Having a partner who always wants to be around you is a great feeling — to a certain extent. Everyone has needs when they’re in a relationship, but being overbearing about what you want will push your significant other towards the door. A relationship is an equal union, so if you’re busy only thinking about yourself, then your guy will begin to resent you. Here are the five reasons why being needy will push him away:
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By Kerri Sheehan
There is nothing stronger than the bond between a girl and her closest group of BFFs. Best friends break their plans and bring over a trio of aloe-infused tissue boxes and a pound of your favorite jelly beans when the man you’ve been dating for five years tells you he’s in love with the girl he just met at Starbucks. Friends are also the ones who support you when you have a Tom Cruise-like outburst after going on a date with a man who you claim is your life-long partner.
Are Miley Cyrus and Kellan Lutz dating? Photo: PRN / PRPhotos.com; Samuel Womack / PR Photos
By Kerri Sheehan
Rumored fling Miley Cyrus and Kellan Lutz were spotted together on Friday night at the grand opening of Beacher’s Madhouse in Las Vegas. Although they arrived to the event separately, they were seen partying together later on in the night. Is it possible that the two are secretly an item? Could be. According to one onlooker who reported to People, “They talked a very close range for a long time while Cyrus was laughing and rubbing his back. At one point she kissed Lutz’s ear.”
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Vanessa Carlton is pregnant with her first child. Photo: Diane Cohen/Fame Pictures
By Kerri Sheehan
Vanessa Carlton is hitched! The “A Thousand Miles” singer wed singer John McCauley is past Friday. Carlton wore a fitted, long-sleeved white wedding gown, with a purple headpiece and flowers. According to UsMagazine.com, the 33-year-old tweeted, “Married this gentleman two hours ago xo.”
Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union. Photo: SGP/FAMEFLYNET
By Kerri Sheehan
Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade are getting hitched! The 31-year-old NBA player got down on one knee for the 41-year-old actress this past weekend in Miami, Fl. Wade slipped an 8.5 carat diamond ring by Jason of Beverly Hills onto Union’s finger. According to UsMagazine.com Union tweeted a picture of the diamond stunner followed by, “Maaaaaannn… I’m floatin! Thank you SO much for all the love, well wishes & support!”
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In the Mario 64 video game, the title character wins over Princess Peach’s heart by saving her from Bowser, a villainous kidnapper. Spiderman characters Peter Parker and Mary Jane Watson fell in love despite Parker’s nerdy demeanor and web-slinging abilities. In Star Wars, Han Solo wowed Princess Leia by showing her that he was more than just your average galactic player. So how did all of these “nerds” manage to navigate the dating world and find their special someone? Chances are they got their hands on a copy of The Geek’s Guide to Dating by Eric Smith!
Smith is the cofounder of Geekadelphia, a popular blog covering all-that-is-geek in the City of Brotherly Love. In his newest book, the blogger hopes to help his fellow nerds and give them a step-by-step guide to put their heart on the line and fall in love. Throughout the book, he makes references to Star Trek, Firefly, Pokémon, and many other fandoms. A self-proclaimed geek himself, Smith was able to connect these ideas to the dating world so nerds can really grasp the concepts he discusses. The author also encourages his readers to switch off the “pick-up artist” technique in favor of showing understanding and respect for women. Featuring eight-bit pixel art by Juan Carlos Solon, The Geek’s Guide to Dating will make any gamer feel like they’re right at home.
Rodger Berman and Rachel Zoe. Photo: LRR/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Kerri Sheehan
Rachel Zoe and her husband Rodger Berman welcomed a second son into their family this weekend! The celebrity stylist turned fashion designer added another baby on board with son Kaius Jagger Berman. According to People, 42-year-old Zoe announced via Twitter, “So excited to welcome our baby boy into the world … he’s 7 lbs., 12 oz., beautiful, healthy and we couldn’t be happier,”
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Ryan and Trista Sutter. Photo: Diane Cohen/Fame Pictures
By Kerri Sheehan
Trista Rehn and Ryan Sutter met during the Bachelorette, and ever since the two have been happily married. This weekend, ten years after 26 million viewers tuned in to see the two get hitched, the couple renewed their vows. They said, “I do,” once again in Vali, Colorado. Trista dished to People, “It’s an understatement to say I hit the jackpot. He is such a good person. He gets better with age.”
