Cupid's Pulse Article: Single in Stilettos Show: Are You an Unavailable Woman?Cupid's Pulse Article: Single in Stilettos Show: Are You an Unavailable Woman?

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to passionate living coach and author Abiola Abrams about ways you’re being unavailable and how to attract love in your life. Here are some things you may be doing to block love from entering your life: You’re not really trying to meet the right man; you complain to your friends and family that there are no good men out there; you think all men are cheaters; you think it’s impossible to meet a man because there are more women than men in your city; you keep making excuses as to why you can’t meet someone; you’re stuck in a past relationship; you’re using your looks or work to hold you back; you think men your age just want to date younger women; you think of yourself as a victim; or you’re afraid of the love you deserve, being vulnerable, and/or intimacy.

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

Sure, it’s hard to meet the right guy, but it’s not impossible. If you’re feeling hopeless, it’s time to look inward and consider the advice in the video above!

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

For more videos from, check out our YouTube channel.

How do you make yourself available to potential partners? Tell us in the comments below!