to live with for the rest of your life. However, it’s important that you explain any financial problems that you have with your partner and that they discuss theirs with you before you head down the aisle. There are many problems that can arise if you hide your situation and the deceit could cause the end of your relationship before it has the chance to begin.
Hiding Does Not Help
Hiding your debt will never help you or your relationship with your partner. Not to mention that the people you owe that money to will eventually find you. If you know you owe money, arrange to pay it off slowly; most people, even big companies will be more inclined to do this if you call them early on and let them know your situation. You also need to make a list of all of your debt, as scary as it may seem. When it’s done, sit down with your partner and explain that you want to talk about finances. This will show them that you are serious about the relationship; and it may give them the platform to open up and do the same. You should go through the entire list of debt with your partner and explain if and how you are trying to pay it off. This can help significantly when it comes to discussing living together and how much you can both afford in rent, or if obtaining a mortgage is out of the question.
Jessica Biel and Gerard Butler. Photo: Landmark / PR Photos; Bob Charlotte / PR Photos
Could Jessica Biel have found herself another man already? The actress took a ride on the back of Gerard Butler’s Harley Davidson motorcycle last Thursday, according to UsMagazine.com. The two established a close friendship while filming Playing the Field in Louisiana in March. Although Butler’s rep reports, “They’re just friends!,” an onlooker said Butler “was really flirting with her” during a cast and crew bash at a local eatery March 15. Butler is known as a notorious ladies’ man around Hollywood.
Cameron Diaz and Alex Rodriguez. Photo: Janet Mayer / PRPhotos.com; David Gabber / PR Photos
They haven’t struck out yet. New York Yankees’ third baseman Alex Rodriguez is still together with Bad Teacher star Cameron Diaz despite rumors, according toUsMagazine.com. The duo stood together, held hands and were affectionate during an MTV Movie Awards after party in SoHo. The night before, the couple went out to the LA sports bar Goals to catch the NBA Finals game together.
How do you keep rumors from ruining your relationship?
Nikki Reed and Paul McDonald. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos
Breaking Dawn star Nikki Reed and former American Idol contestant Paul McDonald are engaged after a whirlwind romance, reportsPeople. The pair hit it off after meeting in March, and have been extremely happy together since. Reed showed off her ring at the MTV Movie Awards on Sunday, where she told reporters, “He’s the one. I’ve never met anyone like him. I’ve never met anyone who has such a good solid heart and comes from such a good solid family and is just a genuine person. We have the exact same sense of humor. I’ve never laughed so much with anyone as I do with him.”
What are some things to be careful of in a whirlwind romance?
Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis. Photo: Jonathan Shensa / PR Photos
Mila Kunis and Justin Timberlake stirred up some controversy at the MTV Movie Awards Sunday night when they decided to grope each other on stage in order to drive home the point that they’re “just friends”. According to People, the two were addressing rumors that they are romantically involved. “Even though we’re in the movie Friends With Benefits, Mila and I have never dated,” Timberlake said. Kunis said that she and Timberlake are more like brother and sister than anything else. Looks like there isn’t love in the air for these two celebrities, but there’s definitely a great friendship!
How do you prove you’re nothing more than friends?
Celia Walden and Piers Morgan. Photo: MAC/Fame Pictures
This just in: CNN anchor Piers Morgan and his wife Celia Walden are expecting their first child together, according to UsMagazine.com. “It’s the best news ever,” said a source close to the couple. Walden, a British columnist, is approximately four months along, according to the U.K.’s Daily Mail. For the America’s Got Talent judge, this will be child number four, as he has three sons from his first marriage.
How does your lifestyle change when you have your first child?
How to date after divorce. Photo: EastWestImaging / Bigstock.com
By Elizabeth Cutten
Divorce can be a stressful process, especially when you consider all of the worrying you have to do about what you’re getting, what you’re going to owe, and the attorney fees. It may seem like it’s going to never end! That said, it’s important to stay positive about love. Eventually, you’ll find that there’s going to be a point where you will want to settle down with someone again.
The question is, how do you date after you get divorced? While I haven’t personally been divorced, I have had some friends that went through the process, and this is what I’ve learned.
Things to Do Before You Start Dating Again
Be patient: Make sure not to jump into anything too quickly. While you may feel lonely without a significant other, it’s not good to rush a relationship. Set your priorities straight and know what you want in life before you take your leap of faith.
