By Laura Seaman
It’s all over, folks! Andi Dorfman of The Bachelorette has made her final decision and is now engaged to… Josh Murray! The famous celebrity couple was cuddling and showing their love for one another on the live post-finale show, according to UsMagazine.com. However, that’s only one side of the story. Heartbroken and tossed aside, runner-up Nick Viall had a few things to say on the post-finale sit-down. “If you knew how in love with you I was, why did you make love with me?” he asked Dorfman. This was an awkward and shocking confession, making the rest of the conversation extremely uncomfortable. Luckily things became all love and cuddles once Viall was backstage and Murray took his place with new fiancé Dorfman.
It’s not only famous couples who find themselves with one too many dating options. What are some ways to chose between two people you’re attracted to?
Cupid’s Advice:
Having two people fight for your affections might sound nice at first (it’s definitely an ego boost), but be prepared for the extremely stressful task of choosing only one. This means ending any relationship you might have had with one person and committing yourself fully to the other. What makes this a million times harder is when you honestly care for them both! Cupid has some relationship advice to help make the decision easier:
1. Ask yourself which would make the better parent and spouse: If you’re looking for a serious commitment, this is a very important question. Maybe the person who’s the most fun isn’t the one who would make a good spouse. Maybe the one you’re most physically attracted to wouldn’t make a good parent. These are the things you need to plan for!
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2. Think about the kind of feelings you have: Your relationship with one person might be much more mature than the other, and you have to decide whether you want that mature relationship right now. One relationship might be more formal, whereas the other might be more casual and playful. You need to decide what kind of relationship you want and which partner can give that to you.
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3. Look back at your history with each of them. Have you spent more time with one than the other? If both people were to ask you out and made plans for the same night, which one would you be more inclined to turn down? Chances are, you have a gut feeling telling you which one to choose, and it might be a good idea to follow it.
Have you ever made the tough decision between two people like Andi did on The Bachelorette? How did it go? Let us know in the comments!
