On this week’s Single in Stilettos expert dating advice video, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and dating expert Nicole Moore discuss how to attract the right man and find a lasting relationship and love.

Expert Dating Advice to Meet Someone Special

If you’re ready to meet The One, consider these three pieces of dating advice:

1. You have to stop hating men: Grab a friend or a journal and clear out all of the negative thoughts in your head. Remember that “good men really want women who love men because that makes them feel safe,” Moore says.

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2. You must have confidence: Every single man wants confidence in a partner. “When you’re confident in yourself, he’s going to trust that he’s making a good choice in you,” she shares. “And men want to make a good decision. They hate to fail!” To channel your inner confidence, make a list of 30 reasons why you’re a great catch.

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3. Believe that you can attract the right guy: “It doesn’t matter what the dating field is; it matters what you want,” Moore says. “Hold in your mind, ‘I’m the woman who only attracts high-quality men.'” Be firm and strong in that positioning.

As the dating expert explains, “I believe love is a skill, and if you learn it, you can really make it work well.” We couldn’t agree more!

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