Fix the problem: Why did you get divorced in the first place? Be honest with yourself. Were you the problem? Did things you used to do annoy your significant other? While you can’t be perfect, try your best to fix your own issues before you start dating again.
Enjoy yourself: Find your single friends and hang out together. Check out all of your favorite bars and restaurants. The more you do, the more you can take your mind off of things. This is a great way to release stress and avoid sitting at home thinking about your ex.
Don’t get revenge: Don’t start dating someone because you want to get back at your ex. Not only is this going to hurt another person, but it’s going to cause more stress for yourself. Set out to find someone that you want to start a relationship with, and move on.
How to Start Dating Again
Try online sites: There are a lot of great dating sites out there that can match you up with others similar to you. Sites such as OkCupid.com and Match.com are a great place to start. While many frown upon online dating, be open to it. Just make sure that you always meet in public places.
Speed dating: Find speed dating clubs that can help you meet with people in your local area. The cool thing is that if you instantly know there’s no connection with someone, you’re on to the next person in less than five minutes!
Hang out with friends more: By doing this, you’re able to let loose and have fun. Plus, you may even be able to network with some single friends of theirs. You will find that just like your career, networking is always a good idea.
Keep your head up high, and keep your stress level low. You’re going to find that as long as you don’t jump into things, a new life can work wonders in the long run. Good luck!
This was a guest post written by Elizabeth Cutten. You can find more of her work over at FindSecuredCards.com, a blog /resource helping those in debt get out of it for good!
Cameron Diaz and Alex Rodriguez. Photo: Janet Mayer / PRPhotos.com; David Gabber / PR Photos
They say breaking up is hard to do, but that certainly isn’t the case for ‘Bad Teacher’ star Cameron Diaz. Diaz told UK’s ‘News Of The World’, “We break up, we move on,” in response to recent reports that she split from baseball hottie A-Rod, according to RadarOnline. Diaz’s new movie ‘Bad Teacher’ in which she plays a raunchy, go-for-broke educator is set for release June 24th, and her character in the movie isn’t far off from who she is in real life. When Diaz appeared on Jimmy Kimmel in February, she proclaimed, “I love porn” and told a British newspaper that sex is her favorite sport. Seems like a break up is the last thing the actress is concerned about!
What are some ways to quickly move on from a breakup?
Blake Lively and Leonardo DiCaprio. Photo: Premiere/Rocstar/RR/Flynetpictures.com
According to Blake Lively, things are OK between her and Gossip Girl costar and ex-beau Penn Badgley. “Every relationship you have, you’re learning and growing and taking something from that,” she said in the most recent Us Weekly. “So for me, it’s never been too dramatic of a thing when something ends.” She added that she doesn’t let public opinion influence her decisions, whether that means talk about her split from Badgley or her European excursion with actor Leonardo DiCaprio. “I have a strong sense of myself,” Lively said. “That gives me a sense of security, you know? If I define myself by things that are always changing, like the public’s opinion, or what I’m wearing, or what job I’m doing, there’s no stability in that.”
How do you assure that your breakup is drama-free?
Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux. Photo: Marquez/Flynetpictures.com
Things have been heating up between Jennifer Aniston and her new man, actor/screenwriter, Justin Theroux. According to People, Aniston recently introduced her new love interest to her nearest and dearest by throwing a small get-together attended by some of the actress’ closest friends, including Chelsea Handler and Courtney Cox. According to a source close to the couple, the introductions went famously and everyone seemed to enjoy each other’s company.
What are some ways to introduce your new partner to your friends?
Couple cuddling on a hammock. Photo: EpicStockMedia / Bigstock.com
By Diamon Hall
Relationships require just as much attention as a newborn baby. While they start off sizzling with love and affection, they can easily fizzle out if they aren’t handled with care. Since summer is almost here, the heat under your relationship’s fire should be kicked up a few notches! Here are 10 tips to keep the blaze alight:
Kyle King and Maci Bookout. Photo courtesy of Twitter.
