Cupid's Pulse Article: Love Advice for Women: He’s Definitely Interested…But He’s Not Pursuing Me!Cupid's Pulse Article: Love Advice for Women: He’s Definitely Interested…But He’s Not Pursuing Me!

In this week’s relationship advice video from Single in Stilettos, matchmaker and dating expert Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Tinzley Bradford about what to do when a guy is definitely interested but isn’t pursuing you.

Dating Experts Share Love Advice For Women

Has a guy ever gone out with you and acted into you but then pulled back suddenly and temporarily? If so, don’t worry! It happens to women all of the time, and we have some love advice for you. Relationship experts agree that he may be too shy or scared to evolve the relationship and love. While you don’t want to come across as demanding or sassy, you can still ask him what’s going on in a cute way, like by sending him a text that says you miss him. If you’re vulnerable with him, hopefully, he’ll be vulnerable with you too.

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However, if this game continues over a long period of time, follow this love advice and just say, “Next!” Your time is valuable, and so are you. Know your self worth, and don’t become that desperate, nagging woman. Dating should have a push-pull dynamic with both parties initiating conversation and dates. If you’re trying to develop the relationship and he doesn’t respond, then you’re wasting your time and his. You’ll need to pull back and kindly stop initiating anything.

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