By Andrea Surujnauth
Taylor Swift finally¬†decided to address all the rumors about her crazy love life. Rumors have circulated that¬†the 23-year-old¬†has had multiple¬†boyfriends and every time she breaks up with one, she writes a song to bash him.¬†According to UsMagazine.com, Taylor told Vanity Fair, “If you want some big revelation, since 2010 I have dated exactly two people.” These¬†two people were¬†Conor Kennedy and One Direction singer, Harry Styles.¬†Swift’s list of alleged¬†celebrity beaus include Jake Gyllenhaal, John Mayer, Joe Jonas and Taylor Lautner – many of whom she has apparently¬†written break up songs about. Swift addresses this issue by stating,¬†“The fact that there are slide shows of a dozen guys that I either hugged on a¬† red carpet or met for lunch or wrote a song with. . . it’s just kind of¬† ridiculous.”¬† In regards to the songs that she in fact did write based on a relationship she says, “For a female to write about her feelings, and then be portrayed as some clingy,¬† insane, desperate girlfriend in need of making you marry her and have kids with¬† her, I think that’s taking something that potentially should be celebrated — a¬† woman writing about her feelings in a confessional way –that’s taking it and¬† turning it and twisting it into something that is frankly a little sexist.”
What are some qualities that make someone a good girlfriend?
What do guys look for in a girlfriend? What traits are the most important in a good girlfriend? What’s most important is to be yourself. Cupid is here with a few traits that most guys find irresistible:
1. Independent: Being independent does not mean that you have to be the tough guy in your relationship but guys don’t like a girl that acts like she can’t function without him around. Acting needy tends to chase guys away. Show that you can take care of yourself and be a big girl. No guy wants to baby-sit their girlfriend.
2. No nagging: Guys don’t want a girlfriend that will create an arguement over the most miniscule issues. Leaving clothes on the floor is not a reason to cause a big blow-out arguement. Save your anger for when there is actually a reason to be angry. Choose your battles wisely and don’t treat your man like a child.
3. Intelligence: No guy wants a girl that does not know up from down. He wants to be able to hold a conversation with his sweetheart. Guys don’t just want a girl that is nice to look at, they want one that they can be proud of. If you act like a dunce, he will be too embarrassed to bring you around his friends and family.
What qualities do you think make a good girlfriend? Comment below and let us know.