Celebrity News: Taylor Swift Admits She Doesn’t Know If She Will Get Married

By Meghan Fitzgerald

Recently, 23-year old singer, Taylor Swift talked to Wonderland magazine about relationships, guys, and heartbreak. UsMagazine.com talks more with Swift, talking about “I have no idea if I’m going to get married or be single forever or have a family or just be on my own. You know, paint in a cottage by the ocean by myself.” The Never Ever Ever singer has a list of countless exes, John Mayer, Jake Gyllenhaal, Taylor Lautner, and Harry Styles. Who knows what will be next for Swift.

What do you do if you’re not sure what you want out of a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

If you are not more than eighty percent positive you should be in the relationship you’re in, you should reconsider it. Not knowing where you should be in life means you need to think more about you. You shouldn’t delve further into someone else’s life if you don’t know your own. Cupid has some more advice on not wanting to be in a relationship:

1.  Get out: Being in a relationship when you don’t know what you want is a sign to get out. If you don’t know what you want out of it, you should not be in a committed relationship. It isn’t fair to your partner if you’re not positive of what you want. Save the despair and heartbreak for your mate, and leave the relationship now. It may be difficult to do, but in the long haul it is worth it.

2. Effective communication: Communication is necessary if you’re not sure what you want out of a relationship. Make sure your partner knows what you’re thinking and feeling. Inform them about your confusion and anxiety of the relationship. If they are not aware that you may act differently, or may abruptly leave the relationship, let them know. Fill your mate in on everything.

3. Self-exploration: Okay, you’re not sure what you want of a relationship…now is your time to explore. Hop out of the relationship and do some self exploration. Do things you wouldn’t normally do in a relationship. Do things you normally wouldn’t do in general. Go out of your comfort zone and find out who you are. Find out what you want out of relationships so you can go back into them.

Have you ever not known whether or not you wanted to be in a relationship? Explain below.