By Meghan Fitzgerald
The final two in this season’s The Bachelor has finally come into play! Strange as it may seem, AshLee Frazier is out of the top two. People reported that AshLee was completely devastated, and visibly upset. AshLee was a big favorite from the beginning, and was so upset, she didn’t want ‘Bachelor’ Sean Lowe to walk her to the car. According to EOnline! AshLee talked to Sean the date before that “This man has literally healed my broken heart.” Sorry, AshLee!
How do you know if your personality and your partner’s personality match enough for the long haul?
Cupid’s Advice:
In the beginning of the relationship, you should do if you and your partner’s personality mesh well together. I mean, if it the relationship is working between you and your mate, your personalities match. If the beginning is relatively rocky, and you both are fighting often; you may want to reconsider the relationship. To make it for the long haul, your personalities should match enough to match. Cupid has some more advice:
1. Similarities: Your personalities generally stem from what you like and don’t like. This being said, you and your partners personalities will tie in together if you both like the same things. Of course, there are exceptions present. However, generally speaking, if you both love the same things in life, you should be able to make it for the long haul. If you don’t like the same things and find yourselves fighting on them, look for a different love.
2. Compromise: Some relationships are sometimes about compromise, yes it may not be entirely appealing to you; however, it happens. Knowing if you’ll make it through to the long haul also depends on how much you are willing to compromise. This is not the case if you and your mates personalities are entirely compatible. If they’re not however, you have to make a strong decision. Deciding whether or not you can compromise your way to the long haul with your beau, or walk out the front door looking for new love.
3. Passion: Passion can completely disregard personalities. With passion, you may able to get to the long haul without even considering you and your partners personalities. The problem which may ensue is when the passion fades out. This may not be for a long time however, it may be harmful when it does. If passion is the sole reason why you and your mate are running, attempt to look past it and foresee the future. Yes this is challenging however, it will help determine if you two can make it.
Have you and your partners personalities made it to the long haul? Explain below.