By Kerri Sheehan
Ex flames and singers John Mayer and Katy Perry were spotted canoodling at a Memorial Day Party two months after their second breakup. UsMagazine.com confirms that Mayer was in attendance of the barbeque held at Perry’s home in the Hollywood Hills. One fellow attendee said, “They seem to be back together — or back together-ish, they were very flirty and having a really good time together. They have good chemistry.”
How do you decide whether to get back together with an ex?
Cupid’s Advice:
Sometimes the guy that you count as down in out can turn out to be your Prince Charming. Cupid has some advice on how to tell if you dud has transformed into a keeper:
1. Make it your decision: A lot of women can fall into the trap of following what other think as opposed to listening to their own hearts. If you’re really going to reunite with an ex it has to be your decision and no one else’s. There’s a difference between people giving you advice and full on telling you what to do.
2. Forgiving is easier than forgetting: If the reason for the original breakup was a transgression committed by your ex you have to acknowledge that it may not be as easy to forget as you think. If you still store pent-up hate for an ex’s wrongdoing then there’s no way you can move beyond that and reconcile in a healthy manner.
3. Do a Mental Rewind: Go back to the beginning of your relationship and figure out what originally attracted you to your partner. Are those traits still present in your ex? If he has changed for the worse then it may not be worth it to take your ex from the bench to the field.
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