Cupid's Pulse Article: Why Sam ‘Sammi Sweetheart’ Giancola Avoided ‘Jersey Shore: Family Vacation’Cupid's Pulse Article: Why Sam ‘Sammi Sweetheart’ Giancola Avoided ‘Jersey Shore: Family Vacation’

By Jessica Gomez

In celebrity news, “Sammi Sweetheart” did not go back to Jersey Shore: Family Vacation because she was afraid that celebrity ex Ronnie Ortiz-Magro would try to get back together with her, according to On Thursday’s episode, Ronnie went off about not caring about Sam not showing up because he has a baby on the way with his girlfriend Jen Harley. Deena Cortese, another Jersey Shore member and Sam’s close friend had something to say in a confessional on the show: “Ron needs to stop talking about Sam and move the f—k on … Sam told me that he used to call her on blocked numbers, and used to like, be really weird. She was afraid she was gonna get in the house and he would get drunk and spiral and try and get back with her or something.” Arguments about Sam have erupted in the Jersey Shore house regardless of her not being present. The former celebrity couple are a topic of discussion because of their dramatic roller coaster relationship that kept fans watching. Let’s see if Sam decides to make an appearance after all.

In celebrity news, it seems Sam knows what she wants, and she doesn’t want to get back with her ex. What are some ways you know you should not get back together with an old flame?

Cupid’s Advice:

A lot of the time we think of reasons to get back together with an ex, but neglect to reflect on the reasons we shouldn’t. Cupid has some love advice:

1. They’re involved with someone else: This is something that may seem obvious. However, there are some people that decide it’s time to compete and win their former lover back. This is not the best idea. Once someone is involved with someone else, it will most likely just bring problems into a relationship that you may rekindle. Just remember, if it’s meant to happen between you guys, it will.

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2. You have not forgiven them: If you have yet to forgive your ex for any wrongdoings, then getting back together won’t be the brightest idea. You will just have the same problems all over again, which is something you want to avoid. If you can’t forgive, then it’s time to move on — avoid yourself all the stress.

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3. They’re still not trustworthy: If you can’t trust them, then why go back to them? You would not want to enter a relationship with distrust, it just won’t end well. It would be a different story if you didn’t trust them before, but you feel like you can now. Remember, when there is no trust (for a good reason), it’s best to keep things pushing.

What reasons did you have for not getting back with an ex? Comment below!