On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert and relationship author Tinzley Bradford about how to be a smarter dater. “I do what I do because I love to help women be better!” Bradford, writer of The Settle-Free Dating Method for Women, exclaims.

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Here are Bradford’s three best pieces of expert dating advice to help you be a smarter dater:

1. Be observant: “I’m a strong believer in watching what people do versus what they say,” the dating expert reveals. If he says he’s going to call you at a certain time but never does, that’s something important for you to note. Always keep his actions in mind.

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2. Be aware of who you’re dating: If you already see some not-so-great sides of your partner, it may be time to move on. For instance, if you want a serious relationship and love, but he just wants to “Netflix and chill,” be smart and listen to what he says. “Ladies, you can’t change a man’s mind,” Oshima explains.

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3. Don’t overstress: You don’t have to go on a date every night or even every weekend. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. “Date yourself sometimes,” Bradford shares of this piece of expert dating advice. “Take time for you. A little downtime never hurts.”

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