It’s been two years, but Kate Gosselin still isn’t ready to move on.¬† Gosselin, 36, revealed that she is lonely and unhappy with her love life on Dr. Drew Wednesday, reports RadarOnline.¬† Gosselin separated from her now ex-husband Jon Gosselin two years ago, but doesn’t feel the time is right to find the man who would be willing to take on eight kids yet.¬† “I absolutely [want to find someone]!” said Gosselin. ¬†“The odds are so against me, one mom and eight kids‚Ķso it would be great. ¬†I mean, I‚Äôm so lonely. ¬†I clean up the house, put the kids to bed and there I sit. ¬†Ideally I would find that person‚ĶI don’t know if I feel ready for that.”

How do you get over the feeling of being lonely after a split?

Cupid’s Advice:

Living the single life takes some adjusting¬†to, especially if you’re used to being in a relationship.¬† Here are a few ways to help you get over your loneliness:

1. Keep busy:  Loneliness really settles in during your extra time.  Staying busy will help keep your mind off of your feelings.  Also, getting out more may be a way for you to meet new people.

2. Call your friends:¬† A romantic partner isn’t the only person who can make you feel wanted.¬† Your friends have been supporting you for years and will continue to do so.¬† Call them up and organize a time to hang out.

3. Avoid routines:  Having a scheduled, routine life will only make you feel lonelier.  Shake things up, and be careful not to live on auto-pilot.  Spontaneity can be a blessing.

How did you comfort yourself after a breakup?  Feel free to leave a comment below.