Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Taylor Swift on relationships: I’m Not a “Clingy, Insane, Desperate Girlfriend”Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Taylor Swift on relationships: I’m Not a “Clingy, Insane, Desperate Girlfriend”

By Andrea Surujnauth

Taylor Swift finally decided to address all the rumors about her crazy love life. Rumors have circulated that the 23-year-old has had multiple boyfriends and every time she breaks up with one, she writes a song to bash him. According to, Taylor told Vanity Fair, “If you want some big revelation, since 2010 I have dated exactly two people.” These two people were Conor Kennedy and One Direction singer, Harry Styles. Swift’s list of alleged celebrity beaus include Jake Gyllenhaal, John Mayer, Joe Jonas and Taylor Lautner – many of whom she has apparently written break up songs about. Swift addresses this issue by stating, “The fact that there are slide shows of a dozen guys that I either hugged on a  red carpet or met for lunch or wrote a song with. . . it’s just kind of  ridiculous.”  In regards to the songs that she in fact did write based on a relationship she says, “For a female to write about her feelings, and then be portrayed as some clingy,  insane, desperate girlfriend in need of making you marry her and have kids with  her, I think that’s taking something that potentially should be celebrated — a  woman writing about her feelings in a confessional way –that’s taking it and  turning it and twisting it into something that is frankly a little sexist.”

What are some qualities that make someone a good girlfriend?

Cupid’s Advice:

What do guys look for in a girlfriend? What traits are the most important in a good girlfriend? What’s most important is to be yourself. Cupid is here with a few traits that most guys find irresistible:

1. Independent: Being independent does not mean that you have to be the tough guy in your relationship but guys don’t like a girl that acts like she can’t function without him around. Acting needy tends to chase guys away. Show that you can take care of yourself and be a big girl. No guy wants to baby-sit their girlfriend.

2. No nagging: Guys don’t want a girlfriend that will create an arguement over the most miniscule issues. Leaving clothes on the floor is not a reason to cause a big blow-out arguement. Save your anger for when there is actually a reason to be angry. Choose your battles wisely and don’t treat your man like a child.

3. Intelligence: No guy wants a girl that does not know up from down. He wants to be able to hold a conversation with his sweetheart. Guys don’t just want a girl that is nice to look at, they want one that they can be proud of. If you act like a dunce, he will be too embarrassed to bring you around his friends and family.

What qualities do you think make a good girlfriend? Comment below and let us know.