Cupid's Pulse Article: Justin Bieber ‘Hasn’t Stopped Reaching Out’ to Selena Gomez Post-SplitCupid's Pulse Article: Justin Bieber ‘Hasn’t Stopped Reaching Out’ to Selena Gomez Post-Split

By Jennifer Ross

It’s a game of on-again off-again for these two confused love birds. Selena Gomez and Justin Bieber just can’t seem to decide whether to call it quits or stay together these days. After breaking up on Oct. 31, Bieber has continued to reach out to Gomez, 20. On Friday, Nov. 16, the two had a sushi date that was followed by a horrible fight. Eventually, the couple made up sometime after Bieber had a great night at the American Music Awards. Bieber, 18, and Gomez have also been spotted together in Encino, CA on Nov. 19. The issue between them is Bieber’s inability to stop looking at other girls. “Justin has a wandering eye,” a source reported to Also, Bieber wants to date other girls and possible hold on to Gomez. “He isn’t sold on the possibility that this is forever but isn’t sold on that it’s not.”

How do you know when to call it quits in a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

A supportive and loving relationship can be the best thing in life. However, when necessary factors in keeping the relationship strong are abused or broken, it is time to say goodbye. Important factors, such as the three listed below, will help you to understand when it’s time to leave:

1. Avoidance: If either one of you stops talking to the other, especially about important matters in the relationship, it is time to end it all. Your love for each other will only survive with positive, and sometimes negative, communication. Once the communication stops, so does the love.

2. Lack of respect: When the disrespect begins, such as bad name calling or yelling in public, this only leads to breaking up. In order to spend the rest of your life with someone, you and your mate will need more than just love to get you there. Respect to love and care for each other is vital for the times when life’s challenges will stress you both.

3. Isolation: If you are in a relationship where your partner is driving all your loved ones away from you, leaving you completely reliant on one him/her for love and support, this is not a good sign. It’s one thing for your mate to want to support you. However, this type of support is more like domination. Get out fast!

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