Teen Mom star Maci Bookout may have had relationship problems in the past with her baby daddy and ex-boyfriend Ryan Edwards, but things seem to be looking up with her new beau, Kyle King. According to UsMagazine.com, Bookout twetted, “I love my perfect lover, Kyle King!” last Sunday. Bookout gave birth to her son, Bentley, 2, in October 2008. She moved in with her then-boyfriend Edwards, but bitter fights and drama led to her moving back in with her parents in Chattanooga, Tennessee. Shortly after moving back, she became reacquainted with her childhood pal, King … and love spawned from there!
Molly Sims and Scott Stuber. Photo: Charles Norfleet / PR Photos
Love is in the air for actress and jewelry designer Molly Sims and new fiance Scott Stuber. Stuber, producer of the movie Love and Other Drugs popped the question the weekend of May 20th, according to People. Stuber even surprised Sims by flying her parents into Los Angeles to celebrate the special occasion. Sims, 38, and Stuber, 42, had been together for a year and a half before he popped the question.
How do you include your parents in your engagement?
Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt. Photo: Starmax / PRPhotos.com
Can’t get enough Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie? Well, that may not be an issue for long. After talk of getting married in the near future, Jolie recently opened up to People about her relationship with Pitt and their kids. “I love being with Brad,” she revealed in a statement. “I’m very lucky with [him]. He is a real gentleman, but he is also a real man’s man.” Their six children play a significant role in their relationship, and the couple includes them whenever possible. However, they do play up the balancing act in some ways, as Jolie explains their alone time is important as well. “It’s special time for daddy when mom works for a few months,” says the actress and UN Goodwill Ambassador. “And Brad is such a great dad. When I’m working, he’s putting in the extra dad time, and that’s special for their relationship, too.”
How does your relationship grow after you have kids?
Adrianne Curry and Chris Knight. Photo: Chris Hatcher / PR Photos
It looks as if Father Brady is back on the market, ladies! Former Brady Bunch star Christopher Knight and former America’s Next Top Model contestant Adrianne Curry have decided to call it quits, according to UsMagazine.com. “After starting a relationship with what seemed to be irreconcilable differences, the couple has reached a period where those differences are no longer appreciated,” said Phil Viardo, the couples’ manager. The pair met when they were housemates on the VH1 series The Surreal Life and then married in 2006. Earlier this month, Curry admitted that she wasn’t satisfied with her home life and turned to Twitter for attention. Another Hollywood romance is now a part of history!
When you grow apart, what are some steps you can take to reconnect?
How Internet dating creates a new mindset. Photo: imtmphoto / Bigstock.com
By Dr. Simon Casey
Internet dating has created a different mindset among individuals and has changed the dating game forever. There are some people who may give the appearance of exclusive dating, but they aren’t giving up their online profiles. There are two major reasons for this:
1. Doubt: About 40 percent of people fall into this category. What happens is, after the first couple of dates, one person starts realizing that something is missing in the relationship and/or that the other person doesn’t completely meet his or her expectations. As casual dating slowly starts turning into more of a relationship, one partner becomes more committed (while believing that the other person is feeling the same way), and the other one choose to be pretentious and somewhat dishonest with his/her feelings. Keeping an online profile active is a clear indication that someone wants to keep his or her options open. This is what I call “emotional cheating.”
Arnold Schwarzeneggar and Maria Shriver. Photo: Lee Roth / RothStock / PR Photos
If she’s upset, she sure isn’t showing it! Maria Shriver looked happier than ever when she visited Tra Di Noi restaurant with her kids Katherine, Christina and Christopher; a few friends; and her bodyguard on Sunday night. RadarOnline reported that Shriver hired a high-profile divorce attorney, Laura Wasser, to represent her against ex-spouse Arnold Schwarzenegger. Schwarzenegger admitted to fathering a child by his and Shriver’s former housewife.
What are some life changes you can make after a divorce?
Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Photo: Bob Charlotte / PR Photos
Don’t get your hopes up, team Jennifer fans. Rumor has it that Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie may wed in the near future. “The kids ask about marriage. It’s meaning more and more to them,” Pitt told People. “So it’s something we’ve got to look at.” Originally the plan was to wait until everyone can legally marry, but the children have changed the duo’s hearts. Pitt also spoke of the parenting ways he and Jolie use to bring up their chidren, as well as how they get their alone time. “Angie and I do everything we can to carve out some semblance of normalcy for them, to re-create the kinds of moments that were special for us.”