Eva Longoria is speaking out against long engagements. Â The Desperate Housewives actress says, “I never believe in long engagements. Â People think engagement is another step. It’s not another step. You’re single and then you’re married. Â The engagement is the planning part.” Â She goes on to say that if she were the bride, she’d be like, “All right, let’s get going.” Â Although Longoria’s three-year marriage to Tony Parker ended in January 2011 after rumors of an affair on his part, she has found happiness again with Eduardo Cruz. Â When asked if she would consider marrying again, she said, “I’m not opposed to it, I just don’t really give it a lot of thought right now.” Â Well, here’s to the happy couple!
What are the benefits of a short engagement?
Cupid’s Advice:
Some people choose to have short engagements (like Tara Reid), while others choose to ride it out for years (like Brooke Burke). Â Let’s take a look at the benefits to the Tara Reid school of thought:
1. Less time to worry: The lead-up to a wedding can cause a lot of stress. Â With a short-term engagement, it may still be a lot of stress packed into a small amount of time … but before you know it, it’s over.
2. You get what you want more quickly: The reason you get engaged is most likely because you’re ready to spend your life with the person you said “yes” to or to whom you proposed. Â By not prolonging the engagement, it’s more of an instant gratification.
3. No second guessing wedding plans: Sometimes having more time to plan your nuptials is not exactly a blessing. Â As the clock keeps ticking, you have more time to change your mind about things that were already set in stone months ago. Â It can cause a lot of work and chaos.
What are some other benefits to a short engagement? Â Share your thoughts below.