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Jenelle Evans is at odds with the law again! The pregnant ‘Teen Mom 2’ star ended up behind bats after a dispute with baby daddy and boyfriend Nathan Griffith. Evans and Griffith were allegedly arguing when the police were called and they brought Evans out in handcuffs. The 21-year-old adds her tenth arrest in three years to her record. According to UsMagazine.com, Evans claims that her neighbors called the police on them just so they can sell a story to the tabloids.
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No dinner date is complete without the perfect bottle of wine. A dry white wine naturally complements a piece of grilled salmon and some summer vegetables, while a robust red wine pairs perfectly with a medium-rare filet and baked potato. If you’re wondering what type of wine to buy for your next dinner date, why not reach for a bottle of Jam Jar Wine?
The company was born in 2009 out of the realization that there aren’t a lot of options available to consumers seeking quality sweet wines. Many store-bought wines advertise a clean sugary taste, but in reality, they don’t taste so good. That’s not the case with Jam Jar Wines! These semiâ€sweet wines are made from grapes grown in the Western Cape of South Africa, which has a climate ideal for producing wines that offer a balance of sweetness and acidity.
Jam Jar Wines come in two varieties, and both are sure to make any date an all-night affair. The Sweet Shiraz is crafted in a lighter style than the typical Shiraz. With a fruity taste mixed with dark chocolate undertones, it’s sure to leave you and your date wanting more. It’s a versatile wine, so it goes great with anything from cheeseburgers to banana pudding.
The Sweet White is a 100 percent Moscato wine. This charming, easy-to-drink wine offers juicy flavors of peach, apricot, lychee, and orange blossom. A lively jolt of acidity keeps it fresh and fun. Fancy enough for a special occasion toast yet sweet-natured enough to enjoy every day, this beverage will certainly make your date night memorable.
Jam Jar Wine’s evocative packaging has a nostalgic, “retro” feel, topped with a screw cap and inspired by classic jam jar lids. With the holidays coming up, it’s the perfect time to get your hands on a bottle (or two) of Jam Jar Wine. They’re available nationwide with a suggested retail price of $11.99.
To make drinking your wine even more enjoyable, one lucky CupidsPulse.com reader will win a Jam Jar Wines gift bag (sorry no wine can be included legally in this giveaway). However, the gift bag does include an insulated picnic wine tote (perfect for those romantic dates at the park!), a set of coasters, an apron, and some holiday chocolates.
GIVEAWAY ALERT: To enter for a chance to win the Jam Jar Wines gift bag, go to our Facebook page and click “like.” Leave a comment under our giveaway post letting us know you want to win the contest. We will contact the winner via Facebook when the contest is over, and they will have three days to respond back with their contact information. The deadline to enter is 5pm EST on Monday, December 30th. Good luck!
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By Kerri Sheehan
Snow falls in thick, icy blankets; winter attire adorns every shop window; and a sip of steaming hot chocolate instantly warms you up. All of this can only mean one thing: The holiday season is upon us! CupidsPulse.com has gathered some of our favorite articles from our partners this week to make your winter the best it can be.
1. Laugh a little: Nothing is better than popping in a nice comedy with your significant other on a cold winter’s night and having a good laugh. These comedians will tell you just how funny love can be. (YourTango.com)
2. Cuddle up: One of the best parts about the chilly weather is that you and your guy have all the more reason to stay indoors and snuggle with each other. Here are 47 of the cutest love quotes for that person you just want to ‘mush.’ (YourTango.com)
3. Get the girls together: Staying in isn’t just for you and your man; your girlfriends want in on the fun too! See how Melissa Joan Hart and her closest gal pals celebrated the holiday season with a cute “girls only” get together. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
4. Winterize your skin: Don’t stop at a girls’ night when it comes to pampering yourself. The icy temperatures are sure to leave your skin screaming for thirst, so here are some ways to get your skin ready for winter. (GalTime.com)
5. Be the best gift giver: Now that you’ve given yourself a gift (or two), it’s time to spread that holiday cheer! Even if you aren’t a parent, there are bound to be a child or two on your shopping list. These gender-neutral gifts will have any kid wishing that Santa asked you for gifting advice. (GalTime.com)
What’s your best tip for surviving the holiday season? Share below.
