Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: Don’t Be a Rules Girl!Cupid's Pulse Article: Dating Advice: Don’t Be a Rules Girl!

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert, Wendy Newman to offer their best dating advice on finding true love without a rule book. Forget all that you thought you knew, and follow these three dating tips if you want to start having success on your dates!

Dating Advice On Not Following The Rules

1. Don’t strategize intimacy. You shouldn’t worry too much about when is the right time to have sex. There is no right time, except for when you are both ready to take it to that level. Men in particular aren’t interested in women who will hold out on intimacy in a strategic way.

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2. Take control of your dating life. Be available if you’re interested in a man.You don’t necessarily have to pursue, but take the opportunity to drop a hint that you’re open to dating. This will allow you to have control instead of relying on men to make the first move.

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3. Make the time. It’s alright if you want to give chase, but don’t be too unavailable. You need to make time in your schedule for potential dates. If you’re too busy and keep rejecting a man, he’ll most likely move on to someone else. Try to pencil him in within two weeks.

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