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By E!’s Famously Single Dating Coach, Laurel House

In this week’s dating advice video, relationship expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House finally explains why women are so attracted to the bad boys and never want the good guys. “It’s not that they’re bad that makes them attractive,” the dating coach shares. “Women are actually attracted to men, and the bad boys are often more masculine.” Her expert dating advice will help you tell your good guy what you want and need in a relationship and love.

Laurel House From E!’s Famously Single Shares Expert Dating Advice About How to Find A Good Guy

The Screwing the Rules relationship author elaborates that nice guys are often times more gentle because they don’t want to offend or disrespect you. They come off as Prince Charming. But here’s a secret, fellows: “We don’t always want Prince Charming; we’re more turned on by Tarzan,” House says. If you always find yourself with a bad boy who isn’t good for you, then follow this expert dating advice about how to find a good guy sexy:

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1. Pre-qualify your dates so you can get to know him before you go out with him.

2. Shift your focus from want to need. Define your needs in a relationship and love — things like communication, respect, mutual adoration, shared core values, and trust.

3. Change your perspective of what a good guy is and focus on the positives rather than the negatives.

4. Communicate! Let him know you want him to take control; let him know your boundaries; let him talk dirty to you; and let him know it’s annoying when he texts or calls too often.

5. Don’t mistake nice for annoying. Then, you’ll end up wondering why you dumped a guy for a stupid reason when you see him get married and live happily ever after with someone else.

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