Sarah Parlintin and Lee Brice. Photo: PRN / PR Photos
By Kerri Sheehan
Lee Brice has a baby on board! The country singer and his wife Sara welcomed their second son, Ryker Mobley Brice this past Wednesday December 4th. According to People, Brice said, “A week ago I didn’t think I could be any happier. I was wrong. Our brand new baby boy was born healthy. My heart is full.”
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Crooning sensation Adele looks like she’s happy in love! The British songbird was recently photographed looking completely smitten with boyfriend and baby daddy Simon Konecki. The two are rarely seen together, but they made a public appearance at a secret Lady Gaga concert in London. An insider recently dished to UsMagazine.com, “Adele loves being a mom. Simon helps her in every way and is a great dad. They are just incredibly happy.”
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Longtime relationships aren’t for everyone, but for those who have a committed significant other, keeping the spark alive is of the utmost importance. After a few years together, it can be hard to look at your partner like the lovestruck school girl you once resembled. CupidsPulse.com has gathered some of the best tips and advice from our partners — read on to keep your relationship fresh, strong, and loving.
1. DIY Therapy: Any couple will agree that the seas of love aren’t always easy to navigate. The best way to revamp your union is to partake in some do-it-yourself relationship therapy. This approach isn’t for everyone, but give it a try; it may just work for you! (GalTime.com)
2. Weekly Meetings: When you and your significant other have been together for so long, you tend to let the things that bother you simmer rather than addressing them and moving on. You can only begrudgingly wash the dishes so many times before you feel resentment that your guy never takes his turn. Holding weekly meetings where you clear the air and talk about any issues you may have will keep you both happy. (GalTime.com)
3. Express Yourself: Being in love is like winning the lottery; it’s exciting and wonderful, and it adds so many new opportunities to your future. However, it can be hard to put these feelings into words. Here are 50 love quotes that say what you can’t. (YourTango.com)
4. The Duggar Family: If you’re familiar with the reality show 19 Kids and Counting, then you know that Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar celebrated their 29th wedding anniversary this past October. The mother of 19 shared her top three tips for a successful marriage. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
5. Expert Advice: Every relationship is different, so it can be hard to give distinct advice without knowing the whole story. Here are the best tips and expert advice around for couples in any situation. (YourTango.com)
What is your best advice for couples in a long-term relationship? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
Kim Kardashian and Kanye West. Photo: AAR/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Kerri Sheehan
Kim Kardashian revealed that her five-month-old daughter, North West tried out swimming for the first time this weekend. Both Kim and fiancé, Kanye West were present for the occasion. Kim posted about the family swimming day on her Twitter page and one commenter said that it was nice that Kimye’s baby girl “got to see her parents for a change!” According to UsMagazine.com, Kim fired back calling the commenter ignorant and saying that she did not know how much time Kim and Kanye spent with their daughter.
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Actress Maria Bello revealed that she has been dating her best female friend. When the Grown-ups actress decided to read through her old journals she learned that she often pinned people as her soul mate and when they broke her heart that made the fall all the worse. That’s when she decided to give a relationship with her best friend, Clare a try. According to UsMagazine.com, Bello said, “It didn’t occur to me, until that soul-searching moment in my garden, that we could perhaps choose to love each other romantically.” Her family and friends have been supportive of the relationship so far.
