On this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, dating expert Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship author Duana Welch about how to figure out if he’s The One.

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Relationship Author Shares Love Advice On Figuring Out If He’s The One

1. Look, lean, and listen: First, lean close to your date; then, look directly in their eyes; and lastly, listen to what they have to say. While you’re doing these three things, ask him open-ended questions. According to this relationship advice video, this method completely disarms people because everyone wants someone who will listen to them.

The relationship author encourages you to ask this question: “You know, I’ve had some relationships that didn’t work out, and I imagine you have as well. Can you tell me what your ex would say when asked why you’re not still together?”

2. Write a list of every single thing that you want in a life partner: Welch shares her love advice and says you need to write everything from the sublime to the ridiculous on the list. Then, divide it into must-haves (the shorter list) and put everything else on your wants.

When you go on a date, find creative ways to learn if there are any deal breakers. Look at dating as a job interview. You don’t want to wait until you’re already in love to ask those important questions!

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