Cupid's Pulse Article: Will Roberto Martinez Be the Next ‘Bachelor’?Cupid's Pulse Article: Will Roberto Martinez Be the Next ‘Bachelor’?

Roberto Martinez won Ali Fedotowsky’s heart on The Bachelorette, but after calling off their engagement in November 2011, the single stud is not just looking for love, he’s looking for money, according to Sources suspect that Martinez is going to be the next bachelor because “the network will give him pretty much anything.” The former Bachelorette contestant may find himself back at the place he and his ex fell in love, which is something Fedotowsky is “terrified about.”

What are some ways to cope with your ex moving on?

Cupid’s Advice:

It can be painful to learn your ex has moved on to someone else, especially if you’re still single. However, there are a few things you should think about before you let your ex’s progress make you upset:

1. Don’t force yourself to do the same: If your ex seems to be moving on faster than you expected, don’t feel obligated to pursue the first person to feign interest in you if you’re not ready. Everyone moves at their own rate, so don’t feel pressured to rush into things.

2. Surround yourself with friends: A lot of personal time is essential for healing after a breakup, but if your past lover is moving on, try to be around people that are going to pick you up and keep your mind off it.

3. Take a trip: Take some time off from work and go on a road trip. This will give you an opportunity to clear your head and leave room for new adventures and experiences.

How do you handle an ex moving on? Tell us below.