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Family gathering for a special occassion. Photo: Wavebreak Media Ltd / Bigstock.com
By Kerri Sheehan
The holidays are a time for family and friends to get together and celebrate the best parts of life – so how come no one ever mentions the stress that comes with that? The instructions that came with the turkey say it needs to be basted every hour, but proper dinner conversation topics are rarely outlined. And, of course, there are tons of Black Friday promotions, but there are none that say specifically, “Grandma Margaret will love this!” CupidsPulse.com has gathered some of the best tips and advice from our partners to help you navigate your Thanksgiving weekend:
1. Give Thanks: Thanksgiving is about just that: giving thanks! Whether it’s your husband who helps you enjoy the simple things in life, your beautiful baby girl who will be celebrating her first Thanksgiving this year, or your employer who ensures that you have the funds to stay afloat, don’t forget to show your gratitude for everyone who enriches your life. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
2. Easy Conversation: You can bet that almost everyone has suffered through one or two awkward Thanksgiving dinners. This holiday is a family affair, so there will likely be those of all ages at the table. Some of your relatives may have also invited new love interests. Here are five go-to dinner conversation topics to keep talk appropriate and fun. (GalTime.com)
3. Good Deals: Now that you’ve made it through Thanksgiving Day, it’s on to Black Friday! This is the ideal time to get some holiday shopping done, as many people have the day off from work and there will be some great discounts. Learning to weed through all of the promos will help you find the best deals. (GalTime.com)
4. Family Presents: After years of buying gifts for your entire family, you may be short on ideas of what will make their eyes widen. Really, how many times can you buy Aunt Mary a bathroom set, and how many cardigans does your mother need? Here are some unique gifts that your relatives will be sure to love. (YourTango.com)
5. Gift Guide: Nothing shows how much you care like picking out the perfect gift for your boyfriend. If you do, he’ll know that you not only pay attention to what he likes but also that you listen when he talks about his love for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers over the Green Bay Packers. With all of the Black Friday deals out there, let this gifting guide help you decide which presents will make your man the happiest. (YourTango.com)
What is your best Thanksgiving weekend advice? Share below.
Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel. Photo: API/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Kerri Sheehan
There is no trouble in paradise for Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel! This Sunday night at the American Music Awards Timberlake brought down the house with his performance of “Drink You Away,” and managed to snag awards for favorite pop/rock male artist, soul/R&B album, and soul/R&B artists. The question on a lot of people’s minds was, “Where is his wife, Jessica Biel?!” According to People, Biel took to Twitter to answer this question, saying, “I’m watching from home tonight. Calm down, Internet,” she wrote.
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Kendall Jenner and Harry Styles. Photo: Juan Rico/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES; ER/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Kerri Sheehan
Kendall Jenner and Harry Styles are keeping their lips sealed! After being spotted grabbing a bite to eat together in West Hollywood rumors of the potential young couple have been flying. When asked, both parties were very vague about their possible romance. According to People, Kendall told E’s Guiliana Rancic, “We’re friends. He’s cool, yeah, he’s cool.” One Direction member, Styles also refused to give any unnecessary details. When asked by Piers Morgan if they were dating, Styles replied, “I mean, we went out for dinner, but no, I guess.”
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Justin Bieber's 'The Key.' Photo courtesy of Coburn Communication, Inc.
This post is sponsored by Elizabeth Arden.
By Kerri Sheehan
You’ve finally plucked up the courage to ask that guy you met last weekend out to dinner. After spending the afternoon picking out the perfect outfit and doing your hair and makeup to resemble a Victoria’s Secret Angel, it’s time to decide which fragrance will help you turn your crush into your man. If you’re looking to unlock your new guy’s heart, try a few sprays of Justin Bieber’s The Key.
Teen heartthrob Bieber teamed up with beauty guru company Elizabeth Arden to bring fans the third installment of his fragrance line. This fruity floral musk will leave you smelling like a beautiful flower coated in a liquid lollipop. The scent will be sure to awaken your date’s senses, and he’ll want to get closer to you so he can take in the bursts of juicy fruit and blooming bouquets. At the end of the night, he’ll be dreaming of another night out with you.
The scent’s packaging is modern and fresh — a true ode to the pop star’s appreciation of cutting edge fashion and technology. The bottle features a modern, high-gloss white finish with bright gold reflective accents and a weighted key charm. The key represents an authentic symbol from the singer to his fans, reminding them to always believe. As an added bonus, the embellished and sparkling charm can be removed and worn as the perfect finishing touch to any outfit.
