By Shannon Seibert
This could be the end for yet another Hollywood couple. Kendra Wilkinson is weighing out her options after her husband Hank Baskett’s shocking cheating scandal with transgender model Ava Sabrina London. The beautiful blonde just recently welcomed her second child with the ex-NFL star into the world, her daughter Alijah. According to UsMagazine.com Wilkinson is definitely considering filing, but she wants to review her options before she makes the decision to call it quits with her marriage.
How do you decide whether or not to call it quits on your marriage?
Cupid’s Advice:
You thought this man was your forever, and now you’re having doubts. Don’t fear, it’s normal for people to gal apart over the years, but it is a huge decision to separate completely. You don’t want to stay with someone who can’t make you happy, and you don’t want to make someone stay ‘for the kids’ or any other reason that they would feel pressured to. Take these criteria into your decision making before you decide what is best for both of you:
1. There is no love left: There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone, but you have to be smart enough to know the difference. Once you have been married to someone for a period of time, the butterflies, the heightened emotions may diminish but this is the person you chose to be with forever. If you cannot remember who that person was, then there is nothing left for you to build on.
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2. The trust is gone: You cannot be with someone who you cannot trust to make the right choices. If he’s keeping secrets, lying, or going behind your back, that is not fair to either of you. Same goes for yourself. If you cannot allow yourself to be fully open in your marriage, than you probably shouldn’t be in one. This is a partnership where both partners have to come together under a united front, and you can’t stand together when you keep trying to stand alone.
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3. You’ve exhausted every other option: Therapy didn’t work, reaching out to loved ones, trying time a part, none of it helped. This is probably because you’re at the stage when your hearts have already given up on one another. Once this happens, no matter what you try, you won’t succeed because deep down, you don’t want to. You want out, and maybe you’re just not brave enough to say it.
How did you decided to leave your partner? Share your story with us in the comments below!
