Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Experts Say Your List Of Must-Haves Isn’t That Important!Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Experts Say Your List Of Must-Haves Isn’t That Important!

On this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert Marni Kinrys about why your list of must-haves isn’t as important as you may think.

Expert Love Advice About Your List of Must-Haves

Do you ever wonder why you can’t find a relationship and love to last a lifetime? The truth is, you probably have a long list of must-haves and ridiculous expectations. Dating experts agree that women put too much pressure on men. For instance, they expect them to be charismatic and witty, like the guys we see in movies; however, in real life, these type of men are usually the jerks.

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If you have a list of must-haves that is impossible to meet, listen to this expert love advice: Open your parameters and help a man out instead of waiting for him to fail! Add to the conversation and ask your date questions so he can feel more confident. Remember that you’re looking for a life partner, and it just doesn’t matter how tall he is or if he has a full head of hair. The more closed off you are and the more things you have on your list, the longer you’ll be single. We all have a picture perfect man in our heads, but we need to let go of that idea in order to give the right guy a chance.

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