Further showing his love for his fans, beginning on October 7th and ending on December 9th, Bieber will release one song every Monday as part of his Music Mondays series. As if checking out his new music wasn’t enough, two lucky CupidPulse.com readers will have the chance to each win a bottle of The Key. It sounds too good to be true, but you better ‘Beliebe’ it!
GIVEAWAY ALERT: To enter for a chance to win a bottle of Justin Bieber’s The Key, go to our Facebook page and click “like.” Leave a comment under our giveaway post letting us know you want to win the contest and what your ideal first date is. We will contact the winners via Facebook when the contest is over, and they will have three days to respond back with their contact information. The deadline to enter is 5pm EST on Monday, December 9th. Good luck!
Congratulations to Maricela Anderson and Carleen King!
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By Kerri Sheehan
Being a new parent can be difficult, but adding a second or even third child to the family adds a new dynamic to the already-established way of doing things. Most couples don’t realize that expanding a household can lead to sibling rivalry, loss of patience, and, for many, marital turbulence. CupidsPulse.com has gathered some of the best tips and advice from our partners to help you out when it comes to that cute little addition:
1. Siblings: If your son or daughter is accustomed to being an only child, there could be a slight shift in personality when baby number two comes along. Make sure to prepare your other children for their new brother or sister so that they will feel just as happy and eager as you do when the baby comes home. (GalTime.com)
2. Parenting Style: It’s important to remember that every child is different. What worked for your oldest son Johnny may not work for little Ava. Be flexible. Rules of Engagement star Megyn Price recently dished that her daughter Grace is so unique that she has to be spontaneous when parenting. (CelebrityBabyScoop.com)
3. Work Together: Nobody said it was easy raising children, but when two parents share or take turns getting up in the middle of the night, driving the kids to school, making dinner, and cleaning the house, it can be much easier to handle. Find out if the division of labor in your house is equal. (GalTime.com)
4. Just Because: It can be easy to forget about your partner once you add children into the mix. What better way to make your man feel important than getting him an unexpected present? Here are ten gift ideas for even the pickiest of guys. (YourTango.com)
5. Say How You Feel: In the midst of providing your children with the care and protection that they need, it’s easy to forget to say those three little words that brought you together in the first place. Here are 20 inspirational ways to say “I love you.” (YourTango.com)
After announcing their engagement in May, Today show anchor Savannah Guthrie and Mike Feldman are finally looking into planning their wedding. They plan to both take part in the big decisions that come with wedding planning, making it a team effort. According to People, Guthrie said, “Both of us want to be involved, but at the same time we’re overwhelmed by the prospect of having to plan a whole wedding, so we’re in it together.” The most important thing to the couple is to create the right atmosphere for the event. They would prefer for the event to be more meaningful and personal than the classic wedding situation.
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Eva Longoria says that kids aren't in her future. Photo: MOE/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Kerri Sheehan
Love is in the air for Eva Longoria and Jose Antonio Baston! On Friday night the former Desperate Housewives star and president of Televisa, the largest media company in Latin America walked the red carpet for the Museo Jumex Opening dinner at Casa De La Bola in Mexico City Mexico together. This is their first red carpet appearance together since they began their romance several weeks ago. A source dished to People, “He’s been sweeping her off her feet and courting her like a proper gentleman.”
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Jenny McCarthy and Donnie Wahlberg. Photo: JPVegas/FAMEFLYNET
By Kerri Sheehan
Jenny McCarthy is hearing wedding bells! McCarthy, 41, dished to Bethenny Frankel on a taping of the Bethenny show that if her boyfriend Donnie Wahlberg were to propose she would say, “Yes!” She also wouldn’t be opposed to getting down on one knee herself. After taking a year off from dating McCarthy decided to give the New Kids on the Block singer a chance when he broke through the wall she put up. According to UsMagazine.com McCarthy said, “I told the universe I’m ready for love. I said bring the one. I’m not doing any more auditions.”
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