By Meghan Fitzgerald
The charming young and single royal, Prince Harry, was declared the number one most eligible bachelor by Town and Country. Although this hot headed lad has had his dilemmas with scandalous and risque behavior, Town and Country says, “He’s the wild-card royal, the naughty one, the one who goes out with rah women, hangs out with a fast crowd, downs too many drinks, and goes home at the wrong moment. That’s why we all like him best.” His outlandish behavior has scored him the throne of the most eligible behavior. According to People, Harry surpassed 39 other men, including George Clooney and Connor Kennedy.
How do you determine if someone is out of your league?
Cupid’s Advice:
Determining if another person is out of your league can be a very challenging aspect of life. Most of the ladies out there have heard about the rule, or the exception. They attempt to scrutinize the guy they may or may not have a crush on and figure out what the deal is. Is he into me? Is he too cool for me? Am I his type? Here are some ways to help decide:
1. You’re constantly chasing him: To every women, there will be that one guy that you crave, the one guy where you want to talk to every single day. The problem which ensues where the guy does not feel the same way, they express their feelings slyly, they rarely return phone calls, they don’t seem interested whatsoever. Unfortunately, for some odd reason women tend to want a guy more if they don’t want them. I can abide by this preposterous rule, it gives the guy you’re chasing a mystery about him. Where does he go? What does he do? Why can’t I have him? The best thing here, is to saddle down, get off your horse, and start looking for a different man who wants to be with you.
2. Expectations: Women tend to give men higher expectations, or give themselves higher or lower expectations. Simply, expectations tie in to numerous problems pertaining to “leagues.” These expectations given to men can make you think that he is entirely out of your league. This also works in reverse, where you give yourself lower expectations and think you’re not good enough for the other person. To entirely decide whether this person is our of your league, you need to throw expectations out of the window and go with your gut.
3. Confidence: Confidence ladies and gentlemen needs to be prominent. In the beginning, of course looming into this confident all-knowing being is more than difficult. However, after practice and assistance, your confidence will come naturally. Confidence is key when determining if someone is out of your league. If you want to go up to someone at a bar, do it. It is as simple as that. You need to saddle up, un-holster your confidence and get your flirt on. You could be missing out on the love of your life by degrading yourself or thinking you are better than someone else.
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