America’s sweetheart Jennifer Aniston reveals that she doesn’t understand the ABC show that took our nation full of hopeless romantics by storm. According to People, Aniston tells Allure, “You know what I find fascinating? The Bachelor.  I was mesmerized by how these girls, they meet this guy, they have three dates together or something, and they’re weeping as though they’ve just lost the love of their life.  I don’t understand that.” While Aniston may not believe in leaving her love life up to a rose ceremony, one thing the star does say she believes in is “friendship and fun.”
Is it possible to fall in love quickly?
Cupid’s Advice:
There’s no concrete answer as far as “love at first sight” is concerned. Â Cupid tends to think it takes more than three dates to truly fall in love, and here’s why:
1. You need to want it for the right reasons: Sometimes when we’re sick of being single, we just settle for the next person who comes along. Â It’s easy to mistake your comfort level being in a relationship versus single for love.
2. It’s probably lust: Whether it’s the stars, the wine or the intense physical attraction, most of the time the feelings you have after the first few encounters with a person can be misconstrued as love. Â In fact, it’s probably lust, infatuation or a desire for companionship.
3. People are complicated: The fact is, it’s not easy to truly get to know someone. Â People have many layers, and it takes time to break through those layers. Â The fact is, you can’t love someone fully unless you completely know them.
