Cupid's Pulse Article: T.R. Knight Marries Longtime Boyfriend PatrickCupid's Pulse Article: T.R. Knight Marries Longtime Boyfriend Patrick

By April Littleton

According to People, T.R. Knight married his boyfriend of three years, Patrick Leahy, Friday, October 4. Some of the guests included Katherine Heigl and Kate Walsh who are both former Grey’s Anatomy costars. Knight, 4o, left the show in 2009.

How do you decide who to invite to your wedding?

Cupid’s Advice:

Wedding bells are in the near future for you and your partner, but you have yet to narrow down the guest list. Who gets to see your special day in all its glory? You won’t be able to invite everyone. Cupid has some tips:

1. Close friends and family only: Limit the wedding invites to just your close, personal friends and family only. If you’re not close to anyone you work with, then there’s no point in inviting them when the seating is limited. The same rule should apply to your significant other. He/she should only invite people they associate with on a regular basis.

2. Ask your parents for help: If you’re still having trouble narrowing down the guest list, call in some reinforcements. Your parents would be perfect for the job. Nobody knows you better than the people who raised you, so they should be able to give you some insight on who to invite and who to exclude.

3. No guilt trips: Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for not including them in YOUR wedding. If they truly consider themselves a friend, they’ll come to understand the reason for the exclusion. They’ll be happy for you regardless if they actually attend or not.

How did you decide who to invite to your wedding? Share your experience below.