Cupid's Pulse Article: Jesse James to Pen Memoir About Sandra Bullock and Kat Von DCupid's Pulse Article: Jesse James to Pen Memoir About Sandra Bullock and Kat Von D

Jesse James has been part of quite a lot of controversy in Hollywood over the past year. Sandra Bullock’s ex was the center of a cheating scandal, and then shocked us once again with a surprise engagement to tattoo artist Kat Von D. Now, James has signed a book deal with ¬†Simon & Schuster’s Gallery Books, reports E! Online. The book will include details about James’ marriage to Sandra Bullock, and will also contain information on James’ engagement to Kat Von D. There is no set release date as of yet, but¬†Simon & Schuster’s Gallery Books appears to be looking at a release date later this year.

How should you deal with a vengeful ex?

Cupid’s Advice:

It’s hard to put a relationship behind you when its issues are still frequently coming up. Though you may have coped with the breakup, your ex may still be hurting. Here are a few ways to deal with a vengeful ex:

1. Try to smooth over hurt feelings: Vengeful feelings can spring from a tough breakup. Though it may be awkward, talking to your ex and smoothing over hurt feelings may be the best way for you and your ex to put the past behind you.

2. Ask him to stop: If negotiating with your ex is out of the question, you can always ask him to stop his hurtful behavior. This approach must be done tactfully, but if you appeal to his better nature and make him see that his actions are helping no one, he may be inclined to stop.

3. Ignore him: If your ex is resisting all negotiation, ignore his antics. He’s probably only trying to hurt you with his behavior, and will stop when he sees his efforts are useless.