Christina Aguilera and boyfriend Matthew Rutler took Aguilera’s four-year-old son, Max, on a birthday trip to remember.  According to People, Aguilera and friends took her son to Legoland which served as one present, as well as ” the Hard Rock Hotel San Diego, where she checked into a luxe Rock Star Suite” in which Max was “showered with gifts.”  He was later taken to a Japanese restaurant and a nightclub.  Last time Aguilera was at the hotel was with Rutler last year for Valentine’s Day.
How do you make your children comfortable around a new partner?
Cupid’s Advice:
Children can often take time to adjust to a new special someone in your life. Â Cupid shares ways to help your child adjust:
1. The first introduction:Â Ease your way into the first meeting. Â Ask your child questions and let them ask you questions about this new significant other in your life. Â Give them time if they need it, but make sure it’s within reason.
2. The first meeting: Don’t make the first encounter entirely focused on the significant other. Â Take a page from Christina Aguilera and have it coincide with another event. Â Not only does it say money, but this allows the child to associate good memories with your new partner.
3. Avoid conflict: You won’t always be able to please both your partner and your children, but avoid situations where you have to choose between them. Â This is especially true if it’s a highly tense situation which could lead to resentment.
How did you introduce your new partner to your children? Share your advice below.
