In this traumatic and unprecedented time of the global pandemic, we are surrounded by so much loss of life. In the United States alone many more than 90,000 people have died, and that number grows every day. With that in mind, it may seem that the loss of a pet pales in comparison to the death of a human loved one, and therefore people think they don’t have a right to experience or express their heartbreak. But for many, pets are among their most loved ones, and saying goodbye can be devastating, even, or more so, during this time of isolation and widespread sadness. Sports couple Hope Solo and her husband Jerramy Stevens recently talked about the loss of their dog, Conan, after he was tragically shot. Solo posted about it on social media, saying, “We’re broken-hearted to share that Conan passed away from blood loss last night. He fought up until the very end. We’re crushed. Just a dog running through the woods, trying to make his way home.”
In the same way people wonder if it’s alright to find things funny during these incredibly difficult times, many wonder if they can truly mourn the death of their beloved pet without feeling guilty. In this relationship advice, is it okay to grieve for an animal when so many people are suffering?
Hope Solo’s husband and former NFL tight end Jerramy Stevens, 33, was arrested for violating probation on Wednesday, according to UsMagazine.com. The arrest is the result of domestic abuse charges earlier this month. Stevens allegedly assaulted Solo, 31, during an altercation on November 12. Oddly enough, Stevens and the two-time women’s soccer gold medalist were married the very next day. After being released and the charged being dropped, a warrant was issued for his arrest for violating probation from a marijuana possession arrest back in October of 2010. Solo spoke out about the incident for the first time on Tuesday saying, “I’m happy. I’m happily married. We never stand for domestic violence. I’ve never been hit in my life. It’s unfortunate, and that’s what the media can do.” Stevens is currently in jail without a set bond.
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Rumor has it that Jerramy Stevens and Hope Solo went through with their wedding even though he was recently arrested for assault charges, according to People. Stevens is the tight end for the Seattle Seahawks and Solo is the goalkeeper for the U.S. women’s soccer team. The couple has been dating for a mere two months, but applied for a marriage license last week. The two were reportedly arguing for where to get married when allegations were made that Stevens assaulted his fiancée. Stevens has been released based on lack of sufficient evidence to prove the charges. Though, a short-term imprisonment did not stop this duo from getting hitched.
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Despite her hectic schedule as she prepares for the 2012 Summer Olympic games, Hope Solo, goalkeeper for the United State’s Women’s National Soccer team, strives to live a balanced life — both on the field and off the field. When she’s not training, she loves being social and enjoying life. As for romance? She is looking for a confident and honest partner, someone who wants the best in everything that they do.
Solo’s also partnering with Unilever to promote their Simple Skincare line. As someone with sensitive skin, she understands the importance of a skincare line that she can trust as she travels from city to city.
For a chance to win a trip to Los Angeles and meet Solo, visit the Escape with Hope Facebook page!
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