Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘Bachelor’ Star Ben Flajnik Heads to Vegas Without CourtneyCupid's Pulse Article: ‘Bachelor’ Star Ben Flajnik Heads to Vegas Without Courtney

The Bachelor star Ben Flajnik didn’t seem to have any problems enjoying his stay in Las Vegas without his fiance Courtney Robertson while on a business trip.  According to People, the former bachelor spent one night drinking and talking wine with the patrons of Joe’s Stone Crab, and even played wingman for one of his buddies.  He spent another night at the Criss Angel Believe show enjoying popcorn and cocktails with two of his business partners, and they even got to go back stage and meet Criss Angel after the show.

How do you deal with your partner partying without you?

Cupid’s Advice:

Partying without your partner can be a messy business, but it doesn’t have to be.  Cupid has some tips:

1. Trust: First and foremost, you and your partner have to trust each other.  You’re not going to be around to see how they’re acting without you, so you have to have confidence that they will act appropriately.  Otherwise, you’re going to stress yourself out with unnecessary worrying.

2. Communication: Make sure that you don’t follow the “out of sight, out of mind” phrase.  You both need to be actively trying to communicate with one another, and let them know that they’re in the back of your mind.

3. Jealousy: Jealousy is an ugly quality and it can bring out the worst in us.  Don’t make an unnecessary scene or cause a fight for no reason or on false accusations because it will throw a wrench into your relationship.

How do you and your partner handle partying without one another?  Share your comments below.